What should I do if I feel humiliated when others speak ill of me? For example, others say I have no culture, but others have never said so. Am I the only one around?

Why should he say to your face that you are ill-bred? Can't you answer him? What's the use of sulking here? Secondly, if he says you are really uneducated, and you admit that her words are the golden rule, or that he is God, then you listen to him and you are what he says. Your psychological adaptability and resilience, as well as your understanding of the problem, are a bit too narrow, too wonderful and too ridiculous. Then you are what others say. Isn't that being led by the nose? I still want to be independent. Don't be influenced by what others say. It is much more useful to fight back when it is time to fight back than to want to be useful here. It is better to be wronged here. Do something else. It's over anyway. If you want to find a factory, you can do it. In short, call back quickly, don't drag your feet, don't feel sorry for yourself, and find your own problems. Of course, we have a problem. We can be self-disciplined and self-disciplined, but we definitely don't mean to be stimulated by others or forced to change.