How does it feel when your child is suddenly diagnosed with autism?

I am the mother of an autistic child. I didn't notice it at first, and I didn't care if the old man spoke late. It was not until I was 2 years old that I went for a physical examination. The doctor asked me if my child could talk. I said no, but I will call my mother, that's all. The doctor didn't say anything after further understanding, and let's go to the rehabilitation department. I thought, what's wrong with us? At this time, we went to the rehabilitation department. After a doctor's inquiry, we said that we were autistic. When we heard this word, we were all surprised and thought it was a disease. At that time, we asked the doctor how to treat the disease, and the doctor said to intervene. If we don't intervene, the situation will get worse and worse. I don't know what to do. When I got home, I looked it up on Baidu. I don't know. I was shocked when I checked. I didn't know what to do, so I called my father, because grandma was still sick and unconscious in the hospital at that time, and my father was taking care of her in the hospital. Even though I know that the father is in a bad mood, I have to say it because it is related to the child's future life. At that time, my father didn't believe it was for other reasons or just a little older. We're done. Let's talk about it when I get back. After a while, my father will come back and say, why don't we talk again? Then I went to two big hospitals to see what I should check. Nothing wrong, just mild autism. I don't know what to do now. At that time, the Chinese New Year was coming, and my sister went to kindergarten at home, and there were not enough people. I just want to wait until after the New Year! During the period, practice and teach more at home or watch electronic products according to the doctor's advice. His father and I took turns training, thinking about recovering after the Chinese New Year. Who knows that when the new year comes, nothing can get out of the new epidemic. After staying at home for several months, the child's grandmother died of a serious illness and the family was in trouble. However, we can't delay the child's treatment because of the death of the old man, but it costs a lot of money to see the old man. Let me take care of my children at home alone. Now, although some children can understand, they are still far behind the children of the same year, and their defecation is not good. It was better then than before. But hurry up, I'm going to be three years old. Don't play with children yet. I still want him to take a sensory class. The weather is getting colder. Then I want to know whether you will go or not. You said there was an autistic child here. It feels like the whole world revolves around children. I don't know when the child will be normal.

My youngest son was diagnosed with autism when he was 3 years old. Although the little black boy can't talk at the age of three and is indifferent to the outside world, we don't think in a more serious direction. Because I heard that my uncle is only about four years old and can't speak, and he is shy before he is an adult. He always seems to think about himself in a noble way. Later, my uncle was admitted to a very good university in Beijing in the 1980s, and then he worked and became a successful businessman.

Knowing that my son is autistic, it seems quite serious to listen to the doctor. I think it's probably alarmist. Trees are straight, so what if they grow slowly at seedling stage! As for what others say, "looking at the old at the age of three and looking at the old at the age of seven", it seems to me to be a nonsense theory! It's ridiculous that such a big baby will finalize the design early!

Later, it was proved that the current strength of medical science and technology always made it easy for people who didn't care to pay the bill. Compared with ordinary children, Xiao Hey's road to growth is really too difficult! It's too difficult for you to publish the book "Growing with Blood and Tears"!

I didn't have a second child, and almost all my efforts were devoted to Xiao Hey. When I often feel that I am running out of oil and blowing out the wax, I always tell myself: take a deep breath slowly, and then take it slowly. Don't spit out an old blood, hang this life out early. Who will take care of your ignorant son? You will die unsatisfied! ! !

Fortunately, Xiao Hehe is now 12 years old. In addition to poor language skills, he can also participate in the heap with ordinary children. My heart has also put down a lot. But what I have paid over the years is really a long story! ! ! !

I feel that the sky is falling, and all kinds of information are being checked. The more I look at it, the more desperate I am. On the one hand, I hope it is a misdiagnosis. He will be fine when he grows up.

I have no experience in diagnosis, but I almost fainted once. I am the mother of twins. Maybe many people will envy me, wow, how good and happy I am. I don't have to suffer twice. In fact, only those who bring it know that it is not simple. One plus one equals two. I brought them from Lacrimosa every day in the second month. I don't have the help of my elders. I asked a four-month-old moon to help me bring one, and then I asked a parenting sister-in-law to help me bring one. I didn't find anything unusual in front of me, but as they said, the boy developed later. I always feel that my brother's big move is not good, and his courage is particularly small. He likes to run around, he can't sit still in early education classes, and some projects dare not try. At that time, he didn't think of autism. Later, when the child was over two years old, because the sister-in-law who had raised the child suddenly quit, she temporarily changed to a bigger one. Because the Chinese New Year is coming, it is not easy to invite people. I don't know why my son suddenly became grumpy. During that time, he didn't like to talk, he broke things easily, and then he became addicted to watching cartoons. He cried when he turned off the TV. Later, I forced to turn off the TV and took it outdoors every day. It took a lot of effort to find that he likes to run sideways along the wall and is not interested in anything. I realized the seriousness of the problem and immediately called my husband in other places. In those days, my husband and I frantically searched the Internet for various symptoms of autism, and I felt that my son basically met them. At that time, my husband bought the fastest plane ticket, and then asked my brother in Guangzhou to hang up Zou Xiaobing's number. At that time, the Spring Festival was coming, and Zou Xiaobing's number could not be hung at all. Two months later, another director's number was hung up, and it happened that the epidemic was serious again. Finally, think about it, whether it should be delayed. What's the difference between being a day late and arriving a day early? Besides, we have seen autism more than once, so let's just think about our past trips after the New Year. We all decided to sell our house and prepare for long-term rehabilitation training. We study various professional and non-professional treatments for autism on the Internet every night. After my husband came back, we immediately took him to the countryside to play for a while, playing with cats, dogs and fish every day, and felt that my son was getting happier and happier. The interaction with my sister has returned to the past. After the New Year, we still went to Guangzhou. We didn't go to the hospital, we just took them to play. When playing, I found that he was changing every day. He was squinted several times and made a lot of progress. Every time my husband and I hit them hard, there is nothing we can do but hold back our inner feelings. After playing for more than ten days, I found that he changed a lot every day. When I came back later, I sent them directly to the early education center. At first, I was worried about whether I would stimulate him again. Fortunately, it turns out that we worry too much. Every day with our little friend, he talks more and more, and his expression ability improves rapidly. I want to know if he is stunted, but I'm not going to take him for examination. I feel that he can keep up with the pace of growth. I am already very grateful! I am here to answer this question because I can deeply understand the parents of autistic children. That kind of despair is no different from the sky were to fall. If you are on the verge of doubt, I suggest you watch the video of Flame Mountain. Don't say that his video must be the right way. At least watch his video. His method can relieve parents' anxiety. It's true. At that time, I looked at him and his children every night! The two children are autistic and have no despair. Mentality is the most important, for reference only.

We didn't think too much at that time, so we adjusted our mentality and conducted rehabilitation training as soon as possible.

I couldn't believe it in the early stage, and I couldn't accept it. I can't sleep when I look up the information. Nothing is interesting. I became blx, and I cried easily. I feel sorry for my children. I hate and complain.

I am one of the parents.

I was examined in the most authoritative children's hospital in Zhejiang at that time. At the moment when the doctor told me, I felt my sky was falling. Then I asked the doctor to arrange a rehabilitation course in the hospital. At that time, I had to wait in line for half a year to get a place, so I went outside to find a professional rehabilitation institution.

My child was diagnosed with autism, and it was really a feeling of collapse. I felt that the sky was falling, so I had to hold my husband and walk out of the doctor's office crying. Fortunately, my husband didn't panic at that time, and patiently asked the doctor what to do next. I was completely blank at that time, and I couldn't find any other way to solve it except crying.

Although my husband pretended to communicate calmly with the hospital at the scene, I could see that he was also very sad because he was optimistic and cheerful. He hasn't laughed since he came out of the doctor's office, and then he hasn't eaten well for several days. After returning home, he began to look for various rehabilitation institutions and then contacted them. He didn't sleep well all night. If there is contact, take us to the rehabilitation institution early the next morning.

Fortunately, the child behind was finally identified as sensory disorder. Watching the children's progress and growth every day, as parents, we finally got through the most sad period, so come on! ! !

Cry, cry all the time, feel the sky is falling, cry if you have nothing to do. Fortunately, after three months of treatment, I changed from autism to stunting, and my eyes and reactions became better. After more than 9 months of treatment, the child is much better. The doctor said that after half a year of treatment, you can almost catch up with the children, but you should always take the medicine with you. . . My family is an institution that takes medicine together. I went to kindergarten in the morning, and I'm fine now.

Don't be paranoid. The eyes of autistic babies are different from those of normal babies. Autistic babies have no eyes and no emotional color changes. Although a normal baby can't talk in his mouth, he can talk. You can see it by careful observation. Leave the rest to time and parents' efforts.

Before I brought it to be diagnosed, I already felt that the child was different from the children of the same age, so although I was sad, I just recovered quickly without hesitation!