Mother-in-law only wants her daughter-in-law to spend money at her husband's house. In short, it destroyed the fragile relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

What did some mother-in-law say? Obviously, at first she nodded in agreement with you to marry her son, but it's funny to see you unhappy after marriage. If you want to say how many bad intentions these mother-in-law have, they may not, and naturally they don't want to break up their son's marriage. In other words, she tried to control herself, put herself in the wrong position and didn't understand that her son was married. The hostess of a small family is a daughter-in-law, not herself, and always wants to have the final say in this small family. My mother-in-law is obviously such a person. Some time ago, I didn't completely hold back and had a quarrel with her. Figure | Network

When I was a child, my family conditions were not so good, and I had a younger brother. I haven't studied since I graduated from junior high school It's not that my parents prefer boys to girls, but that my grades are not good, and I think I'm a girl's family, and I can still get married even if I don't have much education. But my brother, a big man, is different. If you don't study hard, if you don't have a good job, you won't get a wife in the future. Because I was young, I was unstable at first, and I did all the dirty work. It was several years before I settled down and started selling.

In the sales job, as long as you have solid professional knowledge, are willing to endure hardships and work hard, the income is really good. My husband and I met at work. Because I have worked hard outside since I was a child, my personality is relatively strong, and my husband belongs to a relatively dull personality. We all have a good impression on each other, and it is natural to get along and be together. Soon after we fell in love, I saved a little money and had some resources, so I started a company with my friends. Because we were serious and responsible, the company soon got on the right track.

After my career is stable, I am not young, and I have a good relationship with my husband. Marriage is naturally put on the agenda. At first, my mother told me that you are a rural girl. Even if you have a house and a car now, I am afraid that your mother-in-law will look down on you and think you are tall. I laughed at my mother, too. I said I didn't take advantage of my husband's family, and I didn't expect his family to support me. What is a climber? But then I realized that my mother-in-law might really think so.

My mother-in-law doesn't believe her son. She always thought that her son bought this house and car. So she is not very satisfied with me, but her son likes it and she can't help it. Besides, I think my manners are in place and my mouth is sweet. Later, my mother-in-law became more and more kind to me and nodded in agreement with our marriage. When talking about marriage, parents didn't want anything, and the atmosphere was relatively harmonious. I understand that my husband doesn't have much money at home and he doesn't have much savings.

Thinking that I have a house anyway, I don't have to put pressure on my husband's family to buy a wedding room, so I will live in the original house after marriage. My mother-in-law offered to live with us, and I agreed. At first I actually thought it was not easy to be a mother-in-law. My son lost his husband when he was only a few years old. In order to avoid his son being wronged by his remarried family, he didn't remarry. I really want to be a good wife and give my mother-in-law a happy old age.

But I think things are too simple. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually very subtle, and some mother-in-law will appreciate that you are not good to her. So I agree that my mother-in-law and I are under the same roof. In fact, it is very wrong. It's not that I don't know, I just haven't thought about it. Not long after I got married, I found that my mother-in-law and I are both strong-tempered people and like to have the final say at home. Therefore, in this small family, we always have conflicts because of some trivial things.

Just a few words, not a quarrel, because I always remember that she is an elder and my husband's mother. So at the end of every event, she is in charge. My husband really persuaded his mother. After all, I'm actually very kind to his mother in his eyes. But the effect is very little. My mother-in-law even thinks it was instigated by her daughter-in-law because her son helped her daughter-in-law. Complaining in front of some uncles and aunts in the community about how bad my daughter-in-law is to her. Fortunately, our community is small and everyone has known me for a long time.

Besides, judging from her mother-in-law's expression, it's not that I didn't let her live a good life. Every time these words reach my ears, I am angry, but I don't quarrel with my mother-in-law. I should be filial. But this time, I really felt that my mother-in-law had gone too far and began to think seriously. Mother-in-law is so selfish, is it in our nature or my constant compromise?

In fact, every holiday, I will take my mother-in-law and husband out to play. If I have more holidays, I will go further and vice versa. My mother-in-law is always happy. My parents are here. Because I have a younger brother, I always give some money to my younger brother to take my parents out for a trip. This time, I thought it was many days. Anyway, my parents didn't want my money, saying that I had been married for two years and it was time to get pregnant and have children. There are many places to spend money in this child's life. He put the money away by himself, and his parents are enough. There is no need to give it.

So I booked a 6-day domestic tour package at the travel agency, and my parents and younger brother also booked it. At first, my mother-in-law heard that I was going to take her out for a trip this holiday, or the place she wanted to go before, and she was very happy. But soon I heard from my conversation with my husband that my parents and my brother went together. She was a little unhappy, but she didn't say anything. I didn't pay attention either. But she had no choice. A few days later, she asked me how much it would cost to go out to play this time. I didn't take it seriously, so I naturally told her the truth.

That's great. When my mother-in-law asked for tens of thousands, she was immediately unhappy. It is not easy for my son to earn some money. You're ruined. Pay back the money quickly. Of course not. I know in my heart that my mother-in-law is distressed by money this time, mainly because she is distressed to spend money on my parents and younger brother. If you really care about money, I took her out several times before, but she didn't say anything.

Seeing that I refused to refund, my mother-in-law was even more angry. She found fault with me and said, I am your mother-in-law, and how to spend the money at home is up to me. Why are you so decadent? How did your parents educate you? It's really rude. As soon as I heard that my parents were involved, I was angry, and I scolded her directly: Just because all the expenses in this family are my money, your son's salary is really only enough for his own daily expenses. You don't have to go if you don't want to. You stay at home with your son. Anyway, I'm taking my parents and my brother out for a trip.

A few days later, I kept my promise. I really only returned the money from my husband and mother-in-law, and took my parents and brother to travel. It's been some time since I came back. My mother-in-law and I haven't talked yet, and my husband is in a dilemma. But I'm too lazy to say that it's useless to make concessions again and again before. I feel that my mother-in-law is pushing her luck. In this case, so selfish, my money can only be spent on her and her son, and I also think her son has earned all my money. After that, let your son support you. I don't care. I don't think I'm wrong