"Sister-in-law, I will give you all my old clothes and toys, and you can buy new clothes for my son." What do you think of such a sister?

Married for five years, has a three-year-old son, and has a happy and stable family life. My husband is also trying to make my mother and I live a good life, but there will always be some annoying trivial things in life from time to time. My husband has a sister. When I married her, she was married, but she always went back to her family. When we first got married, we lived with our in-laws.

My sister-in-law often comes back and stays for many days. She has a sweet mouth and can talk, which makes her mother-in-law very happy. And I, an idiot, only know that I seldom talk at work. Sister-in-law's family is very rich, but she always feels that she is not doing well. When she comes to her parents' house, she will bring a lot of things. I don't mind her taking my in-laws' things, but I'm a little unhappy that she took mine.

For example, during the Chinese New Year, many relatives came to my house and brought many gifts. Sister-in-law will also go back to her mother's house on the second day of the New Year's Day, and every time she brings less gifts than she takes away. But whenever there is something, my mother-in-law is anxious to take it away from her. After the elder sister got pregnant, she moved back to live directly for five months. I have taken care of her for five months.

Later, when she gave birth to a child, she left the child to her mother-in-law. It wasn't long before I got pregnant. After giving birth, the mother-in-law has no time to take care of her grandson. Every time I see my mother-in-law holding her sister's child, I get angry and force my husband to share it. I thought I was out of sight and out of mind, but my mother-in-law always brought her grandson to my house to eat rice and play with toys.

Relatives around me sent many clothes, blankets and other gifts. When my sister saw them, she said that my child was too young to use at all, and she took it away without asking my advice. She also wants to take away the car where children usually drink milk powder for points. Sometimes I really don't want to pay attention to such relatives, but I just can't get rid of them. I can't see how much I bother her.

A few days ago, my sister came to my house again. This time she brought a big package. I thought she bought a lot of things for my son, but I was still very moved. Who knows, she surprised me by opening the parcel. These are all leftover clothes and some old toys worn by his son. Sister-in-law said that her son didn't need these, but they were for my son.

But when I saw it, these toys and clothes were dirty and torn. Sister-in-law went on to say that I don't have to buy clothes and toys for my son in the future. His son will give me what he wears and plays with, and I will use the money saved to buy his son new clothes and toys. It's more cost-effective. I was so angry that I said directly to her, "You think I'm stupid! Why should my son wear the old one and your son wear the new one! "

I've heard so many emotional stories and learned a lot about great little sisters-in-law, but it's the first time I've met someone like your sister. Seeing what your sister has done, even a good-tempered person can't stand it. It is best not to have such relatives. Simply asking them will only make people feel disgusted. I wonder if your husband knows her. I don't know your husband's attitude. I think you should discuss it with your husband and let him know your grievance. If you can, try not to associate with your sister or less.