At the gate of the primary school, parents who pick up and drop off students are in an endless stream. Why do parents have to pick them up at school now?

As a primary school teacher, let me talk about my opinion.

At the gate of the primary school, parents who pick up and drop off students are dense. Why do parents send their students to school? Next, carefully analyze:

First, the situation of parents picking up and dropping off their children is not limited to primary schools. It is a common phenomenon in kindergartens, primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools. For example, sending children to school in the morning and picking them up in the afternoon and afternoon (only some junior high schools have self-study), and the school gate is almost crowded with people and cars. This problem is the characteristic of most schools in China from kindergarten to high school, especially public schools in urban areas. The main reasons are:

The school is originally a place with a very high population density. In addition, in a school, all students have the same class time. Take our school as an example. The school leaving time is 1 1: 40. As soon as the bell rang, more than 4 thousand students from grade one to grade six left school at the same time. It was a crowded scene. Of course, there may be teachers dragging their feet, but the influence of several classes dragging their feet on other students' congestion at the school gate can be ignored. It is understandable that the school gate is so big, so many students come out and parents come outside to pick up their children.

Second, the reason why so many parents send their students to and from school: 1, for safety reasons; 2. Spoil children 1, for the safety of children (main reason)

In primary schools, there are indeed many parents who pick up and drop off students. The largest proportion is in the first and second grades, and the ratio of parents to children is almost 1: 1. This is understandable, because the children in Grade One are really too young, especially in the last semester of Grade One. Children in the second grade are not enough to make their parents feel more at ease. On the whole. Since the first grade, the number of parents' meetings has gradually decreased with the grade. Probably from the third grade, most of them are themselves (or classmates together), taking the bus far away and walking home near. Some of the parents who came to pick me up were idle, and the other part really lived far away, so they didn't trust their children to go home by themselves, so they drove to pick me up.

Although the current environment is not bad, things still happen after school or on the way to school. Therefore, for the safety of children, it is understandable to pick up parents, grandparents and the like. After all, no one dares to take that risk.

Some parents spoil their children too much.

This situation accounts for a lot, especially in urban schools. Nowadays, because of the good material conditions in cities, many children are only children. There may be three or four or even five or six adults, parents, grandparents and grandparents behind a child. Some parents, especially the elderly, especially spoil their grandchildren. "Afraid of flying in the hand, afraid of melting in the mouth" is their truest description of children. Therefore, some parents have to pick up and drop off their children in person, even if their home is close to school or their children are already very old. There were several such examples in my last class. From grade one to grade six, there are almost no fewer than two people picking up and dropping off children at a time. ...

Conclusion To sum up the above points, as long as you pass by the school during school hours or after school hours, you will almost always find many people and cars. However, except for a few doting parents, most parents can't help but pick up their children-for their safety. If, like some countries, children go to school by themselves in kindergartens and primary schools, how many parents are willing to do such laborious and time-consuming things after work?

This problem is also a headache for all parents now. In the sixties and seventies of last century, have you ever seen parents send their children to school? No, no. I think there are two reasons for this situation:

1; With the progress of society, people's material life is enriched, streets are widened, roads are widened, cars on the road increase geometrically, and children's traffic risk coefficient also increases geometrically, so parents have to do it.

2; While the society is progressing, there are also some problems, and the loss of children often occurs. In order to nip in the bud, parents are also anxious. As for the children in junior and senior high schools, it is undeniable that most of them are girls. Today's society is different from that of forty years ago. At that time, few girls had accidents, but now it's different. Parents are also forced to help. For the safety of children and the safety of the whole family, they have to tire themselves.

Before the 1980s, people's material life was not as good as it is now, but the social atmosphere was very good. Everyone is learning the spirit of Lei Feng selflessly. When they see someone in need on the road, they will lend a helping hand. This is also a main reason why people strongly miss that era!

I am a primary school teacher. Let me talk about this topic.

In my primary school, parents take care of children under the fourth grade. Every day after school, the road will be congested and the traffic police will direct traffic here. We waited in line from the first grade, basically for more than half an hour, and the sixth grade students were completely exposed.

Children above the fourth grade, their homes are particularly close to the school, and some friends go home together. Students in the fifth and sixth grades also walk home by themselves, and few in the lower grades. Some parents recalled that there were no parents to pick up and drop off their children when they were young, so why do parents pick up and drop off their children to school now, whether in urban or rural areas?

Our first consideration is the safety of children. Now, do you find that the road is getting narrower and narrower? In fact, it's not that the roads are getting narrower and narrower, but that there are more and more cars. With the improvement of national comprehensive economic strength, it is no longer a dream for every household to own a private car. A driver is no longer a profession, but a proof like an ID card. A driver's license is a document that can prove that he can drive. However, many drivers get driving books after learning to drive for a short time, but they don't have much experience on the road, which increases the danger of passers-by. There are also unscrupulous drivers who run red lights, drunk driving, and novice female drivers who are criticized by everyone. How can parents rest assured when a child goes home by himself? Therefore, transportation is necessary.

The unsafe factors of children are not only the factors of cars, but also the factors of people. Some bad guys are eyeing the children. These bad guys include traffickers. Some of these traffickers sell their children to childless families, and some unscrupulous traffickers sell their children to some illegal organizations! No parents want to put their children in danger. Whose child is not a baby now? So pick-up and drop-off is also a must!

Secondly, the school is really far from home. Now the city is dicing enrollment, and the community where the children are located is indeed a bit far from the school. What if the children don't pick them up? This is necessary. Moreover, in the past few years, some families chose schools, so their homes are far from schools and they also need to pick up and drop off their children.

Even rural students, because of the decrease of students, are concentrated in one village from several nearby villages, so students are far away from school and have to pick up in the lower grades.

Finally, the requirements of the school. Our school requires parents of lower grades to pick up and drop off students. Students can be handed over to their parents every day. Some parents can't pick it up, so they entrust a small table to pick it up. Other parents hire taxis to pick up their children, and we all register to ensure that their children get home safely. If something happens, the school really can't bear the responsibility.

Primary school students in rural areas are not allowed to go to school by bike before the fourth grade. You can ride in the fifth and sixth grades, but parents must sign an agreement to exempt the school from responsibility. If something happens on the road, parents should be responsible. Otherwise, the parents will pick it up by themselves, because the school really can't afford such a big responsibility.

Some parents saw the children of an island country on the Internet and started their own walking to school from kindergarten. First, parents cultivate their children's sense of independence from childhood. Another point is that island countries are all enrolled nearby, and it is strictly forbidden to choose schools. Therefore, the school is close to residential areas, and children can enter the school nearby. At crowded intersections, special staff will be arranged to guide children to cross the road.

There are also uniform schoolbags for children. Don't underestimate this schoolbag. There are many things in it, but there is a GPS positioning system and an alarm in the schoolbag. Some schoolbags can even be bulletproof. Therefore, even if parents don't pick up and drop off their children, they can control their children's situation in real time without worrying at all.

Maybe one day our strength will develop to this point, and our parents will no longer worry about picking up and dropping off their children. At present, let's take responsibility for the safety of children.

In fact, you can communicate with your children on the way to pick them up every day. This is a good opportunity. Children can feel the deep love brought by their parents. Parents will also get satisfaction from it. One day, the child will grow up slowly, walk out of your world and no longer need you, then you will be lost. Pick up your children now, because this opportunity is not always available.

Pray for the Lord, at present, kindergartens, primary schools and junior high schools basically pick up and drop off babies all the way. It's just that when the baby reaches high school, half of them live in school. And children are generally grown up, so they don't accept it. Why?

First, the traffic is developed, there are too many vehicles, and there are traffic everywhere. Children aged 3- 15 are playful and don't know the danger. Are you relieved if you don't answer?

Second, there are too many traffickers. Don't think that your children will not go with others at every turn. In fact, a lollipop, a few funny words, took a person away.

Because they are immature and helpless.

Third, the only child is a common phenomenon. Besides, although the absolute number is large, the proportion is very small.

A family, one should be raised with gold. If you don't answer it, is it useless to regret if something happens?

This is not before the 1980s, when a family had at least two children and at least seven or eight children. The so-called people in their fifties and sixties just need to fill their mouths, which is simply anti-human thinking.

Therefore, children must answer. High school conditions, also want to pick up. True independence begins with the university.

When we were at school, there was no problem of parents picking us up. What impressed me was that I walked back and forth from my school 2 miles away from home every day since the first grade. In summer, there are frequent floods in the Yangtze River basin. I rolled up my trouser legs and walked. In winter, I stumbled in the cold wind. So I walked in junior high school for 8 years, which is not only an unforgettable memory, but also a rare life wealth.

However, with the development of the times, our children really need to be transported, either by their parents themselves or by their grandparents. If they really don't have the conditions, there is also a special custodian to pick them up. This seems to be a routine, so that the roads around the school are blocked every morning, and the traffic police also come to maintain traffic every day, allowing parents to temporarily "illegally park" for 30 minutes.

It has become a phenomenon and necessity for pupils to pick up and drop off. Not only do parents attach importance to and participate in it, but the whole society is actively cooperating and supporting it. I think there are two points:

1. Safety in the process of going to and from school: Modern civilization has brought more machines and wheels, and construction is under way everywhere. In the morning rush hour, it is difficult to see a road that can really reassure children. Adults should be careful when they walk, not to mention primary school students. Parents must be uneasy, especially children in grades one and two.

In addition, primary school students are weak, and it is difficult to deal with them if they meet bad people on their way to and from school. I don't need to say more about this kind of thing. I guess everyone knows that all kinds of situations are common, so parents would rather have a little trouble than put their children under their noses.

2. Parents care for children: Although our parents in the past also cared for children, the degree and form of care are really different from now. As I said at the beginning, I often swim to school, which is actually very dangerous, but my parents usually just remind me to pay attention to safety and rarely send me to school. Although my parents love me very much, this form of love has really changed from my current parents. Today's parents may be more inclined to let their children feel the superiority of life with actions and materials, and they are more financially able to take care of their children than in the past.

Therefore, these reasons * * * lead to the social phenomenon of primary school students' transportation, which is inevitable and unnecessary to compare with the past. When you have children, everything will be clear!

Think of a frightening thing in primary school.

At that time, I was studying in the countryside. Although it was more than 20 years ago, we still attached great importance to studying there, and even went to study at night.

At that time, it was all a village and a school. Students in grades four to six go home for dinner after school in the afternoon and go back to school for self-study in the evening after dinner. Some teachers watch us do our homework and review.

At that time, public security was still relatively good. Most of them go home with their classmates after school, and few parents learn to pick them up. However, suddenly one morning, I heard that a child was kidnapped on the way from school after self-study the night before.

That child is the richest child in our village and the only child in the family. I haven't found it since I called the police Later, I heard that I had offended someone and was retaliated.

Because of this incident, the school's evening self-study was cancelled. After all, the safety of students comes first.

Back to the main question, why do primary school students now have to be picked up by their parents after school, or for safety reasons?

When we were in primary school, no parents came to pick us up during the day, because at that time, on the one hand, the traffic was safe, there were no cars, at most tractors, and we saw very little on the road. Basically, no traffic accidents will occur; On the other hand, things lost by children rarely appear, so parents can rest assured that their children can go to school by themselves; Finally, the school is very close to home, and it takes only ten minutes to walk, so the probability of making mistakes is very small.

But it's different now. Almost every family has a car, whether in rural or urban areas. Cars come and go in the street. Children are insecure and like to fight. If they are not careful, they will make mistakes. Therefore, from the perspective of safety, parents will take the initiative to pick up their children.

The other is the compulsory requirement of the school. The school will stipulate that parents must personally pick up and drop off students in grades one to four to ensure the safety of their children. Because the time to go to school is the peak period, there are many cars on the road, and it is really difficult to ensure the safety of children without parental escort.

Finally, we should guard against people with ulterior motives. Just like some time ago, a neighbor boy of 13 years old killed a little girl of 10 years old. Who would have thought that a child who often meets would kill his daughter? However, it is necessary to guard against people. Parents should pay more attention to their children's safety before their children have enough self-protection ability.

This question reminds me of my primary school attendance. It was in the 1970s. When I go to school, I have to go down a hillside, which takes about 30 minutes to walk, and then I have to cross a big river and walk 10 minutes to get to our school. That's a nine-year compulsory school.

The most difficult thing is to cross the river. I said it's not a big river, but it's quite big. At that time, a hydropower station was built on the river not far from the school, which could control the electricity consumption of two surrounding towns. Now the power generation capacity of this power station is stronger.

Usually we can jump on the pedal to get there. Every rainy day, those college students take the initiative to help us. Everyone consciously waited by the river to count the number of people we learned on the way. When all the students in that road are here, the college students will either carry or lead, or organize everyone to form a line, with the big one at both ends and the small one in the middle, and cross the river together. In this way, we have never had a safety accident on this road.

It rained heavily and the flood surged, so we didn't go to school. When the water recedes, we can go to school again, and the teacher will make up lessons for us. It rained heavily in the afternoon, and mountain torrents soared. After school, the teacher will send us to the river, or we will stay with relatives nearby, or with classmates. Relatives or classmates' parents don't dislike it, they understand it, and they will stay with us enthusiastically. Now that I think about it, I am really touched and grateful. At such a difficult time in life, there are such good folk customs!

The title of this question reminds me once again of those hard and moving years in the past, and the past is vivid. Now that I think about it, it makes people feel scared and moved.

Now that the conditions are good, I am moved and impressed by the dense number of parents who pick up and drop off students at the primary school gate. How good the conditions are now! Not only at the entrance of primary school, but also at the entrance of kindergarten and junior high school. It is not parents who pick up and drop off children at the entrance of kindergartens and primary schools, but grandparents; Parents usually accept their children to attend junior high school before self-study in the morning and after class in the evening. There are mainly the following reasons.

1. Because of the developed traffic, from the perspective of safety. Now the schools are all in the town, and the traffic is very developed. When the child was young, parents were not at ease when crossing the road alone, so they sent an old man to pick up the child.

I'm worried that my children will get lost. The phenomenon of abducting and selling children in society a few years ago has decreased now, but the shadow of bereavement is lingering. Therefore, for personal safety, the old people also volunteered to pick up the children.

Everyone values children. Now there is only one child and two children in a family, and there are four or more elderly people on both sides. Middle-aged people are very busy at work, and the old people are afraid that their children will suffer, so they all come to pick up their children.

4. Junior high school parents send their children in the morning because they have to go to self-study in the morning and are in a hurry; On the one hand, picking up children after class at night self-study is to accompany them and increase the chances of understanding, because the family at night self-study can only get together after class. On the other hand, parents in junior high schools pick up their children after school at night, and there are many parents of girls. Parents think that society is complicated, and now children enter adolescence ahead of schedule, fearing that their children will be affected by external factors.

I met a parent who told me that he took it as a pleasure to pick up and drop off his children. His grandson is a senior one in our school, and his home is less than 20 minutes' walk from the school. I said, it's so close, don't you have to answer it? He said, it's okay to eat it anyway After walking around the river bank, he naturally came to the school gate. After waiting for 10 minutes, the children are going to study at night. We both went home talking and laughing all the way, very happy.

Now that the conditions are good, the parents who pick up and drop off students at the school have given me the following idea: 1. It is a manifestation of social progress.

It has always been the ideal realm in the eyes of the ancients to learn from the young and support the old. After decades of reform and opening up, this ideal realm has already become a reality. Old people no longer run for a living. Taking care of children is their greatest happiness and the happiness of our society.

2. It is the guarantee to improve the quality of the whole people in our society.

Teenagers are the future of the motherland. They are now receiving such preferential treatment, which determines that their career and realm will have a higher starting point in adulthood.

3. Contributed to social stability.

Some parents are too strict, so that bad elements have no chance, and gradually there is no market until they disappear. Society will be more stable and harmonious.

4. Parents' picking up and dropping off their children also has some inhibitory effects on their growth.

For example, children's independence is worse, their autonomy is worse, their learning is almost blocked, and they are later integrated into society. In this way, children's knowledge and ability outside of study are not as good as when we were young.

Some behaviors of the elderly will bring some negative effects to children.

What I want to talk about here is not intergenerational education, but the performance of old people waiting outside the school gate. Our primary school finishes school around 3 o'clock here. Older people will wait more than 1 hour in advance. I once saw a "spectacular" scene outside a primary school: the old man who picked up the children often had dozens of "tables" while playing cards.

6. In cities, picking up and dropping off children can also cause traffic congestion.

My suggestion: 1. Kindergarten, primary school 1-2 grade children can pick up and drop off, primary school grade 3 and above do not need parents to pick up and drop off. This can provide some social space for children to grow up. Before this, parents should have taught their children the necessary safety awareness and preventive significance.

2. Junior high school parents can study at night. Because students are at school from morning till night, there is little time for communication between parents and children. Most parents have already left work during evening self-study hours. Picking up children at this time can improve the communication between children and parents, reduce some generation gaps and improve the effect of family education.

3. The state continues to strengthen the rule of law and provide a harmonious social environment for children to go to school and leave school.

Because people nowadays are not as simple and kind as before. Nowadays, people are too complicated (including human trafficking, rape and murder, school bullying) to be at ease. There used to be two or three children, even four or five, but now there is only one or two. If you can't afford three children. Therefore, it is necessary to pick up and drop off, and nothing can go wrong.

The subject asked the parents who picked up the students at the primary school gate. Why do parents have to pick them up at school now? I think it is mainly to ensure the safety of children.

When I was a child, I went to school alone, not just me, but almost all over the world. Because there were few bad guys with simple folk customs at that time, I had never heard of abducting children, and my parents were at home when I left.

At that time, almost every family had several children, far less exquisite than now. I remember I went to school in my village from grade one to grade five, and I went to Lianzhong three miles away in junior high school. I have never used my parents to pick me up and drop me off for years. Parents can't send it if they want, so many children can't.

Things gradually changed when I grew up. In the 1990 s, my niece went to kindergarten and needed parents to pick her up. I'm impressed. My sister and brother-in-law are busy at work, so the heavy responsibility of picking up and dropping off children falls on my father who is retired at home. The old man has worked hard to send his children to junior high school, rain or shine! I also help occasionally.

The niece doesn't have to pick up and drop off, but the father is not idle at all, because the eldest daughter has reached the age of kindergarten again, and the old man continues to be busy, and he also sends his children to junior high school without picking up and dropping off.

Due to historical reasons, my eldest daughter doesn't need me to drive her to school. I have been in charge of the whole process since Neil started kindergarten. I can't go to my wife for something. In short, I must ensure that one person can pick up the children every day.

Kindergartens and primary schools now explicitly require parents to send their children to school. Neil's kindergarten has very strict regulations in this respect, which really ensures the seamless connection between teachers and parents, thus ensuring the personal safety of children.

Neil graduated from kindergarten and entered the first grade of primary school. The school still requires parents to pick up their children every day. At present, cars on the roads in Ma Rulong are like running water. The child is too young to walk alone. Need adult security escort.

On the one hand, children who walk alone face traffic danger, on the other hand, parents are very worried about the danger, that is, unscrupulous traffickers. If parents let their children go to school alone, it is a dangerous road from home to school. We parents can't let our children take risks under any circumstances. We really can't afford to get hurt.

Now my Neil is in the second grade of primary school. It is not far from home to school. I have to pick her up in person every day. Although it is hard, the child is safe. Compared with the safety of children, the sufferings and tiredness of adults are a piece of cake. Poverty inherits the wind!

After reading many comments, it is even more ironic that parents dote on them. I really want to say that there are definitely no children of this age in your family. It's easy to talk standing up. If you don't give an example, it happened to 20 19 girls in Grade One of Guangqumen Middle School in Dongcheng District. Now that the child has gone to heaven, parents may not have come out of this bad news. This home is what you said. The child goes to school by himself every day, but one day when crossing the Tiantan overpass, he meets an adult who asks her for help. The child was very kind and helped her, but it was because he helped the devil that he lost his life and was stabbed many times! The end result is that this person has a tendency to retaliate against society! I think the parents of this child should regret it very much. If they are given a choice, they will definitely choose to send their children to and from school every day and never let them go by themselves! Whether it is true or not, you can go online and search the situation of the murdered girl in Guangqumen Middle School! No matter how many children there are in the family, they are all treasures in the hands of their parents, and no one can afford to gamble on their children's lives! Please keep your breath and don't hang up and comment so calmly on the parents and the elderly who pick up the children! In the wind and rain! Every day, every year! It's not as simple as you said to do nothing but pick up and drop off!