What should I pay attention to when I go to my mother-in-law's house for dinner for the first time?

It is often said that the first time you go to the man's house, what the man's mother cooks for you represents her attitude towards you!

Although this statement is a bit secular and not absolute, it is undeniable that there is some truth.

Your future mother-in-law's attitude towards you may really be hidden in her first meal. Don't believe it.

I recently brushed a small video. A girl went to her boyfriend's house and something happened that made her very upset. The future mother-in-law cooked her a sumptuous meal with chicken, duck and fish, but she was not happy at all.

Because the girl is from Shanghai, she can't eat spicy food. Usually, food is sweet and light. In the future, all the dishes on my mother-in-law's table are peppers, none of which are light, but all of them are super spicy. Looking around, the table is full of red and green peppers, which are very bright!

Then the girl wants to know what this future mother-in-law means to her. I said I didn't pay attention and cooked a table of dishes. Seriously, she didn't make a dish that she could eat. ...

Most netizens in the comment area are advising her not to think blindly. Mother-in-law can cook this table, which shows that she attaches great importance to you. Old people in rural areas don't pay that much attention. They only know what's best for you, so they don't consider it comprehensively. Don't think too much!

Is that really the case? I personally don't think so. Really, even the rural elderly, she is not stupid, the average rural elderly know more about the world, it is impossible to think that the future daughter-in-law can not eat spicy food.

Many people know that Shanghainese can't eat spicy food. Even the old people don't know, so their son must have told him that this girl can't eat spicy food. Mom and dad, you should cook and take care of people's tastes. Don't put a bunch of peppers, so people can't eat them.

If the son confesses, the future mother-in-law will still go her own way and cook a table of Chili dishes according to her own taste. Do you think she attaches importance to this future daughter-in-law? Not only do you not pay attention to it, but you also have a strong sense of opposition, as if it were intentional. Do you think such in-laws can get along well?

How much do you think this boyfriend can love you if his son doesn't tell his parents? He doesn't even care about your taste. The details are true. He doesn't know this. He can forget it and not explain. You said that such a man loves you to death. Who believes it?

So when I go to the man's house for dinner for the first time like this, I can really see their attitude.

My parents are both rural elderly, not to mention the important role of future daughter-in-law. Even if there is an ordinary guest at home, my parents will cook according to the taste of the guests, whether they can eat spicy food or not.

In their words, when people come to my house as guests, they must eat well according to their tastes. Even if we don't like it, will this meal starve us to death or something? They think it is basic etiquette to cook according to guests' tastes. See, this is the simplicity and sincerity of rural people.

So do you still think it doesn't matter if your mother-in-law's cooking doesn't suit your taste in the future? Often a small matter can reflect a big problem.

If only your in-laws are dissatisfied with you and don't pay attention to it, such a family doesn't mean that you must not marry. Just marry carefully. After all, a man's attitude is the most important thing.

If it's your boyfriend, he doesn't pay enough attention to you and love you enough. He thinks these are trivial things. Then you really need to think about it. After all, it's a "small matter" like daily necessities after marriage, don't you think?