On the heartache of second-married women (heartache and helplessness of second-married women)

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For a second-married woman, it is a kind of fate to meet another gregarious person in this life. Many women will cherish marriage after remarriage, but not every man is worth cherishing. Now there is a kind of marriage called poverty alleviation marriage. Some women will cling to men, and some men will ask women to help the poor.

Swallow married such a man the second time she got married, and both of them remarried. In the last marriage, the swallow had a daughter and the other had a son, so the family reorganization can be regarded as both children and children. When Swallow married him, he had a small shop selling daily necessities. He can't earn much money, but his life is enough.

Swallow is the leader of the company, with a monthly salary of 20 thousand, much more than her husband. In addition, she has made some investments and made some money over the years. Therefore, she is a second-married woman with capital. She married her partner because she thought he was honest and reliable and took care of his family. After marriage, two people live together with their children and in-laws. Swallow is a generous woman. She bought a lot of clothes for the man's children and family as soon as she entered the door.

The world is biased against second-married women. Swallow wants to fight for the position in the family through these ways, but she didn't expect that her understanding would be rewarded by the other side. Before marriage, the man had a car with tens of thousands of dollars, and it was enough to be a scooter in a small city, but the husband had to change it. There is nothing wrong with changing trains. The key is that the man has no money and needs a swallow subsidy. Thus began the poverty alleviation marriage.

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Before getting married, Swallow saved 300,000 yuan. Less than a year after marriage, I spent more than 100,000 yuan subsidizing my husband to buy a car and decorate the storefront. At that time, Swallow didn't think too much, just thought they were husband and wife, and she also wanted her husband to live a better life. As long as she is capable, she can help.

At first, the man's family was polite enough to swallow it, because their lives have improved a lot since she got married. Neighbors all praised Stefanie as a good daughter-in-law, earning a lot of money and being filial. In the second year of remarriage, everything changed, and watching swallows earn more and more.

The man began to instigate the swallow to invest in his business, with a hundred thousand in his mouth. Swallows know that they are not cut out for great things. First, he has no ambition; second, he has no business mind. He just listens to his friends, and it is inevitable that he will be cheated. Swallow made a condition that you can do business, provided that you know the market situation. If you think this business can be done, then there is no problem.

The man has a firm attitude. If you don't invest in him, he will stay at home and do nothing. Zheng Xiaoyan is very helpless. The most terrible thing about poverty alleviation marriage is that the man obviously has no ability, but he uses your heart to push his luck. Every time you obey, it will aggravate his oppression on you.

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In this poverty alleviation marriage, it is not only the husband but also the in-laws who want to help the poor. My in-laws have always wanted to build a house in their hometown, but they have no funds for so many years. So they turned their eyes to the swallow. The swallows didn't agree at first, and they all moved to the city, which made it even more unnecessary to build a home.

However, my parents-in-law found many excuses, saying that the house in my hometown has good feng shui, and the house will be more prosperous when it is built. Swallow's money has been tossing, so I told my in-laws that I really can't get it out now. In-laws don't believe in life or death, but also complain to their sons that swallows are unfilial and virtuous.

As a result, family relations have become tense, mother-in-law relationship, husband-wife relationship. With the swallow's refusal, all family conflicts appeared. This is the push of poverty alleviation marriage. If you have money, you will be respected. If you refuse to give money, you are worthless at home. This family is the most utilitarian. They accept you not because of you, but because of your money. It is said that women are realistic, but in actual marriage, no man will let himself suffer.

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The second married woman is sour and helpless in her heart: poor marriage is most afraid of pushing her luck. The meaning of marriage is that two people share weal and woe, not just you and me. Even husband and wife, no one wants to help the poor. Everyone is responsible for his own life. We get married, not to take on another person's life, but to open up a new world together.

There must be benefits in marriage, so a good marriage must talk about money. But in this dimension, it is not you who exploit me, but two people work together to maximize their interests.

Just like the point of view of economics, marriage means running a business, signing a contract, running a family business and signing a lifelong wholesale futures contract.

In the poverty alleviation marriage, it is unfair that one party is sowing and the other party is harvesting. What's even more frightening is that you don't get paid again and again, and finally you have to push your luck. When we get married, it's like looking for a partner. We won't tolerate a man who has nothing. We are looking for someone who can advance and retreat with us. So help the poor get married, goodbye.

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