To be a man, we must grasp the classics of discretion.

Love can't be easily forgotten, let alone a man who is so consistent with her pace and beautiful love. After three years of washing, the original hatred has long since faded, but love has not dispersed, fermenting in her heart like wine, stirring her heart. That man has become a treasure in her heart, Tang Sancai, noble without a trace of fireworks.

What is happiness? Happiness is holding hands, walking through the noise together, waiting for loneliness together; Is to accompany a person who wants to accompany him, laugh together when he is happy, and cry together when he is sad; Is to have a heart that you want to have. It is not boring to repeat boring days, nor is it boring to do the same thing. As long as there is love in our hearts, we will be happy. Happiness lies in our original promises and our future dreams.

Those beautiful things, when we have them, often turn a blind eye. Only at a certain moment, when you feel that you are about to catch them, regret, guilt and regret will gradually occupy your heart. For example, time, we are abandoned, and only an occasional white hair knows that youth is perishable; For example, love, when met, will not be cherished, and when missed, will understand that reality is so cruel. Some things are lost, which makes us unforgettable more than having them.

Spend your life with people who make you happy, not people you have to impress. Choose the person who makes you happy for the rest of your life, not the one you have to try to please.

Every miserable person has two me in his heart: an imperfect me and a perfect me. Imperfection is human nature, so this I am real; Perfection deviates from human nature, so this I am illusory. Admit imperfection, we can find our true self, though imperfect, but complete.

If you want to get out of the shadows, let your face face the sun; If you want to say goodbye to cowardice, let your heart become strong through experience; If you want to get rid of ordinary life, try to fly proudly. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions. Over-sensitive people are always thinking, and the result is that they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, less muscle is better than more heart.

I gave birth to fireworks, but I can't change your face all my life. In fact, we are all the same, laughing for other people's stories, but crying for our own stories. The sunset on the horizon set in a hurry. Before I could smile, people were injured again and again. .

If you have an unbreakable knot in your heart, put it in the seal. Time will always take away everything, including you and me, and this relationship between you and me. No one can replace you, so I think I'll go on alone. When I am silent, I can still remember you quietly. At least this is a kind of happiness.

Suddenly want to cry; Suddenly want to go home; Suddenly want to eat something; Suddenly want to go somewhere; Suddenly want to get drunk; Suddenly miss a person; Suddenly want to sleep; Suddenly want to die; Suddenly want to shout; Suddenly want to get married; Suddenly want to fall in love; Suddenly want to run away from home; Suddenly want to lose memory; Suddenly want to play tricks on people.

Make a cup of coffee, turn on the music and light a cigarette, so my thoughts spread in the lonely space and let the music flow through all my feelings in the room. Condense your thoughts into faint snowflakes and fly freely in the middle of the night.

Happiness is a feeling, that is, the temperature that we can feel each other. Only details can break the siege in the inherent thinking. In real life, happiness is what you give back to you.

When we watched a lovely angel fall to the ground, she was greeted with laughter, and those applause encouraged her to start from an early age. She reads and writes, and weaves an emotion that is both happy and can catalyze adults to be stiff for many years with naive children's words.

The only things that people can get for nothing in life are poverty, laziness, illness and despair. If they don't practice their dreams, then they are illusory. Action is the only boat that leads to the other side. There is always confusion, hesitation, confusion and misguided. Those clouds obscured the sunshine of fate. What we need is calmness, patience, persistence and change. As long as faith is immortal, struggle is another kind of scenery, and failure is another kind of glory.

Without reality as the foundation, romance is a castle in the air. Campus love often ends in graduation, mostly because it is unrealistic and not in a city. Only when people appreciate each other and admire each other's strengths can they collide with the most beautiful sparks and bear the sweetest fruits of love.

To be a man, you must have a good proper limit: if you are too honest, you will become pedantic; If you are too alert, you will become smooth; If you are too brave, you will become reckless; Too heavy, it becomes dull; If you pay too much, you will become a beggar; When greed goes too far, it becomes corruption; If you are too persistent, you will lack your mind; Too much goodwill has turned into weakness; If you are overbearing, you will become overbearing; If you go too far, you will come to a dead end.

The so-called maturity; Don't think that money is happiness; Don't think that the promise has been fulfilled; Don't think that criticism is attack; Don't think that flattery is reverence; Don't think that flattery is loyalty; Don't think that cool is beauty; Don't think that honey talk is love; Don't think that smiling faces are friendly; Don't think waiting is infatuation; Do not think that youth is youth.

If you live in a dream, there are joys and sorrows in the change of the dream, but you can never indulge in joy and escape from sadness. Or is Li Bai open-minded, a hundred generations of passers-by, and everything goes backwards for fun? Yes, for the sake of happiness, it is better to face it like this. It's okay to be drunk today. Eat, drink and be merry in time.

Inner scars can be clearly painful from beginning to end every night. Those wounds, like me, are stubborn children who refuse to heal, because the heart is a warm and humid place, suitable for anything to grow.

Being alone for a long time is quite happy except loneliness. A person will gradually mature after a long time. A person will love his parents more than before after a long time. Being alone for a long time, I have no expectations for all festivals. Long after hearing and seeing other people's sweet words, a person will still mind something in his heart. After a long time, a person will become more and more rational and realistic. Staying alone for a long time will be addictive.

Everyone has a bottom line, and we should know how to grasp the discretion.

1, always remember that home is not a purely rational place, but also a place where love needs to be expressed.

2. It is clear that you can see other people's mistakes; Seeing your mistakes is awakening.

3. It's not that you think too much, but that experience has taught you to be silent; It's not that you become too fake, but that the world has taught you how to protect yourself.

If a person has no honesty, even if he is smart, he will always be a dangerous person.

5. Violence cannot solve the problem. But violence can solve the problem maker.

6. Everyone has a bottom line, but we must know how to grasp it. We should stress principles in major events and be measured in minor ones. If we don't show our feelings, it's hard for others to support us. Excessive hypocrisy also makes people avoid it.

7. If someone appreciates you, you should know whether he appreciates your ability or your power.

8. The place where you can't go back is called your hometown, and the place where you can't go is called the distance. How many people have been on the road ...

9. Some people bear the contempt of others and turn all their unwillingness to fate and their desire for life into a driving force for progress. There is a word called bear the burden of humiliation, which means that you should have the courage to bear the grievances in life and the tone of others pointing fingers.

The art of workplace communication: talking to your boss carefully.

The art of communication in the workplace: talk to your boss carefully. Talk to your superiors carefully.

As a subordinate, if you can actively talk to the leader and help him share some difficult problems in his work, you can gradually eliminate some barriers and get along well with your boss. But the boss is the boss after all. Sometimes, even if you exchange opinions with your boss out of kindness, you should pay attention to your discretion. If proper limit is good, a common sentence will add a little weight. The words are few and precise, giving people a thoughtful feeling.

One sentence makes people laugh.

Tang Xiao is a graduate of a famous university in Beijing. She was recommended by the department, applied for a state-owned enterprise with excellent results, and was assessed at different levels. Finally, she got the opportunity to interview the person in charge of the recruitment unit alone.

Do you have a boyfriend? The person in charge suddenly asked this question.

Tang Xiao made a lot of preparations for this interview, but she didn't expect the other party to ask such a personal question. She didn't know how to answer to satisfy the person in charge, so she answered truthfully: yes.

Is he a local or a foreigner now? .

He is going through the formalities of going abroad. Tang Xiao still answered honestly.

Will you date him in the future?

It's no use going out for my major, so I didn't think about going out.

Are you guys breaking up? What would you do if your superiors liked you more?

That means I did a good job. I will make persistent efforts to a higher level.

What should I do if my superiors have wild thoughts about you?

At this time, Tang Xiao has been a little angry. She really doesn't understand what this problem has to do with her future work. Maybe this company has some special considerations.

So she tried to calm herself down and answered very seriously: thank you for asking this question, which shows that the top leaders of your unit are aboveboard people! To tell the truth, I once worked as an intern in a company. It was because the boss made a bad idea that I resigned in a fit of pique, but they didn't ask this question when recruiting. Comparatively speaking, if I can enter your company, there is no reason not to try my best for this team. When these words were finished, Tang Xiao finally saw a satisfied smile on the head's face. He got up and shook hands with Tang Xiao warmly, congratulating her on being formally employed by the company.

In the face of a series of privacy-related questions, Tang Xiao always answers modestly, and her grasp of the content is very measured. Coupled with her generous attitude, she finally won the employment of this unit.

Jump in one word.

Yuan Chonghuan is a famous loyal minister and a brilliant strategist. He was in Jianning Yuancheng, Liaodong, defending against the Manchu attack. Nurhachi attacked Ningyuan and was heavily shelled by Yuan Chonghuan, resulting in casualties. Later, Yuan Chonghuan was dismissed because of Wei Zhongxian's slanderous remarks. After Wei Zhongxian's death, Yuan Chonghuan was re-enabled, and Emperor Chongzhen appointed him as the Minister of War, in charge of military affairs in Northeast China. Yuan Chonghuan, who has been reused, can finally show his talents. He feels very proud.

On one occasion, Emperor Chongzhen of the Ming Dynasty summoned Yuan Chonghuan and asked him: How many years can Liaodong be leveled?

Yuan Chonghuan said without thinking, five years!

Emperor Chongzhen was very happy and praised Yuan Chonghuan.

Later, someone asked Yuan Chonghuan: Does it really take only five years to pacify Liaodong?

Yuan Chonghuan ha a smile and said, I'm just saying, let the emperor a little rest assured!

However, Emperor Chongzhen did not expect that Yuan Chonghuan was just talking.

Later, Emperor Chongzhen really gave Yuan Chonghuan five years to pacify Liaodong. Yuan Chonghuan couldn't take back what he had said, so he had to bite the bullet and accept the impossible task. As a result, he died before he could conquer.

As the saying goes, company is like a tiger. When you get along with leaders, you should not talk too rashly, even if you report the situation at ordinary times, you should pay more attention. After all, the boss is not an ordinary colleague, what's more, we should pay attention to discretion when talking between ordinary colleagues.

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As the saying goes: people talk to each other, and people talk to each other. Although this statement is exaggerated, the truth is profound. This is the most basic requirement of speaking. Be careful when you ask questions or report your work, especially when you say something that makes your boss unhappy.

When you talk to your superiors, you must be modest and show respect to him; Answer questions, no matter how big or small, seriously, concretely, in detail, not perfunctory, not to mention casually.

Speak with your superiors carefully, but not too politely. Being too polite will appear hypocritical, but it will lead to misunderstanding.

When talking with your superiors, you should be good at reading and speaking, and deal with it gracefully. Once you get used to it, you can cope with this situation. To overcome the timid mentality, the more cautious you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes, and the more likely you are to be mistaken by your superiors for lack of courage and unworthy of reuse.

There are many kinds of superiors. When you speak, you should try to figure out the psychology of your superiors and vote for your own interests. For example, leaders of different ages like to listen to different characteristics, old people like to listen to honest and steady, and young people like to listen to fashion.

Leaders of different sexes like to listen to different words. Men pay more attention to logical thinking while women pay more attention to emotional thinking. Therefore, strong persuasive language should be adopted for male leaders, and what they say should be well-founded. For female leaders, you can be gentle and emotional, so that she will like you more.

Leaders with different educational levels should also be treated differently. For leaders with low education level and rich experience in work and life, they should speak in simple, clear and daily language; For expert leaders with higher education level, we should adopt abstract reasoning methods and use more concise and compressed language.

In a word, when talking to superiors, we must pay attention to the occasion, grasp the discretion, and never be reckless. Here are a few words that subordinates should not say to their superiors, which need readers' special attention: (1) Say to your superiors: You have worked hard! This sentence should have been said by the boss to express condolences or rewards to his subordinates. Now it seems that it is not good for the subordinates to say it to their superiors.

(2) When answering the boss's question, say: Whatever! The boss will think that his subordinates are indifferent and don't understand etiquette, and naturally look down on the person who said this.

(3) Say to the boss: You don't understand this! Or: I know! You don't know this! Or you don't understand this! In this case, even the most familiar friends may feel greatly hurt, especially disrespectful to say such things to the boss.

(4) easily say: it's too late! I think the boss is too slow to do something wrong. Your boss will think you are blaming him.

(5) Say to the boss: No? It doesn't matter! This is obviously disrespectful to the boss.

To say the least, it is also talking about ways and means, saying inappropriate things.

I find it difficult! When the boss assigns work tasks, the subordinates all say it is difficult, which directly makes the boss humiliating. On the one hand, it seems that he is shirking responsibility, on the other hand, it seems that the boss has no vision and makes the boss face hard.

Suitable for WeChat in a bad mood: I don't understand the relationship, even if I am jealous, I must grasp the discretion.

1, you believe in your god, and I will keep my hell.

2. if you don't understand the relationship, you should grasp the discretion even if you are jealous.

People who love the wrong person will lose anyway.

There are all kinds of flavors in the world. Thank you for your sweetness.

5. The world will never meet me again.

6. It is common for passers-by to be in a hurry, lonely, fragile and uneasy.

7. Work hard if you like, and you are not qualified to laugh at others.

8. Many people don't need to meet again, because they are just passing by. Forgetting is the best memory we can give each other.

9. In the rest of your life, the snow will make you dull, poor, brilliant, tender in your heart, tender in your eyes and tender in your eyes.

10, born without forgetting peace of mind.

1 1. Is your bed big? Are you afraid to sleep alone?

12, I am consistent about love and money.

13, many people don't need to see each other again, because they are just passing by, and forgetting is our best memorial to each other.

14, look back and see how many I have.

15, you believe in your god, and I will keep my hell.

16, hug when joking.