Is it really a big burden for men to get married?

That depends on the definition of this burden. If you need to work harder to make money after marriage, or you need to have children, support your parents, mortgage and car loan, I think this is not a burden, but a necessary condition for marriage.

. The burden is that these things make you weak and you can't do it. If you can do well in all aspects, there is basically no burden in marriage, at least in your own feelings, you won't feel that the family and things behind you are dragging you down.

So as far as my own marriage is concerned, I don't think it has brought me any burden. Although marriage means responsibility, it is a sweet burden for everyone with a family to do well one by one and give their families the best life within their own ability. How many people are busy in marriage, just for more laughter at home.

Maybe you'll say I'm talking about the burden. But inside, I feel very happy. Can a normal burden make people feel happy? Get married, couple, have a baby, give him the best conditions, and consider having a second child if you feel that you still have the ability.

. Cars and houses depend on individuals, so convenient transportation doesn't mean you have to buy a car. Electric cars can also bring great convenience to our lives. As for the house, it would be nice to have a place to live. If you have more money for a bigger house, it is good to be content with the status quo and have no money.

Therefore, it depends on human efforts. I choose to get married and create better conditions for my family within my power. Although I am a little tired, I never think it is my burden. Family harmony, obedient children, and a decent life. This is my idea and my achievement. Marriage has not brought me a burden.