I quarreled with my father, and I said a few harsh words, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.

In fact, you can come here and ask, or show that you have regrets in your heart, but you can't erase them from your face. After all, you are 20 years old and don't want to be the same as before, that is, as the saying goes, "wings are hard", hehe, you don't want to hear it. Your father's attitude and education towards you are a little rough, but I think he is a leader. He may have brought his uncompromising style home, and unconsciously it is reflected in you. You think you are living a good life now, but have you ever thought that if your father is generous or even indulgent, maybe you think he is very kind to you, but will you be a prodigal son or something in people's eyes today? Will people in society be as tolerant as their parents? If you are willing to sit down and have a good talk with your father, it shows that your attitude is really bad, but it also shows your own point of view. I hope your father can respect your wishes even if he enters the social practice, step by step, otherwise you won't be able to do it well. In addition, you can also talk about the negative impact of your father's previous education methods on your mind. I think your father would rather you communicate like this than say "it's worth 500 yuan". Do as you would be done by. You don't want your father to be rude to you. Aren't you doing the same thing now? Think about whether you should be nicer to your parents. I used to hate the bondage of my parents, and I would talk back to them because of trifles. But in the process of raising children now, I often think that my parents raised me so hard. Why can I easily forgive the irrationality and harm of some friends and colleagues, but I can't be more tolerant of my relatives? Perhaps because I am sure that they love me, I am subconsciously unscrupulous. I intend to communicate with my parents this Spring Festival to express my gratitude to them, although I was beaten and scolded a lot when I was a child, hehe. Finally, I want to say that we can't stay with our parents for many years. Face is not worth mentioning at all here. When we encounter difficulties in the future, only our parents will always stand behind us.