What are the moments after cohabitation that make people feel "face-slapping"? Let's see how much you won.

What are the moments after cohabitation that make people feel "face-slapping"? Let's see how much you won. I'm sorry to burst the pink bubble in many people's hearts today: after living together, you probably don't have much sweet life, which in turn is endless disputes. This person likes you very much, but it doesn't necessarily mean that he will put up with living with you. Living together usually represents everything big and small, and conflicts may break out.

First of all, the problem of life preference, people are likely to have more than one dispute because of the inconsistency of life preference. It turns out that although you are together, at least we are relatively independent in life, so many details of life are ignored. Now once you live together, you may not be able to stand many key points in each other's lives. You may suddenly find that the other half, who was once particularly beautiful, didn't wash his socks and underwear after returning home; You can suddenly find that these special dishes that this guy brought you at that time were not cooked by her every day; You will see this man snoring and gnashing his teeth. ...

I also solved an example that made me laugh and cry before: boys work and rest regularly, but girls stay up late every day. Boys feel that girls have delayed their rest days, and girls feel that boys make themselves uncomfortable watching TV dramas every day, so they need to turn down their headphones ... because of the contradiction between work and rest hours, they almost broke up. Although many couples who live together and break up, the initial contradictions are caused by trivial matters, and this emotional inventory continues to accumulate, eventually leading to the collapse of a relationship.

When two people have many contradictions, you will find a very bad thing: there is no escape at all. You didn't live together before. If there is any contradiction between you, maybe you can run away, pretend to be too busy to see the information, or play and disappear. What now? People live together. If you don't overcome this, you won't have a good face all day.

You must try your best to solve the problem between you as soon as possible. Nowhere to hide: this is impossible. Why don't we go home every night and sleep in the bridge opening in the cold? I still remember that when I lived with my other half, I became impatient after I could say something: it was not good to keep quiet and fight the cold war. After all, if everyone wants to eat together at night, they need to live under the same roof, and there is no room for ostriches. For some people who don't like to face contradictions and don't cultivate the habit of communicating with their partners, try not to live together too early: after all, in this environment, you can't pretend that that person won't have it, you must give that person a statement.

And cohabitation represents a more important problem: you really need to maintain this relationship. Cohabitation means bringing each other into their own lives, narrowing the indoor space where they are alone, and honing their tolerance and endurance. One of the most embarrassing questions about cohabitation is: What if we break up in the middle of cohabitation?

Everyone is busy at work, it will take several days to pack up and move out, and it is not so easy to find a roommate. Here I will solve a few examples, all of which are cohabitation and breakup. The conclusion is that two people live under the same roof, some of them will last for a month or two, and even more exaggerated, some people actually insist on the expiration of the contract ... so I actually don't recommend that you two young people live together as soon as they get together: because your relationship is still unstable, everyone is interested in each other now.

Therefore, if you live under the same roof with a person, you must think carefully: how will your feelings be laid out in the future? You've moved in together, and now it's not that easy to separate. You must think about this relationship and how to cultivate it. Most importantly, although I know that I have told you that living together is not as happy as everyone thinks, there are still some young people who choose to live together in order to see each other every day.