One day you are going to die, who is the most reluctant person?

When people are living well, if they talk about death, they will think freely, look widely and think quietly, because death is far from you and there is no fear in their hearts. But when they really face death decades later, you will feel that you have not lived enough, and you don't want to die at all, even if you are 70 years old, even if you are 100 years old. Everything in the world is fresh in your memory, even the environment and people you usually hate, you will remember it clearly. Of course, there are more things you can't bear. Many parents have died, and maybe your wife has left. Of course, what you want most is your children, grandchildren and granddaughters. Even if they are not very filial to you, it is human instinct. When you die, you say goodbye to the dead, and you will never come back, and you will never see your relatives again. If I die one day, I will be reluctant to part with my brother and sister, because our relationship has always been very good. I am reluctant to part with my husband and children, but my son is the most reluctant, because my son was conceived in 10 and brought up by himself day by day. Now my son and I are best friends. My son said that he is my loyal fan and gives me too much happiness and companionship every day. I grew up with him, he grew old with me, and we accompanied him. Although brothers and sisters are reluctant to part, they have their own wives and husbands to take care of each other and feel more at ease with their families and children. When I leave, my husband will take care of himself and my son will take care of him. If I want to leave, I will arrange my husband's life in advance, because he has poor self-care ability and can't cook and stir-fry See if his son has time to take care of him. If not, go to a better nursing home, or hire a nanny, so that my son can come and see if he has time, mainly depending on his own choice! That's all you can do. Some people will say, maybe your husband will find another woman after you die. This may not be impossible. Anyway, it doesn't matter. Time will forget everything, and I will die if I can't bear it. After all, people die. After you die, the earth will still run and the living will live as usual. It hasn't changed because of who left. Only relatives who have deep feelings for you will always think about you. My son has his own home, and the child is doing well. No matter whether he always remembers his mother who went to another world, I will always miss him, care for him, wish him health and be safe and happy every day, because maternal love will never change and last forever.

Thirty years passed quickly. Now talking about the topic of life and death, my wife said, if you want to go, she will go first. I immediately took over: impossible, I'm so much older than you, so I'll go first if I want to. After hearing this, the wife said to herself sadly, what shall I do if you leave? It seems that this disaster is coming soon.

Her sister joined a gang in the new house and asked her wife to stay with her for a few more days. Who knows, she came back the next morning. I asked her why she only stayed for one day, and she replied, I can't sleep. My den is not as good as my own. As she answered, she approached me, brushed my hair with her hand, said that my hair was too messy, pulled my collar, said that my collar was not turned over, patted my ass, and said that I sat still and my pants were dirty ... I was so messy when she was not at home all day. After thirty years of marriage, she slept at night, leaning sideways and sleeping with her head on my back; She went to sleep on her back, her head resting on my arm; I snored loudly in my sleep, and she slept soundly. Maybe snoring is her hypnosis, and the relationship between husband and wife is not good. I would have found an excuse to sleep in separate beds.

I don't think it's a good thing that couples are too close. One left first, and the one left behind will definitely spend the rest of his life in sadness, pain and loneliness. So, at ordinary times, I try to make things difficult for her, find fault with her, and make trouble with her: let her bother me, bother me, and even hate me, so as to alleviate the pain of my leaving. But we haven't talked for a few words, and she immediately shut up and said that it's boring to argue with you. I left it myself. After a while, I saw her cut the apple in half, approached me, handed me the big half and said, Wife, this apple is delicious, crisp and sweet. As if nothing had happened. Every time I see my wife's black and white hair, my face is wrinkled. I thought: I'm leaving first. How can she live? I can't help feeling sad. There is a voice in my heart shouting: wife, you are the person I hate the most!

In fact, this problem puzzles most people in our lives. I think the final answer will be more profound only after experience. Life is actually a process of constant experience. I remember watching a video of Mr. Ma Yun, which generally mentioned that when I was in good health, I didn't have enough experience and unique vision. When you have a good bottom, you don't have a good figure. The course of life is still going on, and I think this question will have different answers at different stages.

For me at this stage, I am not prepared enough psychologically. I think I can't bear to part with a lot, because I still have too many ties in this world, too much reluctance.

What is the meaning of life? I think everyone will inevitably think about this problem at some stage and at some time. To tell the truth, I don't know, but I really want to know. Maybe the answer will be gradually improved in my more life experiences, and there is still a long way to go. It's better to live in the present than to be afraid!