Is there any good way to get rid of children's homework?

Homework is one of the important parts of children's learning, which aims to make children reflect on what they have learned. But especially for children in lower grades, it is almost a "common disease" to dawdle on homework. Many parents lose their temper, but they are always on the verge of running away from home! Therefore, in fact, many primary school students have the problem of delaying homework. Many children may have no concept of time, like to play, can't do it, and so on. And our parents' attitude and handling methods are very important.

Many times, children's procrastination in homework may be related to us. Sometimes we unconsciously rescue our children from the present pain: the children don't want to squeeze the bus and drive him to school; If you have problems with your classmates, help them solve them; Diligent in homework, try every means to let him write or help him write directly ... but it is these pains and tiredness that are now exempted that will make children face more difficulties and setbacks in the future. Think about the previous generation. Did they dawdle when doing their homework? Maybe, but not much. Because life in those days made them suffer enough, and their study became happy. But now the material conditions are getting better and better, and there are too many sweets in life, which makes learning to do homework miserable. We will hesitate before drinking Chinese medicine. In the face of hard work, children will naturally linger.

Children's procrastination in homework can be largely attributed to the need to be respected. The respect that children need is that parents don't always give me high-profile orders; My parents don't always see my shortcomings; Mom and dad, don't stare at my study all the time. Talk to your child about the best way to learn-not just study; The best way to make children happy to do homework-not just talk about homework. Paying attention to a child who is slow in homework is to respect him.

This makes parents angry and anxious. Because children muddle along and don't do their homework seriously, it means that their academic performance may decline, which is almost the "inverse proportion" of all parents. Because the score is very important, if the score of the key entrance examination drops, it means that the resources of the school are reduced, and then the road to learning becomes less spacious, which may affect the trajectory of life. So parents are anxious and will command their children in a tough way. But the harder it is, the harder it is for children to hide in their favorite spaces and games. In the final analysis, whether children can change their homework behavior depends on us.