How should I get along with my sister-in-law?

"Friends are not separated by a mother after all." I disagree with this sentence. Sister-in-law is the other half of your brother. You should treat your sister-in-law like your brother. Do you think you and your brother are "separated by a belly"?

Don't you think getting along with your sister-in-law is like getting along with your brother? I think this is what your brother wants to see, and your sister-in-law is also very happy. Of course, you treated her like an outsider from the beginning. You've been trying to save the scene for two years now. It's a little late.

If you want to get along with your sister-in-law, don't pick on her, because this family will be your brother's in the future, which means that in the future (maybe now) the hostess will be her, not you, and you will get married in a few years. You must be kind to her first, even if you are a little warm-hearted and a little cold-hearted. In this case, normally speaking, if my sister-in-law is really a good person, she will definitely be more respectful, caring and considerate to you. This is called not worth the loss. Even if she is not a very nice person, she won't speak ill of you in the future. This is the first point.

Second, you are all women, and you all have the same direction, that is, you all want to get married. She is a little older than you, and in this respect, she is your predecessor. You can ask her how to get along with her mother-in-law and husband, how to be a husband and how to fall in love. Everyone is happy to be consulted because they will feel respected and satisfied. You ask her this. Under normal circumstances, she has no reason to refuse you, and you will benefit from it. It is also right for young people to learn with an open mind.

This will bring you closer. How you want to be nice to her depends on your own personality.

Also, "sister-in-law's mother does nothing", it is too inappropriate for you to take it out. It is really your ignorance. People are laborers and work hard outside. It is also appropriate for someone (not a worker) at home to do some housework, and it is also reasonable to let them say "nothing" in turn. This is what you do. It's called a thing. Then you really should be called "Little Princess".

Good luck!