Seven-character poem in memory of Father.

You're gone

Can you go? Don't worry.

Sitting in the field

Looking at the land I cherish all my life.

You're gone

Can you feel at ease when you leave?

Didn't leave a word

No one is around you.

You left?

Like a breeze?

So quietly left forever.

When I saw you,

You have been lying in a box made of several boards.

Very peaceful

Like a sleeping child

"Dad!"

No matter how I cry.

You never opened your eyes to look at me again.

"Dad!"

No matter how I cry.

You will never use your rough and warm hands again.

Touch my head and pat me on the shoulder.

……

finally

You've been waiting for loess all your life.

Bury your body deeply

Your touch

A kind and conscientious soul

I don't know.

Where was it put in heaven?

at present

The only thing I can do

Tomb-Sweeping Day or Cold Clothes Festival every year.

Take my child to the grave.

Burn some paper money for you

Willful tears

Always at this moment

Moisten your eyes and blur your vision. ...

The advantage of a father is that he is open-minded, has a wider scope of practice than his mother, and is more rational and far-sighted on some major issues. Moreover, mature fathers are very adaptable. So I think the role of father in the family is mainly two.

One is to establish a good family style, and the other is to be a good director of family relations. Father doesn't have to care about everything like mother, but he must be able to ease family conflicts and reduce conflicts at critical times. Being a father is also "doing something and not doing something."

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-Father