A daughter doesn't want to leave and no son wants to find a son-in-law. Do you think it's appropriate?

Recruiting a son-in-law is recruiting a grandfather, which is a sin.

Originally, I married my daughter, became a father-in-law and enjoyed the filial piety of my son-in-law. However, if you recruit people, you have to consider the feelings of your son-in-law. After all, your son-in-law is an outsider and can't be your own son. Think twice about what you do and say, and take pains.

In particular, when men enter other people's homes, they are bound to feel inferior and resentful because they don't keep their promises and stick to their work, and they have to honor other people's parents and give birth to sons with other people's surnames. Although they don't talk on the surface, it doesn't mean they don't have ideas.

In reality, how many son-in-law who came to the door eventually divorced, which is still better. How can you secretly count the property of the old couple when you meet someone who seems obedient with impure intentions? What can you do when you can't move, show your true colors and turn your back on others?

Besides, the general conditions for recruiting a son-in-law are excellent. Whoever wants to come to the door, the family is poor and there are many brothers, he has to climb high branches. You said your daughter could find something better. Why did you lower yourself to recruit people?

Besides, the present society is not ancient. If we insist on continuing to burn incense, it will be impossible for our grandchildren to take your surname, and we have to take care of their troubles.

Don't worry, even if you marry your daughter, they will still take care of you. If you don't get married at home, you may not be able to take care of it.

Therefore, marriage is still cost-effective, but it is best to marry a local, close to rely on, or you will not be able to count on flying away.

Suitable. Pay attention to two points: the conditions should not be too high. Treat your son-in-law with virtue.

The mood is understandable, but this idea is purely alarmist and inappropriate. If the daughter is looking for an only child, should we consider the feelings of the other parents?

In fact, there is no difference between a daughter's house and a son's house. In a sense, no matter how many children there are, whether they are children or women. In fact, when children are older, they don't completely belong to their parents after marriage. Most of the time, they belong to society. After all, we must be independent, have our own family and career, and have our own life and future.

Children are kites in the sky, and parents are just stay wires on the ground. Sometimes the kite flies away carelessly, and parents can only be helpless, gratified or happy, watching them fly freely in the sky.

Friends often say that all good things must come to an end. In a sense, the same is true of family. For parents, many times they are concerned about their children, eager for companionship, looking forward to getting together and looking forward to happiness. For a lifetime, family ties are just gathering less and leaving more, leaving sadness and parting. Only when the sunset glow shines can you enjoy the family happiness, love, purity and beauty of your loved ones!

This is life. What kind of children, what kind of women, what kind of men and women get married, what kind of suitable women get married, that is just a kind of spiritual comfort. Even if there are many children, they are just a few independent nests. So, relax, think through, live a quiet life and talk it over. Maybe you will suddenly feel that missing, caring and watching is not necessarily a kind of happiness!

Therefore, the idea that the subject wants to find a son-in-law is inappropriate, but it is also unnecessary and has no practical significance.

There is nothing inappropriate! This situation is completely understandable,

But you will have to bear more things! Also have a tolerant heart! A son-in-law is not a son, which may involve the care of the other parents! Many things need to be tolerated, and feelings need to be cultivated!

It is ok to be mentally prepared!

According to the traditional custom in the countryside, a family without a son needs a son-in-law, because the countryside needs strong labor to maintain the operation of this family.

And if you live in a city, it's unnecessary. Son and father should live separately. Only my daughter and son-in-law live in the same city.

Yes, if you understand the reason, the child agrees.

In my hometown, there is a saying: poor people can never be doormen.

This means that nine of the ten son-in-law who come to the door live a miserable life. They go to other people's homes to be cattle and horses, and the children are other people's surnames. They pull plows for others, release cattle and horses, may get old, and will eventually be swept out by their mother-in-law.

Therefore, it is not that there is no way at home, nor that there are many poor sons at home, and there are basically no people who are willing to send their sons out. Can you have the same mood as a wife?

So since you have this idea, you should treat other people's sons as your own, and don't let others come to your house as donkeys and horses, continue to burn incense in your house, and earn money to support your family before being swept out of the house.

My dad is! Father is an orphan! ! !

Why do you have to marry your daughter? Isn't it good for your family to be together for life?

Don't bother, nothing can be planned. When you meet that person, no one can stop you. In the end, your daughter has the final say.

There are two popular sayings for recruiting a son-in-law in rural Hubei, that is, she has never recruited a son-in-law before, and she is angry with both mother and son.

There is still a little difference between a son-in-law entering the door and a daughter getting married.

A stranger suddenly broke into the house. If this person is excellent in all aspects, he will be affirmed by the original head of a family of three and live in harmony, but he will also live in peace. If the new population is out of step with many things, it will be a bit difficult to correct it.

It's different now, the one-child family. There is no shortage of food, clothing, housing and transportation, life is on and off, and the relationship between father-in-law and mother-in-law is good.

Contradictions are all due to the proximity. Keeping a proper distance and letting relatives miss each other will have a friendly effect!