Children put forward strange ideas, should parents support them?

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The child came up with strange ideas. Should parents support it?

Personally, I absolutely support it.

The world of children is different from that of adults. There is nothing right or wrong in their world, and people are sinister. They look at the world with pure eyes and ideas.

When children withdraw cash and have strange ideas, we should listen carefully and guide carefully. Don't stifle their ideas. It is precisely because they have this curiosity that they can stimulate his thirst for knowledge. I thought it was pretty good. We should encourage him. This is my personal idea. Thank you.

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Children ask strange questions, sometimes it is not that he is really strange, but that we adults feel strange. For a child, his questions are natural and serious.

So we should turn ourselves back into children, observe from their point of view, and think about why he raised such a question.

A general principle is that children will ask questions, which shows that children have strong curiosity and inquiry spirit. This is very encouraging.

The most lethal and even stupid answer is what is this question? It's strange. Forget it.

Be sure to encourage him to ask questions and answer his questions seriously. If you can't answer them, you should check the answers.

Children ask strange questions, parents must communicate with him more and support her to ask him the reasons for the questions, and then his ideas may be able to tap the children's strong imagination and creativity, and never restrain their imagination.

This is why many children especially like100000. Why is there really100000? Why it may be a way to understand the world when I was a child after 80 s and 90 s.

It is suggested that the child write down all his strange ideas. Maybe a few years later, he will recall these thoughts, and some things behind them may also be helpful to his life and growth.

I am sunshine. I'm glad to answer your question. The child came up with strange ideas. Should parents support it? I think we should support it.

Many parents don't take their children's ideas seriously and just perfunctory things. If the children's ideas and parents' traditional views have an impact, parents will definitely think that the children are wrong, will deny their ideas, and may even criticize them. Parents treat their children like this, which may stifle their curiosity and produce psychological shadows.

When children put forward different ideas, parents' attitude determines whether children carry forward the original spirit or become clever. For a simple example, parents and children travel together. When children propose to take another road, parents are likely to flatly refuse because they are used to this road. In fact, children must have their own ideas when they propose to take another road. Parents listening to his ideas is an affirmation of children's courage to think creatively, which is conducive to children's habit of being good at putting forward new ideas. Therefore, parents should give strong support. I hope my answer can help you, thank you.

You need to know why children have such "strange" ideas, and fundamentally satisfy his curiosity.

All "strangeness" is against our common sense, but for children, many things are new things, that is, children have no common sense about new things.

For example, some children will try to jump from a height, because he has seen that Iron Man can fly and Altman can fly. This is a cool thing. He thinks he is Altman, that is, Iron Man, and he also wants to experience this handsome and cool beauty. As for what happened before, I saw the big, happy wolf and roasted other people's children. )

For us, people can't fly without foreign objects, but for children, they don't have this common sense.

Then should we support his strange and even absurd idea? We should support him, but not support him to jump, but give him common sense about flying and let him experience it.

That's right, the child mentioned above is my Xiong Haizi, so I took him to play that kind of trampoline, let him experience that kind of stimulation and do the stimulation of safety measures, and let him understand that flying is based on Iron Man's steel suit, Altman's Transformers and the protective belt of trampoline.

Before that, he liked to experience the feeling of flying at home, such as being transferred from the sofa to the ground. After confirming that his life would not be in danger, I "indulged" him, and soon he fell into pain and understood the truth.

Like these strange ideas, children are absolutely unrestrained and open-minded. When you don't know their real needs, there is no way to stop their determination not to die until they reach the Yellow River.

My baby is crazy about fire engines, police cars and ambulances recently. Tell me every day: mom, there is a fire at the door today. I drove the fire truck to put out the fire. And the wounded, I drove an ambulance to save them! I pretended to be surprised and said, what about the doctors and nurses in the hospital? Why are you alone? The baby will answer me: "because they all went to eat!" " "

Every day when I go out to play with my grandmother, she has to carry water guns in big bags, such as water guns (because it is his fire hose), plastic hoses (because it is his fire hose), his crooked car (because it is his fire truck) and even clothes hangers (because it is his fire ladder). ...

Grandma took the trouble to help him go out with a bunch of "equipment" and then come back with more things. He would say to me excitedly every time, "Mom, look, I have more equipment." It's just a pile of stones and dead leaves. ...

He would also tell me, "Mom, I'm going to sleep with ants. So I can see how they work. " "Mom, can I give my snack to the frog? Because they are starving in the pool. " "Mom, can I become a shark? In that case, my sister won't bully me. " ...

Naive children always have many strange ideas that are different from ordinary people. Sometimes adults will be puzzled, and sometimes even when they are tired from work and in poor health, they will shout out their strange ideas loudly, because children's irrelevant ideas will always challenge impatient parents.

In fact, children put forward "strange" ideas because they are thinking and trying to understand what they encounter. This is an exploration of this new world and a manifestation of a strong thirst for knowledge. As children grow up, they are exposed to more and more new things and their curiosity will become stronger and stronger. They will keep asking questions and have more strange ideas. At this time, parents' attitude towards their children is particularly important.

In the face of children's "why" and all kinds of whimsical ideas, what should parents do to protect their children's curiosity and stimulate their curiosity?

1, in the face of children's ideas, parents should try to answer in a language that children can understand, even if they can't answer at the moment, don't blame the children. This will make children afraid and even kill their curiosity.

2. Guide children's curiosity. Parents can explore with their children and actively participate in their children's world. For example, if children are curious about the activity track and lifestyle of ants, parents may wish to take their children and take a magnifying glass to nature to give them time to observe and explore. Or, take your children to the library to find relevant information and let them know that there are various ways to explore the world.

The most important thing is that parents should respect their children and their independent thoughts. Even in the eyes of parents, many children's ideas are naive. However, Rome was not built in a day, nor did children grow up in an instant. Learn to give children time and space to grow up and respect the development law of children at every stage, and children will grow up healthily, freely and happily.

Parents must support their children's strange ideas.

Edison was a child with many strange ideas when he was a child. Let's take a look at his childhood story first.

Edison liked to ask questions from an early age. His mother understands the child's psychology and always gives him a satisfactory answer as much as possible, and inspires him to think again and ask questions again. When he was five years old, he once asked his mother, "What is a chicken doing sitting with its eggs under its ass?" Nancy told him that the hens were afraid of catching cold, so they kept them warm. Edison asked again, "Why should eggs be kept warm?" Mother replied that it was used to hatch chickens.

After listening to his mother's words, Edison thought that a hen can hatch a chick by putting an egg under her ass. Can you hatch chickens by putting eggs under your ass? Determined to give it a try, he found some eggs, hid them in his neighbor's warehouse, made a nest, put them in it and squatted on them to hatch chickens.

Edison disappeared, and the family was very anxious. It took several hours to find him in the warehouse. However, the mother did not blame and make fun of her son, and Edison's enthusiasm for learning was even greater.

Because his mother protected his curiosity and stimulated his thirst for knowledge, he finally became a great inventor under his mother's education.

The story tells us that it is very important to encourage and support children's ideas and stimulate their imagination and creativity!

Our children may not be Edison, but we can be Edison's mother! Give strong support on the child's growth path!

Children put forward strange ideas, should parents support them?

First of all, what is whimsy?

This strange idea means that it is different from the general view of adults. For example, children will say that the sun is green. Does this make us feel strange?

Scientists have done experiments and drew a circle on the blackboard. Middle school students will say that this is a geometric circle.

And primary school students will say, this is a circle and a balloon, and then listen to the teacher tell you the correct answer.

Children in kindergarten will say, this is the sun, this is the full moon, this is the tortoise, and this is the balloon.

Obviously, with the growth of age, children's imagination and creativity are getting lower and lower, which is actually not a good thing. If imagination and creativity are to be the advantages of children in the future, we must protect their ability to put forward strange ideas.

Then the second question is, do parents want to support it?

Let's just say that on the basis of ensuring safety and morality, it is best to support children.

This kind of support can be verbal support or action support.

For example, children ask such questions, such as why Altman flies? Why are there dinosaurs?

Some questions like this, we know, we can answer to children. If you don't know, you can tell your children that mom and dad don't understand, but we can find the answer together and study the problem with our children.

This is a way of thinking and doing things to solve problems:

Asking questions-analyzing problems-the embryonic form of solving problems.

Through our words and deeds, we subtly bring this ability to children.

Many times, education is hidden in the details. Such support can make children grow up better, and the support and help of parents will make children grow up more and be more creative.

What do you think of this?

I have lived to this age, and I think I have seen a lot. Tell me what the child asked.

The question mark was thrown to the subject. Why don't you tell the netizens how this child can have unexplained ideas?

No matter what you think, you must be reasonable first. If it is unreasonable, of course it will not be supported, but the reasons for not supporting it must be given. Don't talk about reasonable demands, you know.