Meng’s mother moved three times, choosing neighbors to live in, and changing her sons to teach them.

? We know the story of Meng’s mother moving to live next to her three times. Chinese people have attached great importance to education since ancient times. As parents, we hope that our sons will become dragons and our daughters will become phoenixes. In ancient times, it was the examination for the number one scholar, but now it is the examination for the university. Once you pass the exam, you will reach the sky in one step, and a golden phoenix will fly out of the chicken coop. It's better now. People's minds have been liberated and they realize that labor is glorious and that work has no distinction between high and low. All roads lead to Rome if you are a top scholar. Academic qualifications are not important. Technology is an iron rice bowl. But after saying these self-comforting words, which parent does not hope that their children can go to Tsinghua University and Peking University, which parent does not hope that their children will have a relatively easy and decent job in the future, and which parent does not hope that their children can be proud of them in the future. Are you proud of being a woman? Therefore, parents all over the world are busy, anxious, and silently paying for their children's education.

In ancient times, Meng’s mother moved three times, and now she is accompanying her at the school gate! Poor parents in the world! How many parents pick up and drop off their children at the school gate in spite of the sun? How many parents save money and use their hard-earned money to send their children to training classes? How many parents can’t live in their own spacious houses and go to school with their children? I rent a one-bedroom house in front of the school. How many mothers sacrifice their jobs to wash, cook, and study with their children? Nowadays, accompanying students has become a common phenomenon. Houses in school districts are the most popular, and renting a house in front of the school is the most expensive! Everything is for the children's learning and their future! There is no way. Large companies will go to prestigious universities to recruit. Third-rate universities may also have talents, but others can't see them!

Let’s talk about changing children and teaching them. In layman’s terms, I teach your children and you teach my children. Maybe you will say, is this because you are full and full, and you are playing house with children? This is not the case. I remember when we were practicing driving, I heard that the instructor never taught his wife to learn to drive, she couldn’t! When the coach curses, the wife dares to take action. So coaches all leave their wives to be taught by other coaches, so they learn quickly. The same principle applies to changing children to teach. Why do many parents complain that they cannot control their children, complain that tutoring their children in homework is too inefficient, and get so angry that they even stage a mother-child war? Even if the school teacher is full of teachers, he may not be able to grow his own big radish. Because in school the teacher is the teacher, at home the teacher is the mother or father, and the role-playing is completely different. At school it’s work, at home it’s family relationships. In addition, parents always feel that they are the father of their children, and they cannot control themselves from shouting and yelling. Because they hate iron, they always give more criticism than praise. Because of comparison, they always feel that other people’s children are excellent in everything, and their own children are always superior. The child is nothing. In the same way, children are fed up with their own parents and feel that the parents of other children are more respectful, amiable, and reasonable, and are willing to get along with the parents of other children. Children can only get praise, praise, and a sense of accomplishment among other people. Today's children live in a high-rise building, and their neighbors have not been known to each other for many years. My parents are busy at work and lack playmates. In addition to going to school on weekdays, I do homework and attend cram schools on weekends. So today’s children are relatively lonely. Without social experience, lack of life experience, and no life materials, I can't write an essay. Therefore, many parents also look forward to living next to each other, hoping that their children will have several good playmates to influence and learn from each other! Yi Zi Er Jiao just shows that there are certain drawbacks to parents tutoring their children in homework. It would be unrealistic to really teach by changing people. In this way, there are certain advantages to putting your children in boarding schools or in tutoring! There are pros and cons, so those who are busy working and leaving their children in daycare need not feel guilty. Putting my children in care can cultivate their independence, get used to group living, and have many friends for life and study. It helps me establish friendships, cultivate my social skills, and get all-round training! This is also a better teaching method than teaching by Yi Zi!