When is a person the humblest, the most pitiful and the most disgraceful?

When a person is most humble, he really loves another person.

May I miss her day and night. The sky can't stop the clouds, the trees can't stop the wind, and God can't stop people from thinking about people. The mountain is heavy, the water is far away, the wind is careless, and the rain is decadent. I've been through wind, frost, rain and snow just to see you.

Suddenly I received a phone call, a text message, or an expression in WeChat, and I was panicked and ecstatic, for fear of missing it. Even a scolding and blaming is sweet.

Without you, I am a lonely child. I sleep and live with sadness. Without you, I am not happy. Wear the clothes and shoes you wear.

Cross every street to be your shadow, read the books you read, watch the TV you watch, and miss your sleeping posture.

When I miss you, draw what you might look like on paper.

Once you love someone, you will humble yourself to the dust, but you will never blossom, ever. ...

When a person is at the lowest point, he is not poor. The poor can live alone, and the poor can live proudly. I think the most unconscionable thing is asking for help. Let me talk about my personal experience now.

I was admitted to the sales department of a small county, only to find that this is a huge pit. The contract was signed for five years. During these five years, you are not allowed to go anywhere else, but you can only take an examination of civil servants in this county. As I am 32 years old, I won't have a chance to take the exam in five years. It doesn't matter if you transfer, you can only retire in this hellhole. I really hate this place, so I decided to take the exam and go back to my hometown. In the second year, I was admitted to a unit in my hometown in the written interview, but the unit leader held the contract and documents against me when signing the documents, and I just didn't sign them. I went to see him every day and asked him, but he was indifferent. Seeing that time has passed, it doesn't matter if he is in a foreign land. He is going to give up. Later, when my mother found out, she went to the leader with the local products at home, and the leader still took the documents to talk about things. My mother was in a hurry and knelt in front of the leader and asked him to sign it. Seeing this scene, my legs were numb, I felt my head was blank, and tears flowed out instantly. The leader quickly pulled his mother up, and her mother said she would kneel in front of him if she didn't sign. Later, when he signed it, I saw that the leader's face was full of fat intestines. At that time, I felt so humble. I swore that the dignity I lost on him would be repaid ten times one day. This oath will remain unchanged for life and is the only motivation for my struggle.

I used to take care of the elderly in the intensive care unit for two months. At that time, the old man had a cerebral hemorrhage and walked through the gate of hell. Fortunately, he survived. In the past two months, I have seen more life and death. People are carried out almost every day, and there are always cries. These elderly patients almost lost consciousness and were naked. The nurse patted the back and lifted the quilt, and both men and women were exposed naked in front of everyone, especially the invited nurses. The patient has no dignity at all. A familiar elder had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and sent his family to the hospital. Because the hospital bed was full, the nurse uncovered the quilt in the corridor and inserted a catheter to conduct urine. Under the eyes of the public, it is really speechless. I'm not talking about nurses. After all, saving lives is the first priority, but this situation is rare in western hospitals. People do a good job of protecting patients' privacy, and ICU will not let patients' families accompany them. I hope we drink less and exercise more. Health is the most important thing. If that is the case, I still hope that we will not be treated excessively and let ourselves die with dignity.

I have no dignity at the moment.

The real thing, my own thing. I have known each other for 9 years and have been married for less than one year. Nothing happened before I registered. Last year, I registered when I was sick. I was touched, but I didn't think about it. At the end of last year, he began to cheat. I spent the fifteenth day of the first month with that woman. On March 2, I found myself ill again. I talked to him about the divorce. He came back on March 8, just on impulse. But I know it's not. His expression told me that he was moved. I didn't know what kind of person that woman was at that time. After my investigation, I now know that she is three years older than me, 42 years old, and has two sons, but the conditions are much higher than mine. She has three houses and runs her own business, with an annual income of 200,000. He won't let me go because the woman didn't accept him, but they are together, and the reason why I haven't sued for divorce yet is because all my money has been invested in him in recent years. At present, I am carefully pretending to care about our feelings, and I will continue to let nature take its course and slowly recover my money. At this time, my pride was gone, and I was humble. Sometimes it seems to be a happy time to go, but how can I live without money? The key is mine. Why should I be cheap? It took nine years to see the true face of love rat. Anyway, I'm still going on, looking forward to the day when I will do heavy work as soon as possible.

My mother lives the most pitiful life without dignity. She is 93 years old and completely demented. She wore her pants for a while and then took them off, so she couldn't take care of herself when she urinated. A few months ago, she had bedsores and was skinny. It's up to us to control her appetite for food. She was afraid of not eating enough, so she had diarrhea all over the bed. Put the diaper on her and she will tear it off and tear it to pieces. We should be in trouble. We don't think she means anything. We just try to cry when we see her do that, and sometimes we cry when we think about it. When I was a child, my mother was very capable and clean, and now she is really suffering. . . . . . . . . . . Forget it. Tears live up to expectations.

Hello, everyone, I'm Mu Yiyang who loves to answer questions.

What is dignity? Personally, I think it is a face. As the saying goes, the tree lives in the skin and the man lives in the face, which is to safeguard his dignity.

But many things, people really can only tear their faces and have no dignity at all.

Tell a short story.

I have a friend who has been a beauty in our class since childhood. She is handsome and gentle.

When I grow up, I sometimes think that she will live well, because a beautiful girl was born to win at the starting line.

But the result really surprised us.

If she hadn't introduced herself at the class reunion, I wouldn't have recognized her at all, and the whole person had completely changed.

Not only is he much older than our classmates of the same age, but his voice is thick and loud, and his hair explodes like Zhang Fei, showing no sign of tenderness.

Later, after listening to other students' comments, I realized that her experience of more than ten years was really unbearable for most people.

First of all, her father is seriously ill. She is the eldest daughter of the family. After graduating from junior high school, she entered the society and started various jobs. Because she wanted to make money, she really did everything, but in the end she never left her father. She owes a lot of money.

When I paid off my debts, I met my husband again. She thought she had found something to rely on, but she had no idea that her husband was a soft rice. Even if she eats and drinks, she is lying to her.

This is good, because she has a child, and the child is everything in her life. She doesn't care about children at all, but God likes to torture people. Her only child has leukemia.

At that time, her husband directly told her to give up, saying that they were still young and could be reborn, the child could not be cured, and the money was gone.

She had a big fight with her husband and knelt before the doctor and said she would do anything to save the child. She sold the house to pay the medical bills, which is not enough for her to sell herself. As long as she could save her children, dignity was nothing to her at that time!

When she informed her three children that they were critically ill, she bought a bottle of pesticide and put it at the door of the ward. She told all her friends that as long as the child was hopeless, she would just throw it away.

Fortunately, the ending is still very happy. The child is sixteen now. For ten years, she lived a ghost-free life. Although there was no divorce in the end, the husband who ate soft rice still wanted to cheat her.

However, my classmates don't seem to care at all She told us that after living that hellish life, plain is the best. She only wants her son to grow up and send her this last journey as a mother, and she is very satisfied.

Tell me about me, my 20 18 is really the worst in my life. After I got out of prison with hundreds of thousands of debts, my daughter-in-law ran away, which made me a little suspicious of my life. Ten years of marriage is difficult. First, I was ill and hospitalized, then I resigned and went home to run a factory for three years, then went bankrupt, and then went to Dalian to find a way out. In the meantime, my daughter-in-law is quietly with someone else. How hard do you think my blow is? When I gave up completely, she brought the child back to me. I think I forgave her for the sake of the children, but more than a year later, I went to prison for debt problems. When I came out, I found that she had a fight with someone else and she ran away again. Now I am leading the children, but I really don't feel bad! The child is innocent! I feel that I am now the most humble, pitiful and helpless time. I really can't believe women. What do you think I should do in the future?

Men are easy to learn bad when they have money. Li Ping and Wang Bo live in the same village. After they got married, their son took care of the elderly and they came to work on the construction site. At the beginning, they all worked as coolies, tied steel bars, set up templates and made concrete. Although Wang Bo had little culture, he was quick-witted and talkative, and was promoted as the leader of coolies. With his mastery of business, he began to do small business and made it bigger and stronger bit by bit, becoming a famous contractor in the village. After buying a house and a car in the city, Li Ping took her children to school in the city. The village finally flew out of golden phoenix.

After more than ten years of hard work, my son went to high school, and Wang Bo's business grew bigger and bigger. The house became a villa, and the car was replaced by a big Ben. Li Ping stopped going to the construction site and took care of the old man and son at home.

Li Ping's nephew was also transferred to the construction site as a technician, and overheard some anecdotes about his uncle, saying that he kept a female college student. The nephew was dubious, so he installed an invisible camera in his uncle's car, and the truth restored the scandal. Li Ping got the news from his nephew and fainted on the sofa.

Li Ping led people to find the female college student. Tearing and beating are inevitable, but Wang Bo wants to divorce her. That year, my son happened to be in the second year of high school, which was a critical period. Li Ping's action not only failed to keep Wang Bo, but exposed their secret love affair and officially moved underground. Wang Bo made an unexpected public appearance with female college students. Before the original match agreed to divorce, Xiao San grabbed the class and grabbed the position.

Ping Li acquiesced in her husband's not coming home. Every time my son asks, he says there are many social parties on the construction site. A few months later, I heard that Xiaosan gave birth to a son for her husband. In order to save this marriage, Li Ping stopped being a mistress. San Xiao called Ping Li in the second month, demanding that she and Wang Bo must divorce, and asking Ping Li to apologize to her, otherwise she would go to her son in high school and tell him that his father had abandoned his mother and him, and the happy marriage had already existed in name only. In order not to affect his son, Li Ping had no choice but to agree to San Xiao's request.

Divorce is very simple, just go to the Civil Affairs Bureau, but if you apologize to San Xiao, it will be an anecdote of the ages, and you have invaded other people's husbands and family property, and you have to apologize for it. Where is justice? Just to hide his son, just to prevent San Xiao from harassing his son, Li Ping decided to apologize.

When Ping Li walked into San Xiao's house and bowed her head and said "I'm sorry", she felt that she was the humblest, most pitiful and least self-respecting moment.

Friends, is there anything more damaging to self-esteem than this?

It is the most undignified to beg when you can get it; But sometimes you can bend and stretch.

In peacetime, it is most pitiful to fail to stop and change in time, which will eventually lead to tragedy; This is what the poor must hate.

As for humbleness, people in the system feel more, or the two modes of gear, high above and low in status can be described as humbleness. I have never experienced the feeling of being humble.

My father got cancer and hypopharyngeal cancer two years ago. It was a malignant tumor and needed immediate surgery. When I learned the pathological results, my brain went blank. I feel that the world has stopped for a few seconds at this moment, and it is too late to be sad. I immediately took care of my work and went home.

Dad is young, in his fifties, and he is very strong. He did a lot of hard work when he was young. Our sisters call him a stubborn old man in perfect health. My sister and I are far apart. My mother and father live at home and can't live without each other for life. Very happy. Mom has no opinion. Everything is discussed with us. Such a big thing happened suddenly that everyone could not accept it. Dad worked hard for half his life, and my sister and I just had a steady rise in family business, which happened when they should have fun.

I kept it from him from the examination to the operation. Tell him it's a cyst and cut it open. Dad is a simple man. He thinks he is in such good health that there will definitely be no big problem. On the first night of the operation, my sister and I took my father to a small restaurant opposite the hospital to eat roast beef. While talking, we still had a good time. My sister and I scrambled to take funny photos with my father with beauty software. My mother said jealously, Dad, look at you two little lovers. You are so beautiful. I seem to be bleeding inside, and I must feel the same way.

Just when the doctor finally decided on the surgical plan, the doctor said two results; 1, if the cancer does not affect the hemilarynx after incision, hemilaryngectomy can be done, and you can still speak loudly after recovery, but the recurrence rate is high. 2. Cancer can't be separated, so it needs total laryngectomy, so I can't speak for myself in the future. At that time, my sister and I were silent. Faced with survival and dignity, we finally chose survival.

The operation went smoothly, and the pathologist did a total laryngectomy during the operation. Dad was the first to enter the operating room and the last to come out. Never feel longer than any other day, but inexplicably calm. I have always felt that my father didn't enjoy the blessings of my sister and me, and he won't make us regret it.

My family took good care of us, and Dad recovered faster than anyone else. We are very happy. But when my father asked him when he could talk, I was too sad to look him in the eye. Everyone coaxed him to recover. In this way, day after day, 20 17 Spring Festival, we watched the Spring Festival Gala together in the hospital. That night, we felt particularly at home, that is, the happiest feeling of our family, which has nothing to do with money and status.

My sister and I are not well-off and do our best for our father. Fortunately, my father recovered well after operation. The discharged doctor suggested radiotherapy. We looked up all kinds of information, discussed it repeatedly with the doctor and decided not to do it. At that time, I didn't think about money, but discussed it with my father with our IQ, cognition and respect. Dad's illness has a particularly serious side effect of radiotherapy, and the skin on his neck is thin. Severe skin ulceration and edema will occur during radiotherapy, which will affect eating. At that time, it was not a question of saying or not, but a lack of dignity in the face of illness. At that time, there was no right to choose. Going home, according to the doctor's prescription, I have been giving injections to improve my immunity and eating a lot of things. Maybe my father is a miracle. At the same time, all my sick friends have recovered, and my father is still strong. People who have been idle all their lives go out to work. At ordinary times, we often enlighten my father for fear that he will feel that he can't speak and feel inferior. Once I asked my dad if he would blame us if I didn't tell him when my sister and I made a decision. On the contrary, dad's mentality is very good. It's better not to talk than to break your arm and leg. It's nice to be able to walk and eat by yourself. Dad also said that he was very satisfied with my two children, my sister and me. God, my happiness is bursting.

Dignity is self-giving. Even in the face of cruel reality, do we live with dignity and face it with positive energy? The reality that can be faced is called exercise, and the reality that cannot be faced is called tempering. I hope we can study hard so that when we encounter setbacks and hardships, we will not shrink back, fear or be confused.

I wrote a passage that I really want to share with you: The most important discovery about happiness is that happiness does not lie in any objective conditions such as wealth, health or even community, but in the gap between objective conditions and subjective expectations.

From-a brief history of mankind

I just have no dignity now, and I can't get it back.

Growing up, I didn't enjoy a day's happiness, nor did I enjoy what others had. I never went to school, I never had a wedding, and my father didn't help me. I've been fooling around all day and I can't help at all. Because of illness, I was ruined, with only one breath left. My wife left with the children. I love my children and my wife so much that I can leave. When I was seriously ill, my father was still in second place. My life is not long. I can't worry about my old mother. He suffered a lot for me, and I can't bear to part with her. We have no money, not even for food, no house, nothing. I really have nothing now, and there is no room for turning over. Death is a matter of time. This is destiny.