202 1: choice determines fate, and environment makes life!

1. The river takes a detour instead of a straight road because it will encounter various obstacles on its way to the sea, some of which are insurmountable, so it has to make a detour. So do people. When encountering setbacks, there is no need to be pessimistic and disappointed, and don't stand still. But to keep a normal mind and take detours as another form of progress. In this way, we can finally reach the goal of life like those winding rivers!

2. The only thing you can grasp is to be your best self. I know maybe one day we will give up our dreams and forget the songs we love now, but it doesn't matter. I can be ordinary but I am not mediocre, I can be busy but I am not anxious, I can be familiar with the world but I am not sophisticated, I can be ignored but I will never ignore others, I don't care about success or not, but I care about my own growth.

Don't be the slave of fate, be the master of fate, and create your own happiness with your own hands. Don't be pessimistic about fate. What is life? Life is spring, summer, autumn and winter. Experience it, get used to it, and then use it well. With a good attitude, there will be a good life and a good fate, which will make you warm and open-minded. Life is a good attitude.

4. Seeds will be dried on concrete floor, drowned in water, and rooted and germinated in fertile soil. Choice determines fate, and environment makes life!

The goal of life is to go ahead and turn. The growth of life lies in learning and experience. Jealousy only makes sense in action. If you want to meet an imaginary person, you must be close to your imaginary self. If you want to have a life you have never had, you must do something you have never done.

6. When you succeed, everything you say is right. Because what everyone sees is the scenery on your stage and the halo on your head. When you don't succeed, how to explain it is wrong, because people believe that seeing is believing. So, don't talk about feelings with people, they only believe in the present. Don't tell people dreams, they only care about reality. So, just bury yourself in your work and don't waste time explaining.

Talk about inspirational: strive to develop strength, and attitude determines height.

1. If I insist on one thing, even if I have a cannon, I will not be defeated.

What I miss is not you, but the fatal experience you gave me-Han Yu.

Don't ask about a person's past. If he is a good man, like you, he really loved each other and paid for his previous feelings. It's not necessary or good for you to know this.

Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never give up.

There are only two choices in life: start over and be the protagonist of your own life; Still stand still and be a supporting role for others.

6, the weather affects the body, the body determines the thought, and the thought affects the mood.

7, hope: I like people don't get involved; More hope: people I don't like fuck off.

8. Dapeng Day flies in Wan Li with the wind. Lipper

9. The so-called maturity is from tadpoles to frogs, not from small tadpoles to big tadpoles.

10, I'm actually not withdrawn. I can say that I am cheerful and lively, but I'm lazy to run a relationship most of the time.

1 1, Gaozhi Mountain is short, and the road extends from the foot.

12. Of all the advantages, the advantage of patience is the least relevant to young men and women. pedlar

13, top people make difficult things simple.

14, strive to create strength, attitude determines height.

You are the mainstream! Your home is not mainstream! Does your mother punish yeast with cherry blossoms?

16, the pursuit of enjoyment is human instinct, but it should also be moderate.

17. If you don't leave after quarreling and scolding, that's love//

18, you can fail, you can't lose your mind. You can be disappointed, not desperate. As long as you persist in a miracle, you will get a miracle persistence.

19, nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it (Wang Ming is stubborn)

20. Only when you realize that you are strong can you be truly strong.

Mentality determines fate

Fate is determined by the mind (1)

People's fate depends on their mentality. Both the negative and positive mentality are experienced in life and can be grasped.

A mediocre person, driven by things, becomes a mechanized person. Only when your commander gives the order will he work nonstop, which will lead to irritability. If he can find happiness, negative emotions will disappear. In fact, happiness is the source of the sleeping sea in your heart. You just need to reach it in a canoe, and happiness will trickle like running water. So make up your mind that the difficulties you encounter are the cornerstone of success. But when difficulties are in front of you, it is not surprising that you can overcome them. What should you do if there are thousands of difficulties in Qian Qian on the road to success? I think you should pick up a sword and try your best to chop at that wall, and the difficulties will be solved, and the dawn ahead will greet you brilliantly.

A person should not make important choices when he is in a bad mood. The choices made at this time are often pessimistic and negative. When you are in a good mood, you make the opposite choice. I have read such a sentence in a book: actively create life and passively consume life. I think this sentence clarifies a truth, that is, mentality determines fate, so you must make a choice when you are in a good mood in order to get ahead. However, many people in life can't see hope, because of the lack of self-regulation consciousness, which leads to hope stranded on the sandbar on the other side. However, as long as you have perseverance, perseverance and faith, it is entirely possible to control the negative mentality and play a steady trickle.

Xunzi said: the heart is the king of form, and so is the Lord of God. A philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. The Buddha said that things change at will, the environment is created by the heart, and troubles are born by the heart. It is said that what kind of mentality a person has will produce what kind of results. Destiny is in your hands, see how you create it. Mentality is the key to success or failure, and success or failure is often between thoughts. However, having a positive attitude does not necessarily mean success, but you must take real action and break down the wall of difficulties with some ideas.

Therefore, life can not lose its positive attitude, because it is a canoe, carrying hope to the other side, carrying happiness. It is also a street lamp that illuminates and points the way forward.

Therefore, we should face life with a smile.

Mind decides fate (2)

Philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. An artist said: you can't extend the length of life, but you can expand its width; You can't change the weather, but you can control your mood; You can't control the environment, but you can adjust your mentality. Dickens said: A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom. Emerson said: The whole world gives way to a person who keeps moving towards his goal forever. Although these words are simple but classic and incisive, there is no doubt that what kind of mental state a person has will produce what kind of life reality.

Therefore, it is very important to adjust our mentality at any time in our life. A person can always have a good attitude, which can make him cheerful and generous, optimistic and open-minded; A person can always have a good attitude, so that he can overcome all kinds of difficulties in his work and life at any time, even all kinds of hardships we encounter; A person can always have a good attitude, which can make him indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life.

Having a positive, healthy and peaceful attitude can not only help us get health and happiness, but also help us get success and hope. So we must change the wrong understanding in the past, re-examine ourselves, adjust ourselves and be a harmonious person.

Mentality determines life. A philosopher once said: Your thoughts are your masters. In real life, we can't control our experiences, but we can control our mentality; We cannot change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality. Therefore, a person's success mainly depends on his mentality. Having a positive, healthy and progressive attitude is an essential quality for a person to succeed.

It is better to be angry than to live up to expectations. There are prosperity and adversity in life, and it is impossible to have adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. Being cocky because of prosperity or peak, or depressed because of adversity or trough, can't look at life correctly. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, instead of challenging fate and fighting hard, you will eventually achieve nothing.

Confidence is the only way to win. Throughout the ages, many people failed not because of incompetence, but because they were not confident. Self-confidence is a kind of strength and a kind of motivation. When a person is not confident, it is difficult to do things well; When a person can't do anything well, he will feel more insecure. This is a vicious circle. If you want to get out of this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure and establish firm self-confidence.

The heart must act more. The heart is not as good as action. Although action may not be successful, it will not be successful without action. A person's goal begins with a dream, a person's happiness is grasped from the mentality, and a person's success is realized in action. Only action is the source of strength for our success.

Normal mind is indispensable. Life can't be smooth sailing, there are successes and failures; There are happiness and loss. If we take these gains and losses and ups and downs in life too seriously, then life will never be calm and there will never be joy for us. Life should be pursued, but don't let the temporary lack affect our happy life every day.

Give up at the right time and you will gain something. Don't force things that don't belong to you, learn to give up at the right time. Giving up in time is a kind of wisdom. Giving up at the right time can make us more aware of our internal potential and external factors, adjust our tired body and mind, and become a happy and wise person.

Tolerance is a virtue. As the saying goes, take a step back and have a peaceful mind. This means that people need tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue that can make a person respected. Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a bright lamp, which can radiate radiant light in the dark and illuminate everyone's heart.

Learn to untie your own heart. The human mind is fragile and needs constant encouragement and comfort. Self-encouragement and self-praise will make the mind happy. Learning to untie the knot is to create a warm harbor for yourself, adjust your mentality in time and relax.

Don't treat setbacks as failures. In a person's life, everyone will inevitably encounter setbacks and bumps. The difference is that losers always regard setbacks as failures and are deeply frustrated by their courage to win every time; Winners never give up. Faced with setbacks again and again, they always say to themselves: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded yet.

Happiness is actually very simple. Some people say that happiness is the flower in spring, the shade in summer, the wild fruit in autumn and the snow in winter. In fact, happiness is all around us. Knowing smile, sincere handshake and heart-to-heart conversation are very happy things.

Mind decides fate (3)

Why some people are more successful than others, earn more money and have better jobs. And many people are busy with work but can only make a living. In fact, there is not much difference between people.

Many psychologists have found that this secret is people's mentality. A philosopher said: Your mentality is your real master. A great man once said: Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey.

About 40 years ago, two brothers lived in a poor village in Fujian. Unable to stand the harsh environment, they decided to leave their hometown and seek development overseas. Brother seems to be very lucky. He was sold to the rich San Francisco by slave owners, and his brother was sold to the Philippines, which was poorer than China.

Forty years later, the two brothers were lucky to get together again. They are not who they used to be. The eldest brother became an overseas Chinese leader in San Francisco, with two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store, and his descendants were full. Some of them inherited the mantle, while others became outstanding engineers and other scientific and technological professionals.

Where's the younger brother? He has become a world-famous banker, with a considerable number of forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia. After decades of hard work, they all succeeded. But why are there such differences in the career achievements of the two brothers?

My brother said that since we China people have no special talents in white society, we can only cook and wash clothes for white people with one pair of hands. In a word, we in China have taken all the jobs that white people refuse to do, and our lives are fine, but we dare not expect anything from our careers. For example, my children and grandchildren, although they have read a lot of books, dare not dream. They can only make a living by doing some intermediate technical work with peace of mind.

Seeing his brother's success, a brother can't help admiring his luck. The younger brother said there was no luck. When I first came to the Philippines, I did some rough work, but I found that some locals were stupid and lazy, so I gave up my career, gradually acquired and expanded, and my business gradually expanded.

This is the true struggle history of overseas Chinese. It tells us that it is not only the environment that affects our lives, but also the mentality that controls our actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines a person's vision, career and achievements.

Whether a person can succeed depends on his mentality. The difference between winners and losers is that winners always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. On the other hand, losers are mostly influenced by past failures and doubts.

Strive to create strength, attitude determines height.

1. If I insist on one thing, even if I have a cannon, I will not be defeated.

What I miss is not you, but the fatal experience you gave me-Han Yu.

Don't ask about a person's past. If he is a good man, like you, he really loved each other and paid for his previous feelings. It's not necessary or good for you to know this.

Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never give up.

There are only two choices in life: start over and be the protagonist of your own life; Still stand still and be a supporting role for others.

6, the weather affects the body, the body determines the thought, and the thought affects the mood.

7, hope: I like people don't get involved; More hope: people I don't like fuck off.

8. Dapeng Day flies in Wan Li with the wind. Lipper

9. The so-called maturity is from tadpoles to frogs, not from small tadpoles to big tadpoles.

10, I'm actually not withdrawn. I can say that I am cheerful and lively, but I'm lazy to run a relationship most of the time.

1 1, Gaozhi Mountain is short, and the road extends from the foot.

12. Of all the advantages, the advantage of patience is the least relevant to young men and women. pedlar

13, top people make difficult things simple.

14, strive to create strength, attitude determines height.

You are the mainstream! Your home is not mainstream! Does your mother punish yeast with cherry blossoms?

16, the pursuit of enjoyment is human instinct, but it should also be moderate.

17. If you don't leave after quarreling and scolding, that's love//

18, you can fail, you can't lose your mind. You can be disappointed, not desperate. As long as you persist in a miracle, you will get a miracle persistence.

19, nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it (Wang Ming is stubborn)

20. Only when you realize that you are strong can you be truly strong.

2 1, like a teacher, like a disciple, what kind of teacher teaches what kind of students.

22. You are the memory of my life, only worth being buried deeply.

23, guilty conscience is in line with human nature, but long-term persistence is the devil. Chaucer

24. Senior three is only one year.

25. Do it dutifully.

26. Learn the way of thinking from all winners and losers.

27. Time is a good medicine, which can cure all diseases.

28. Mastery is better than erudition (people are often short)

29. If you are poor, you will be immune to it, while if you are rich, you will help the world. (Mencius devoted himself to this)

30. Do you remember the person who didn't know what stomachache meant and dragged you to the canteen to ask for boiled water?

3 1, being at the end of the world is close at hand; Love is in the ink, love is in the heart.

32. Two people talk and one person can listen. However, three people can't talk to each other about the most serious things in the world that should be explored.

Remember, it's better to be smart than to play dumb.

34. You don't need a long sleep in life, but you will fall asleep after death.

35. Dreams never run away, but they always do.

36. When you clench your fist, fate is in your hands!

37. If there is a mountain, there is a 100 road through it.

38. Frustration is actually the tuition that success should pay.

39. An omnipotent person is really omnipotent, and an omnipotent expert is really omnipotent.

40. True glory can only be achieved through personal struggle.

4 1, I am the best, I will succeed.

42, cold, and then know that pine and cypress are dying. -The Analects of Confucius