Why do you say that girls are rich and boys are poor?

The so-called poor support and rich support here refer to the influence of material conditions on the cultivation of children's personality. We all came from childhood, and it is very important for us to have a rich family. There is no doubt about this, so for a girl, better education and broader horizons obviously play a positive role in her future life.

For a boy, poor support is to let him understand the difficulty and hardship of life and cultivate his survival skills, so that he can work hard in the future social competition. You know, the domestic can't beat the wild.

At this point, it is necessary to change the subject and talk about objectivity. Whether it is poor or rich, it is actually a subjective attitude, and there is no way to apply it to the real education field. We should look at it dialectically when cultivating children.

I certainly hope that my children will not have such childhood regrets when they grow up, and will not sigh for a doll, a set of toys or a dress for decades.

I have a daughter, and I will be rich, but this kind of wealth is spiritual. It doesn't mean that children who are spiritually enriched don't eat human fireworks, just live in the spiritual world and don't have what they like and want.

Spiritual prosperity means that she hopes that the real happiness and satisfaction in her life will not come from material luxury, but it doesn't mean that she can't have a wish.

A father once told me that when his daughter grows up, he must tell her that if any boy says what to give you, you especially like it. Don't want it, don't want it. Come back and tell dad that dad will buy it for you.

At that time, after listening and laughing, I felt a lot.

I don't expect my husband to say such things to my daughter in the future, but I hope my daughter will feel that no man in the world can love her more than her father when she grows up.

I hope we won't cause some regrets in her life, but we need to make it up to her from someone else. For example, I talked to a student about her "love" and she told me that my parents didn't love me so much.

I hope my daughter will never say this sentence-this is what I think is the most important "rich support".