My parents always help me with good reasons. How should I solve it?

First of all, no matter what, you must feel that your parents are doing your best. Every parent in the world loves their children, and no one will hurt us sincerely, just expressing love in different ways.

We have no reason to ask our parents to deal with the problem exactly the same as us. Besides, they can't be like us After all, different times and different growth environments make their thinking and vision more different.

Take my parents for example. I think they are very open-minded, but sometimes I am more or less dissatisfied with them.

Because I really don't want them to interfere in my affairs, especially my married life. For example, my husband came to my house last Spring Festival, when I had an argument with him over trifles.

In fact, even if you are not at home, you will usually fight around the edges. Originally, we had our own way of dealing with it, and we will make up soon, but my parents have to take care of it in the middle.

Originally, the problem was simple, but when they stepped in, they all pointed the finger at me. Then my sister stepped in. The three of them talked to each other, and then they called me names.

Because I feel wronged, it's my husband's fault. When they were all against me, I retorted and wrangled, as if I were making a scene with my parents, but it was not like this.

We didn't fight at all. I was just arguing with them, but in my husband's opinion, I was disrespectful to my parents, and later told me not to talk to my parents in this tone in the future.

So from the beginning, my parents were helping me. Their starting point is for our own good, but the trouble that followed does not mean that my husband and I can solve it calmly.

But I can't argue with my parents because of this, I can only communicate with them privately, and when I find the right opportunity to tell them that my children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Let them worry about their own affairs and take good care of their health is the greatest help to us!

Since then, my parents have never cared about me and my husband. So I also hope you can communicate with your parents patiently. In fact, as parents, they are not worried that we will no longer let them take care of our affairs. What they care about most is the way we communicate with them.

Of course, some troublesome parents are not excluded. How can I put it? I have a classmate whose parents also like to care about their children. My classmate was very mad, and he took the initiative to communicate with his parents countless times without results. Later, he became smart.

Don't talk if you can, and hide if you can. Of course, it doesn't mean you have to be so disobedient. Maybe if we don't let them know, they won't worry every day.

In fact, in another sense, it is also a manifestation of filial piety! Or when our parents haven't asked us anything, we take the initiative to tell them, and in a clever way.

This requires you to have a higher emotional intelligence to handle it. So sometimes it's good to be clever in front of your parents. In a word, we should not force our parents to change for us.