Why can't a married daughter spend the New Year at her parents' home?

Why can't a married daughter go back to her family for the New Year? The old farmer told the truth. 1, the water spilled by the married daughter after marriage, although still with the surname, is no longer a family member. In the countryside, it is said that the married daughter spilled water. In other words, after the daughter gets married, she will follow her husband instead of her father. The idea of son preference is still very serious in the older generation in rural areas. For the older generation, sons are family members and daughters are family members. This is also the reason why many prostitutes suffer indignities in their husbands' families after marriage and dare not go back to their mothers' homes to complain. 2. it will ruin the feng shui of your home. For China people, China New Year is the biggest festival of the year. On the 30th and 1st day of the lunar calendar, God (the deceased ancestor of his family) will be invited, but when God is invited, people from his family must be present. If there are outsiders, God will not come back. And the married daughter belongs to someone else's family. Therefore, during the Chinese New Year, neither New Year's Eve nor the first day of junior high school can be celebrated at home. Otherwise, it will ruin the feng shui of our family, and the coming year will be unlucky. 3. Destroy the relationship between husband and wife. When a prostitute gets married, she becomes her husband's family. During the New Year, she pays attention to family reunion, so her niece will spend the New Year at her husband's house. If the daughter goes back to her mother's house for the New Year, on the one hand, it is disrespectful to her husband's family, which shows that she has conflicts with her husband's family, on the other hand, it will also break the financial path for her husband's family, and the whole family will have an afterlife in the coming year. So after becoming a wife, I will spend the New Year at my husband's house, and I can't go back to my mother's house for the New Year. And the taboo of these married daughters going back to their parents' home: 1. Avoid going back to your parents' house on the first day of the first month, which is the first day of the new year. New Year's Day is a holiday for family reunion. According to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the New Year's Day. Because in the concept of people in these areas, married daughters are like spilled water, and they need to get together with their in-laws on the first day of the New Year. If you go back to your parents' house on the first day of the New Year, it will cause the situation that your husband's family can't reunite, so it is naturally inconvenient to go back to your parents' house. 2, avoid going back to your mother's house on the fifteenth day of the first month. The fifteenth day of the first month is also the first full moon in a year, fearing that the daughter-in-law will not reunite with her family. So it's usually the second day of the first month and the sixteenth day of the first month. In order to take care of the reunion and celebration of both parties to the marriage. There is a saying in Luyi County that "please (girl) on the 16th day of the first month, and deliver it on the 2nd of February. Don't get sick".