? Women often listen to irony.

"I don't want a gift" actually means that I hope you must buy her one.

Women's duplicity is more complicated than Einstein's theory of relativity. If your pa

"I don't want a gift" actually means that I hope you must buy her one.

Women's duplicity is more complicated than Einstein's theory of relativity. If your partner doesn't understand the subtext of irony, it may be in trouble.

Leng Li, a senior psychological counselor of Shanghai Happy Life Marriage Consulting Company, told the reporter of Life Times that from the perspective of people's personality, men are thinking animals and will think according to logical thinking, so they often speak directly; But women are emotional, the biggest feature is that they are particularly sensitive and pay attention to the feelings between people, so they will not say it directly. "Irony is a psychological reaction of many women to hide themselves and try to figure out others." Lengli said that when women interact with people, they will hide their true feelings through "irony" and detect other people's thoughts. For example, some wives like playing mahjong very much, and she may "helplessly" say to her husband, "I didn't want to play mahjong at first, which is meaningless, but they insisted that I go ..." If her husband says "Don't go if you don't want to, I'll tell him for you" without reason, the consequences can be imagined.

The duplicity of gifts is the most classic irony scene of women. According to Lengli, women often like to use men's attitude of buying gifts to measure whether they love themselves. "On special days such as birthdays and anniversaries, women especially want a gift, but they find it boring to ask for it. Men don't understand this and often ask women for advice. Women often inadvertently express their dislikes and wants. If the husband believes her and doesn't buy it, the wife will be extremely unhappy; On the contrary, if her husband insists on buying it, she will be happy. "

Women who speak too straight are vulnerable, but those who like to say irony will attract men to a certain extent. However, Lengli reminded that it is an emotional mood for women to play tricks and talk about irony occasionally, but it should not be excessive, otherwise it will make her husband feel tired. Especially after marriage, don't always be sarcastic. Over time, my husband will complain that he doesn't know your true thoughts, and his feelings will be affected. A smart woman should not only grasp the degree of irony, but also decide whether to say irony according to her husband's personality. Some men don't like beating around the bush, and he doesn't understand irony. At this time, it is better not to be bored.