My wife left me and betrayed me. I want to divorce her. She also said that she was divorced. I said I'm leaving now. I don't want to be so miserable, but she doesn't.

Then you can sue for divorce directly to the court,

1, the law stipulates that husband and wife have the obligation of loyalty. If your wife betrays her marriage and lets another man intervene, it is the fault of the marriage, and it will compensate you, and considering the mental health of the child's growth, she will try her best to award it to you.

The reason why she doesn't want a divorce now is that she wants to get more money from you, and she is not sure whether this lover will marry her. If so, she can abandon her family and divorce you. If not, then she will continue to use you as a spare tire and find another new home.

3, you have to have a little self-esteem and a little brain and get out of here.

Educator makarenko once said a classic saying, everything is given to children, everything is sacrificed, even his own happiness. This is the most terrible gift parents give their children. A child who has no moral bottom line, marital loyalty and family values is extremely distorted inside. If you really want to grow up, leave early, find a good mother for your child and give your child high-quality love.