What if my son disagrees with Laozi?

The blood relationship between father and son means that father and son are the closest relatives. However, the so-called personality incompatibility is just a lack of communication and understanding. Therefore, in order to regain the harmonious relationship between father and son when children are young, it is necessary to communicate more and understand more.

1. More warmth, less severity. Mothers should give their fathers more advice, not always putting on a stern face to their children, more friendly care and warmth, and less warnings from their elders. For example, when eating, asking dad to pick up his favorite dishes for his children, or handing him a schoolbag before going to school, or even patting him on the shoulder silently are all ways for dad to express his love.

2. Encourage more and strike less. Every child wants to be outstanding in learning and ability, or at least excellent. When the child's grades dropped, he was already blaming himself. The father's reprimand at this time will make the child feel that he is not understood, resulting in rebellious psychology, so that the relationship between father and son is becoming more and more alienated. Fathers may wish to encourage their children more, such as "if you don't do well in this exam, find out the reason and correct it next time." Dad believes that you will make progress! " Children will be inspired by you and have rebellious mentality, so the relationship between father and son will become more and more alienated. Fathers may wish to encourage their children more, such as "if you don't do well in this exam, find out the reason and correct it next time." Dad believes that you will make progress! " Children will be inspired by you and take the initiative to make progress.

3. Be more close and less silent. Silence is a taboo in parent-child communication. Without communication, it is not enough to understand children's attitudes and ideas. On the contrary, children are often misunderstood and parent-child conflicts are aggravated. Fathers can "chat" better than children, and learn about their children's current situation in chatting, such as study, life, emotions, communication, etc., to help children solve their puzzles and gain their trust.

In life, parents should listen to their children, especially their fathers. Even if they are sometimes silent, as long as you actively pay attention and listen carefully, the child will feel that you are his strong and reliable backing, which will make him feel more secure and trust you, and the relationship between father and son will be natural and harmonious.