Family rules and regulations of modern families

Politeness is the most important passport in life!

Take the initiative to say hello when you meet someone, thank you when you accept help, and apologize for causing trouble.

Politeness is not just lip service, but sincerity from the heart. Politeness does not pick occasions or crowds, and it should be your heartfelt cultivation for anyone.

2. Respect for elders is a lifelong accomplishment.

At home, grandparents give you everything, not because you are the center of the family and deserve preferential treatment, but because they love you.

Their love shouldn't be a weapon for you.

At all times, you should respect your elders. You should not yell at them or boss them around. When they call you, you should immediately agree, and don't turn a deaf ear to them.

You should put your elders first. At the dinner table, you can't move chopsticks until your elders move them.

3. Be brave and apologize for doing something wrong.

Everyone will make mistakes, and everyone will accidentally hurt others, including adults.

After making a mistake, the best way to save it is to bravely admit the mistake, apologize to others and ask for forgiveness.

even if it is a small mistake, the other party may not mind, but you can't pretend that it didn't happen.

Apologizing is forgiven by the other party, which is generosity of the other party. It's not that your mistake is trivial, and you can even make it again later. Some mistakes are best not to be repeated, because the damage is irreparable.

If you do something wrong, you need to apologize. Children are like this, and so are adults.

4. Do your own thing

Mom and Dad take care of you now because we love you and because you are young, there are some things you can't do, so we help you.

But you are growing up and your ability is getting stronger, so you should learn to do some things by yourself.

For example, tidy up your schoolbag, for example, tidy up your toys, for example, help clean up and tidy up your room.

These are the skills you should master. You will grow up slowly and leave us slowly. Before that, you should master the ability to live independently.

and it is our responsibility to teach you to learn these skills.

if a family sets these 1 family rules, its children will be more and more promising in the future.

5. Be grateful to everyone who is kind to you.

The food you eat every day does not appear steaming on the table by yourself, but is cooked by your mother with hard work.

What you eat every day is not what you should have at home, but what your father tried to earn money to buy.

of course, we do all this because we love you, but you can't take it for granted.

Everyone who has helped you and treated you well should be grateful. No one has the obligation to treat you well, including us.

you must remember that others are kind to you, not because you were born with it.

6. Obeying the rules means protecting yourself

This society is full of rules.

rules at home help you form good habits;

Traffic rules on the road to ensure smooth roads and pedestrian safety;

school rules and regulations in the school enable students to study in a better environment;

the laws and regulations of the state safeguard the life and property safety of every citizen.

You should understand, son, that rules are not only used to restrain us, but also to protect us.

you should understand that it is not the rules that we need to abide by, but that we need to abide by the rules so that our life can be calm and orderly.

please remember that obeying the rules is the greatest protection for yourself.

7. Never give up learning

Son, I am grateful for the development of the times, because for you, before you are 18 years old, you know what you want to do, and that is to go to school.

you didn't plan this, nor did we plan it for you, but we planned it instead of everyone.

What I want to say today is that after you are 18 years old, you should not stop at graduation, but live and learn.

The society is changing every day. Only by continuous learning can we not be abandoned by the times.

So, please don't say that learning is hard, that's your way to see the world.

8. Violence is not an effective means to solve problems.

Conflicts are inevitable, but we hope you don't fight, because violence is not an effective means to solve problems.

When you encounter anything, you should be patient and rational, so as to solve problems correctly.

If you can't avoid it, remember not to use weapons, don't use your teeth, and do it with discretion. Besides, we hope you are the one who wins.

we don't advocate violence, but when personal safety is threatened, you should be able to protect yourself and fight back.

if a family sets these 1 family rules, its children will become more and more promising in the future.

9. Remember to ask their parents for help.

You can have secrets with your father, your mother, your friends and even your own little secrets.

But when you encounter a problem that you can't solve, and this problem has affected your mood, please remember to ask us for help.

We are the people who love you the most and want to protect you the most. Maybe we will criticize you, maybe we will be angry with you, but we will always love you and protect you.

1. Life is more important than anything else

This is the last and most important one. When your life is threatened, you don't have to abide by all the above. Protecting your own safety is your most important thing.

In this matter, please forgive our selfishness. Your life is your life, and we will not interfere, but your life is not just your life, but also our expectation and everything.

So, please protect yourself and cherish your life, for yourself and for all those who love you.

Son, love and making rules are not the same thing. It is our instinct to love you, but making rules is to make you a better person.