How to face up to the shadow of childhood sex games?

when I was young, I stole my mother's sanitary napkin? Watching kissing on TV will simulate with your partner? Or simulate intercourse? Did these things cause you pain when they were enlarged? Some boys and girls, after having sexual consciousness, are afraid of sexual games in their childhood, and feel dirty and impure, especially girls, who are burdened with heavy ideological burdens and have inferiority complex, which seriously affects their heterosexual communication. In childhood, there may have been various sexual games between brothers and sisters, or with familiar childhood partners. Their physiology and psychology are not yet mature, but through the observation of mom and dad's behavior, or through movies and television, they begin to feel curious and fresh about the relationship between the sexes, so they blindly imitate adult behavior; Maybe it's just an instinct, prompted by human nature, and it's not obscene at all. When I was young, this kind of children's sex game was equivalent to children's "playing house". It is a form for children to learn family life. Some play the bride and groom respectively in the game, and even take a sedan chair and enter the bridal chamber. This is to satisfy the curiosity of adult behavior, which has nothing to do with sex and morality, and will not cause harm at all. Therefore, parents should not give them any labels, and teenagers who grow up don't have to bother themselves. Besides, a person can't be responsible for his behavior when he is not sensible in childhood, and everyone will inevitably do some childish and ridiculous things. Many children have such experiences in childhood. In their hearts, there is no sense of "sex" or sexual desire. Therefore, even if the game has a sexual color, it has no sexual content. There is a famous painting in which a little boy opens his underpants with his hand, and a little girl curiously stretches her head and looks inside. This painting makes people see the naive side of the child and shows the innocent heart of the child. Many children and teenagers have similar experiences, but because "talking about sex in the family turns pale, going online in school, and being confused and sensitive in society", boys and girls are very sensitive to "sex", and the lack of necessary knowledge will complicate the simple things, so that the psychological burden cannot be put down. The sexual problems encountered by teenagers are very personalized. If there is no chance to talk and solve them, they will become psychological obstacles in their growth and development. Therefore, if adults find that children are playing sexual games, they can be guided to understand that it is just a game and cannot evolve into the reality of life. You can also take this opportunity to make them establish a sense of difference between men and women, and tell them that some parts of the body can't be shown or touched casually. Never make a fuss and blame your child for being "indecent" and "hooligan". This will easily leave a shadow that sex is ugly and dirty in their hearts, which will affect their healthy development of sexual psychology. praise