Should my mother-in-law listen to her if she has money? Why?

My in-laws, my husband and I had a hard time when we first got married. My husband's money before going to work was basically used up to buy a house down payment, plus paying off the mortgage. Later, I got pregnant, and the money for my child's prenatal examination was also my salary when I was pregnant. The bride price money, in-laws forced us to decorate and buy a car. Basically, there is no money. When the child was born, my in-laws had not finished telling me not to go to work. I left my children in my hometown and went to work by myself. Finally, I gritted my teeth and was admitted to a public school. My son is in his hometown, and the milk powder is paid by my in-laws. I bought the rest of the clothes and sent them back by express delivery. My father-in-law has said more than ten times in front of us about this more than 10 thousand milk powder money, for example, other grandparents can't pay for milk powder. We were happy at first, and the younger generation was grateful, but everyone who talked every day collapsed. Later, the family sold land money, and our family of three shared more than 30 thousand and didn't give it to us. Of course, I won't ask, even if my husband and I didn't have any money at that time, we didn't ask my in-laws for a penny in order to apply for classes and swipe our credit cards. Of course, I dare not give them a hard time. As the saying goes, eating people has a short mouth and short hands. Although I haven't drunk a drop of milk powder, it was also his grandson's, but I have always been grateful to them for helping me with my children, paying for milk powder, gold necklaces, clothes and so on. Later, Huang Tian paid off, my husband was finally promoted, and I entered the system as I wished. Compared with before, my in-laws won't have anything to say that I can't do this or that. We don't need to look at our faces when spending money. We want to sign up for a training class for our children, although my father-in-law said that it is a waste of money for kindergarten children to learn painting. Therefore, it's better to be rich and have a hard waist. If you want your in-laws to pay, you'd better listen.

The wealth of parents-in-law is the blessing of their children and daughters-in-law.

It is a light burden for old people to have money as their children. Just call me in-laws. I'm over 80 years old, relatively poor and have three sons. Now the eldest brother and the second child give the third child 2500 yuan a month to take care of the two old people. Together with living expenses and medical expenses, my family spends 3500 yuan on two old people every month. If parents have money, can we save 3500 yuan a month?

Besides, although they have no money, we children still have to listen to him if what they say is reasonable.

She has money, but if you don't use her money, you can just be polite and listen to nothing else. But you use her money to raise your children. For example, children have to rely on the elderly to subsidize tuition and cram schools, and you can't afford to live in the villa of the elderly. I advise you to have professional ethics and treat her as the boss. Of course, you have to be obedient.

There is an old saying that "money makes the mare go", and it is more appropriate to answer you. Your mother-in-law is rich, and you are still considering whether to listen to her. If you have no money, you won't listen. Fortunately, your mother-in-law controls the economic lifeline of the family, which is equivalent to mastering the right to speak and being able to do most things. You annoy her, and she can even fire you.

The tone of your question is unconvinced, but it is wise to be sensible. Today, speaking with strength, are you willing to go against your own vital interests? Many years ago, I used to be a matchmaker and introduced a girl who was having an affair to a friend's son. My friend has a good family and a good young man. They got married after spending some time together. But after marriage, some girls' bad living habits caused their mother-in-law's nagging. Over time, there was a dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law was angry and advised her son and daughter-in-law to divorce. Once, I met a girl. During the conversation, the girl shed tears when she talked about this relationship. In fact, at first, it was all the little things in life. As a junior, we should respect our elders and change ourselves. Even if the elderly have some mistakes, they should communicate and solve them in a euphemistic way, instead of playing with their temper and making them lose their temper, which will lead to irreparable consequences. At that time, I thought to myself: Do you regret it?

When I answered questions many times, I suggested that my elderly friends, no matter how much money they have, should master it well, so that they can feel at ease and have the right to speak in the home directors. Look at this daughter-in-law's problem. This is obviously the heart of Si Mazhao. ...

Actually, as a daughter-in-law, don't be too snobbish. It is a good thing that my mother-in-law has money. If you listen to your mother-in-law, will she still be bad to you? Even if the mother-in-law has no money, the daughter-in-law should respect her and listen to her. As the saying goes, when you enter someone's door, you are a family, and all virtues and filial piety come first. Of course, you can also gently remind your mother-in-law of some wrong words and deeds, and don't let the contradictions become open and intense. In short, being an elder will never hurt your heart. Only by treating yourself as a member of the family can you live in harmony.

Hello, everyone. I'm glad to have the opportunity to answer this question. It is right to care for, be filial to and respect the elderly.

If my mother-in-law has no money, I can ignore her and show my face. Without her position in the family, she is a useless thing.

If my mother-in-law is rich, I should listen to her and be afraid of her. At home, I am the queen mother.

You can choose friendliness, equality and honesty as the center, and everyone can live in harmony. You praise your mother-in-law for her cleverness, earning money and housekeeping. She can also praise her daughter-in-law for being young and sensible, filial to the elderly, frugal and decent, and being a good daughter-in-law.

For family, kindness, kindness, making money,

To be an excellent daughter-in-law, you must first care for the elderly, be filial to the elderly, respect the elderly, care for the children, educate the children, pass on your excellent advantages to the children, care for your husband, love each other, work together, create a happy family, have confidence in the family, and finally learn to be a person, be tolerant, generous and decent, and you will have everything that an ordinary daughter-in-law has.

I wish you happiness, a happy life and all your wishes come true.

Mother-in-law is rich, which proves that her mother-in-law is very capable, but it depends on her personality and thoughts. If she is kind to others, she must listen to her and her positive children and grandchildren everywhere and resolutely listen. If she is rich, domineering and arrogant, she will listen selectively. I believe you have the ability to distinguish between evil and evil.

If you don't mean Hua's money, it doesn't matter to you no matter how much money she has. You don't even have to look at her face. Is it too greedy to spend other people's money and have the right to speak?

The question is not who listens to whom. First, she is your mother-in-law. Even if she has no money, you should respect her. Second, my mother-in-law is still rich when she is old. Why don't you have money as a young man? In today's society, it is always disgraceful for people to get married and start a career without making money themselves. Third, money is the pillar of the stable and harmonious development of families, and young people should stand on their own feet.

In my personal experience, it is necessary and necessary to help my son when he is in trouble. But don't transfer fixed assets and cash to your son's name until the last minute, as a last resort, because you will regret it and it will not end well! Filial piety is rare in this society now, let alone daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law is such a thing. She worries about my house and money all day, and sets a trap for us to drill. I fell in love with her at that meeting, as far away from Lao Tzu as possible! It doesn't matter if people are a little confused when they are old, but fixed assets and money must be firmly grasped, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable!