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New Year greeting etiquette.
The etiquette of greeting New Year in the Spring Festival is a traditional folk custom, but it is very particular. People express their wishes for a happy new year by saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new. Then, let's learn about the etiquette of New Year greetings during the Spring Festival.
New Year greeting etiquette 1 First of all, pay homage to your family.
An important activity of the Spring Festival is to go to friends, relatives and neighbors' homes to congratulate the Spring Festival, which used to be called New Year greetings. In China, the custom of paying New Year greetings has a long history. In ancient times, there was a difference between New Year greetings and New Year greetings: New Year greetings were to knock on elders; The New Year is a time for peers to congratulate each other. Now, some organs, organizations, enterprises and schools get together to congratulate each other, which is called "group worship".
New Year greetings usually begin at home. On the morning of the first day, after getting up, the younger generation should first pay a New Year call to their elders, wishing them a long and healthy life and all the best. After the elders worship, they should distribute the "lucky money" prepared in advance to the younger generation. After greeting the elders at home, you should also greet people with a smile when you go out to meet them, and exchange auspicious words such as "Congratulations on getting rich", "Best wishes in the four seasons" and "Happy New Year". Neighbors, relatives and friends also visit each other or invite them to drink and entertain.
Second, from the ceremony, there are usually several common ways to "worship the law" in New Year's greetings:
First, bow down, that is, bow down and kowtow. Now, in some rural areas, when the younger generation pays New Year greetings to the older generation, especially when minors pay New Year greetings to the older generation, this etiquette is ok.
The second is to bow, bow, bow posture is to raise your hand and make a fist first. These fuels must not be misplaced. Male or left, that is, the male's left hand holds the right hand. This is called "Bai Ji", on the contrary, it is "fierce worship". On New Year's Day, holding the left hand with the right hand will bring bad luck. Salute, regardless of seniority, holding Qi Mei, up and down a few times, after the heavy ceremony can bow. This kind of etiquette is generally that the younger generation greets the elders, or that the younger generation greets the superiors.
The third is boxing, which is a unique traditional etiquette of the Chinese nation. Fist is the left hand holding the right hand, naturally embracing, moderately elastic, and naturally shaking slightly on the chest, not too hard or too high. This kind of etiquette is more common in New Year greetings among peers.
The fourth kind is hail, a kind of ancient female etiquette. The right hand covers the left hand, and the fist is half clenched. It is attached to the right side of the waist and ribs. Swing up and down slightly, knees slightly squat. Sometimes, while saluting, we call it hail. It is rarely used now.
Bowing, a common etiquette in modern times, is used to pay New Year greetings, which is more common for younger generations to their elders, lower generations to their superiors, and also for peers, both men and women.
Third, it is best to wear new clothes during the Spring Festival.
In the old society, when visiting the New Year, most women wore new clothes, red velvet bats, small cornucopia or bright silk flower on their heads. The old ladies' hair is also covered with pomegranate flowers; Boys should change into robes, jackets or vests, as well as new shoes and hats; Girls should wear red and green cheongsam. Why are you wearing red? Mainly to avoid evil spirits. Even prostitutes in the old society were not allowed to wear red skirts at ordinary times, but during the Spring Festival, there were exceptions.
Now you don't have to wear Hanfu for New Year's greetings, but you usually pay attention to wearing new clothes, from head to toe, from inside to outside, wearing brand-new clothes with grades. If it is difficult to look brand-new due to economic conditions, it needs to be "completely clean" and neat and clean. Bright colors, mainly warm colors for women, red is better, which not only exaggerates the festive atmosphere, but also has the traditional meaning of avoiding misfortune. Don't wear black or white. Men's shoes must be cleaned and polished. Don't forget to get a haircut when you wear new clothes. As the saying goes, "If you have money, you must shave your head for the New Year". Be sure to clean your hair when you pay a New Year call.
Fourth, don't pay New Year greetings too early.
It's best to avoid the combination of Chinese and western styles in dress and salute when visiting New Year. If you wear a suit, you'd better bow, bow, but don't bow with your fists, otherwise the contrast will be too big and people will feel uncomfortable. Of course, when you wear Hanfu, you can choose various sacrificial methods according to the object and occasion. Generally speaking, elders will not take the initiative to pay New Year greetings to their younger generation, but generally just respond.
Don't visit your home too early in the New Year. With the development of modern society, the pace of life is getting faster and faster. People are making full use of their rest time at night and trying to make up for the rare entertainment time at ordinary times. Therefore, reciprocity is not as early as possible. It is very important to ensure the rest of others and find the right visiting time. If you go to a young family, don't go before 8 o'clock. Old people should take a lunch break at noon, and don't go at noon. When visiting New Year at home, avoid saying unlucky things, such as death and illness, and don't exaggerate bad things, such as divorce and who is sick.
Don't bring obituaries, don't wear mourning clothes or black veil to pay New Year's greetings. If there are obituaries of relatives and friends in the first month of the old ceremony in Beijing, you should tear a corner of the obituary when you enter the door to show that you can get rid of bad luck.
What are the etiquette for visiting relatives in China during the Spring Festival?
1, the time for visiting relatives during the Spring Festival
The custom of timely visiting relatives lasted from the second day of the first month to the sixteenth day of the first month. During this period, almost every family was soaked in alcohol and bathed in fragrance, enjoying the fun of life and family happiness. In the past, I had to wait until the Chinese New Year to go out. There was a saying that "my grandmother was in the third grade, my aunt was in the fourth grade, and I saw my mother-in-law in the fifth and sixth grades"; Now it is the second day of the first month, and the taste of the year is strong. Jiaodong people have opened the curtain of visiting relatives, mostly "seeing their husbands first, then seeing their uncles"; Judging from this evolution, the pace of life is accelerating and the status of women is improving. On the second and third day of the first month, the married daughter returned to her family with her husband and children.
2. The order of visiting relatives during the Spring Festival
The general order of visiting relatives is: nephew goes to grandma's house, daughter goes to her mother's house with her husband, and then goes to aunt, aunt and sister's house. Except for special circumstances, we should all go back to worship. There is a folk saying that "the first day and the second day are beautiful, and the third day and the fourth day are good for worship festivals".
(1) Chinese New Year: The younger generation pays New Year greetings to the elders.
Generally speaking, New Year greetings begin at home. On the morning of the first day, after the younger generation gets up, they should first pay a New Year call to their elders, wishing them a long and healthy life and all the best. After the elders worship, they should distribute the "lucky money" prepared in advance to the younger generation. After greeting the elders at home, you should also greet people with a smile when you go out to meet them, and exchange auspicious words such as "Congratulations on getting rich", "Best wishes in the four seasons" and "Happy New Year". Tinnitus which hospital good neighbors or relatives and friends visit each other or invite them to drink and entertain. In most places, we don't visit relatives on New Year's Day, and the real Spring Festival visit begins on the second day of New Year's Day.
(2) Chinese New Year: The son-in-law must go to his parents' home to pay a New Year call.
The son-in-law must go to his parents-in-law's house and bring gifts. If you are a newly married son-in-law, this gift is very particular. You must carefully look at the choice of the gift. The nephew goes to grandma's house, and the daughter goes to her mother's house with her husband. This custom has a folk saying that "the second day of the first lunar month and the third day of the fourth lunar month are a good time to pay homage". After entering the door, bow down to the Buddha statue, ancestor statue and memorial tablet, and then bow down to the elders in turn. You can stay for dinner and play.
Etiquette of New Year greetings during the Spring Festival.
First of all, be polite.
The first point: it is very important to meet people through the address.
Generally speaking, relatives and polite babies will call, such as grandpa, grandma, uncle and aunt. However, there are many guests in the Spring Festival, and it depends on parents teaching how to address the guests who are about to meet in advance. Because some children's names are rarely used, they are unfamiliar. If you wait until you meet the guests to teach your child to address, your child may feel uncomfortable and refuse to speak. If you rehearse your speech with your child before meeting the guests, the child will naturally begin to speak.
Point 2: Say more words of blessing.
Babies around one year old don't say much. Parents can teach their babies to greet with gestures in advance: bow with fists and greet relatives and friends with smiles. You can teach babies over two years old to say auspicious words and greetings such as "Congratulations on getting rich", "Happy New Year" and "Peace through the years". Some babies may not pronounce these four words correctly, or they may not be able to speak them completely. Mom and dad need to be considerate.
Second, the red envelope etiquette
The happiest thing for children during the Chinese New Year is to get red envelopes, but you should know that getting red envelopes is also about etiquette. It is skillful to receive and open red envelopes. Mastering these small etiquette can better reflect the children's clever and sensible, and parents have more face.
Point one: Thank you for receiving the red envelope.
The elders give red envelopes, and the baby should take them with both hands and say thank you to the elders. If the baby is too young to do it, mom and dad can hold the baby's hand, take the red envelope with both hands and say "thank you" with the baby.
The second point: don't open the red envelope face to face.
Children under 2 don't know what a red envelope is. Just tell him to say thank you when someone gives it to him, and then put it in his pocket or give it to his mother. When the baby is a little sensible, you should tell them in advance that you should take the red envelope and never open it in front of the guests. The best way is to put the red envelope in mom and dad's bag or the baby's own bag at once.
Third, table manners.
During the Spring Festival, it is essential to entertain guests. If in normal times, when the family is together, it is no problem for the children to eat casually. However, when guests are present, you must pay attention to table manners, so that you can become a sensible and polite boy.
The first point: don't enjoy the food alone.
Adults are generally used to children: children will deliberately let them eat more whatever they like. But if there are guests present, we should teach our children manners. Tell the children before eating: "Everyone likes good things, so there are good things on the table. Don't eat it all by yourself, leave some for others to eat. " Nobody likes children who are too selfish. "
Point 2: Pay attention to dining hygiene.
Some children like to be picky when eating. Parents should remember to say to their children, "When eating, bring the food in front of you, take a look at that piece and clip it, and don't copy it over and over again." That's very rude. Meat dishes with soup should be carefully sandwiched to avoid splashing on clothes. People will say you are unsanitary, son. Put down the bowl after dinner and politely say' please enjoy your meal'. "
Fourth, hospitality etiquette
During the Spring Festival, there will be many guests at home. Not only adults should pay attention to hospitality etiquette, but also babies should pay attention. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds when guests are present. Parents should not ignore these small details.
The first point: be kind to guests.
When there are guests, parents should guide and encourage their children to greet them kindly and actively. After the guests enter the room, the older children can do some simple hospitality work, such as greeting the guests to sit down and pouring tea for them.
Point two: Don't interrupt when adults are talking.
When adults are talking, let children understand that it is a good boy to do their own thing quietly, and it is disrespectful to interrupt casually.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) guest etiquette
During the Chinese New Year, in addition to welcoming guests, parents will inevitably take their babies to visit relatives and friends and visit other people's homes. So, what details do children need to pay attention to when visiting other people's homes to show their modesty and courtesy?
The first point: say hello and say thank you.
Take the children to other people's homes. After entering the door, parents should guide the children to take the initiative to tidy up their shoes after greeting. Remember to let the child say "thank you" when serving food to the child.
Number two: Don't touch other people's things.
Children are curious by nature, especially in strange environments. Tell children that it is impolite to tamper with other people's things. If you want to play with toys or read books, you must get permission from the owner. Remember not to disturb adults when playing by yourself, and remember to let children put things away after playing.
Six, communication etiquette
During the Spring Festival, no matter whether you bring your children as guests or guests, I believe there will always be some small guests visiting. Parents always let their children play together. At this time, children should also pay attention to the social etiquette between them. Especially for children who are usually unsociable, parents should make up for it.
Point one: share actively, don't be stingy.
When there are small guests, it will make them very happy to take out toys and play with them generously. When the guests leave, parents can lead their children to see them off for a while. Parents can say to their children: "Say goodbye to their children and come back when you are free!" Even if parents teach their children to say it, if they say it from their children's mouths, they will make the guests feel very happy. After such contact, the child will certainly become a polite little master.
Point two: live in harmony with patience.
Now most children are only children, and they are little emperors at home, and no one at home is arguing with them. However, being a guest in a family with children is different from being a guest in a family with children. Without education, children often have unpleasant relationships. The Spring Festival is a good opportunity to educate children to live in harmony with others. Because when he grows up in the future, he should also have a humble and United character. Take advantage of the Spring Festival to invite children as guests, educate them on social etiquette, and make them one year older and more sensible.
Seven, telephone etiquette
During the Chinese New Year, some distant relatives and friends will convey their blessings by telephone. When parents answer the phone or answer the phone on their behalf, there are some small details of telephone etiquette that children need to master.
Point 1: Ask and answer when answering the phone.
Parents can learn from the basic etiquette requirements for answering the phone when educating their children: children should learn to say "hello", "sorry" and "please wait a moment" when answering the phone; Speak softly when answering the phone, and don't shout loudly on the phone; Ask and answer questions when answering the phone, be generous in answering questions, don't fail to respond to each other's questions for a long time, and don't throw away your mobile phone when you don't know how to answer it;
The second point: pay attention to the time when making a phone call.
When adults are on the phone, children should not interrupt or grab the microphone; When making a phone call, you should first give your name and explain the person you are looking for; Don't answer the phone while eating; Hang up the microphone with care, don't drop the microphone, and don't hang up the phone hard. When answering the phone, learn to say "goodbye" and then hang up. Don't hang up after you finish. Pay attention to the call time. Call time should not be too long, and don't call too early or too late, so as not to affect others' rest.
Etiquette to pay attention to during the Spring Festival 3.
1, when eating, the younger generation can't move chopsticks first, and they can't pick up food until the older generation has taken photos;
2. When eating the New Year's Eve dinner, let the elders send friends first, and the elders should praise them in time;
3. When friends and relatives go home for the New Year, they should greet them in time and inform them of the wifi password.
4. On New Year's Eve, don't send text messages on the hour to influence others to grab red envelopes;
5. Go to the door and see the QR code or Alipay account posted on the host's door. Please take the initiative to scan the code and send a red envelope to show the rules!
This is very important in this era of WeChat New Year. Although it is a bit of a joke, it is also necessary to pay attention.
Etiquette that children should pay attention to during the Spring Festival.
Students, adults will laugh and cry if they behave impolitely during the New Year. Teachers want students to be polite, polite and loved by everyone, whether they are going out to be guests or entertaining guests at home.
1, behave in a civilized manner, and don't jump up and down or run around in the house. Don't sit where your elders don't allow you to sit, don't look around, don't flip indoor items at will, and don't throw around peels and other sundries.
2. politely pick up something, get up and catch it with both hands, and express your gratitude. Remember not to open red envelopes in front of elders, which will embarrass others.
3, auspicious words should be said appropriately. No matter to relatives and friends, or neighbors, they can call it out sweetly and have different congratulations. If you are afraid of speaking badly, you should ask your parents in advance, know something about the elders you may meet, and what to say, so as to avoid embarrassing scenes and make people feel impolite.
You should have a correct sitting posture at the dining table. Don't blow bubbles while eating. Don't use chicken wings to "build blocks" and don't grab vegetables directly with your hands.
Etiquette that should be paid attention to during the Spring Festival
Paying New Year greetings is the most common custom in the Spring Festival. Generally speaking, visiting relatives and friends is a new year's greeting. If it is not because of special circumstances, it is generally chosen before the 15 th National Day.
According to social relations, New Year greetings can be roughly divided into four categories.
One is to visit relatives. On the first day, you must go to your father-in-law's house and bring gifts. After entering the door, bow down to the Buddha statue, ancestor statue and memorial tablet, and then bow down to the elders in turn. You can stay for dinner and play.
The second is a courtesy visit. If you want to pay a New Year call to your colleagues and friends, you should only bow to the Buddha statue three times when you enter the room. If you are equal to your master, you just need to bow down. If you are older than yourself, you should still take the initiative to bow your head. The host should get down from his seat to help you, or even say that he is not polite to show his humility. This kind of situation is generally not suitable for sedentary, and you will leave after a few pleasantries. After the host worships, he should pay a return visit another day.
The third is a thank-you visit. Anyone who owes money to others (such as lawyers and doctors) in the past year will buy some gifts and send them to express their gratitude by taking the opportunity to pay a New Year call.
The fourth is a series of visits. For neighbors, we didn't have much contact in the past, but we can get along well when we meet. On New Year's Eve, we just went to the yard and said "Congratulations on getting rich" and "Shun Shun Bai Shun" when we met. We just sit in the house for a while, without much etiquette.
New Year greetings usually begin at home. On the morning of the first day, after getting up, the younger generation should first pay a New Year call to their elders, wishing them a long and healthy life and all the best. After the elders worship, they should distribute the "lucky money" prepared in advance to the younger generation. After greeting the elders at home, you should also greet people with a smile when you go out to meet them, and exchange auspicious words such as "Congratulations on getting rich", "Best wishes in the four seasons" and "Happy New Year". Neighbors, relatives and friends also visit each other or invite them to drink and entertain.
Although text messages and telephone calls are very popular now, traditional New Year greetings are still talked about.
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