What does it mean for a female lover to have wine and food and live a heroic life?

"Women live a heroic life with wine and food" means: life is very chic, so they should eat and drink.

This topic reminds me of my best friend:

My best friend is a very open person. Because she didn't have a good relationship with her husband, she found a lover outside. Couples do business. At first, their feelings were very good and sweet, and there were many interactions at ordinary times, such as traveling, watching movies together and often watching videos.

Once, my girlfriend sent a video to his lover, accompanied by a sentence: "Have a happy life, don't waste money, have wine and food, and live a heroic life, so let's come together"! Life is wonderful, don't waste good time, come on, eat and drink together.

With the change of time, it was discovered that the relationship between two people was not so heroic. My best friend is divorced, and my boyfriend's family is in a hurry.

Therefore, the relationship between lovers is a dangerous game, so don't touch it easily. If you touch it, it's you who get hurt, and it's the other person who gets hurt. True love must be considerate of each other, otherwise it is not love.