Always chatting with each other and talking about love all the time, which leads many people to ignore me. Is it because of loneliness? This way others don’t know, but it leads to more loneliness?

No, it’s your own problem!

Basic meaning

Characteristics

Solitary refers to the personality expression of being lonely and unsociable.

Solitary often manifests as being alone, living in isolation, feeling bored, wary and contemptuous of others; having nothing to do with oneself, being indifferent to everything, and appearing to be self-imprisoned; if you interact with others, you will also Lack of enthusiasm and energy, appearing careless and perfunctory. Sometimes they seem to be more active, but they give people a artificial feeling, as if they are a bit nervous, so people are reluctant to take the initiative to interact with them, and they will feel like they are sitting on pins and needles when they have to get along with them. There are not many congenital factors for a withdrawn personality. It is mainly caused by the negative influence of various subjective and objective environments the day after tomorrow, which leads to the psychological distortion of being in a depressed state for a long time. The withdrawn character is caused by a combination of many bad psychology. Therefore, as long as the key points of various psychological symptoms are found, human intervention can be carried out in sequence, so that the withdrawn character can be greatly improved, so that a person's character can become healthy and bright.

Causes of isolation

1. Traumatic experiences in childhood

Research shows that parental divorce is one of the important factors threatening the mental health of contemporary children. In addition, harsh treatment by parents, bullying, ridicule and other negative stimuli from peers make children prematurely accept the negative experience of trouble, worry, and anxiety, resulting in a negative mood and even inducing mental illness. Without maternal love or an overly harsh and rough education method, children will not receive the warmth of the family and will become timid, inferior and indifferent, overly sensitive, distrustful of anyone, and ultimately develop a withdrawn character.

2. Frustration in communication

Due to the lack of necessary social communication skills and methods, they are rejected or attacked in interpersonal communication, such as ridicule, complaint, reprimand, etc. , so that their autonomy is harmed and they close themselves off. The less contact you have with others, the less your social communication skills will be exercised, and the result will be more withdrawn.