Talking about the monologue of facing debt

Text/@ Mahjong's debt intimate contact &; @ Mufengtang &; Qin Gongchuang

introduce

Debt is not debt, why scare yourself.

When we are heavily in debt and in deep trouble,

What we are facing is,

Not understood, not trusted, not accepted,

Every small step forward,

Covered in thorns, walking on thin ice!

However, we must move forward.

The expectation of parents, the desire of children, the call of lovers,

Let's not stop,

You must stick to it!

No matter why you are in debt, no matter where you are now. How difficult it is to go retrograde, but we must firmly believe that we can't be defeated, let alone defeated!

Why is the debtor a person who is difficult to retrograde?

Because of debt, it means you will bid farewell to everything that belongs to you! Although this process may be short-lived, you have to face the reality.

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Relatives are the most reluctant feelings.

For everyone who is in debt, nothing is more painful than letting his family go into debt with you.

Except for some personal bad hobbies such as gambling, drug abuse and profligacy, most people are in debt only to improve their family status. For example, entrepreneurship is the best proof.

No one starts a business because they want to prove themselves or have social status. They are all aimed at changing the family status quo, giving parents a beautiful old age, giving their wives a comfortable life and giving their children a healthy living and growing environment.

In other words, only people with poor economic conditions can't meet the current needs and choose to start a business. If life is rich and economic conditions are relatively abundant, who is willing to take risks? Who wants to bear the stigma of "Lao Lai"?

Before starting a business, my family was happy, strongly supported and full of expectations!

However, things are unpredictable, success is accidental and failure is inevitable!

If it fails, it is possible that the whole family will be implicated. Not to let them enjoy the splendor with you, but to suffer with you! This is our pain.

What is more painful is that once many people fail, their wives and children will be separated! This is a fatal blow to us.

Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes! Endure humiliation, scrimp and save, in exchange for the lover's leaving without saying goodbye!

The family is separated, there is no shelter, no one to talk to!

First, I can't face my parents, second, I can't understand my lover's departure, and third, I can't face my dear children! In the dark, crying alone!

Please dear family: If you have unfortunate relatives in debt, please don't abandon them!

Tell those who always say: once the debtor doesn't pay back the money, divorce and transfer the property. They are suffering, you don't understand!

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I won't kill Boren, Boren has died because of me.

Each of us knows to be honest and fair. But you know, for debtors who are heavily in debt, where does honesty come from and where does justice come from?

Very simple example. For example, if the debtor owes money and has no repayment ability, it can only survive first and then develop debt repayment. This is honesty! But how many people are willing to give them a chance?

I dare say, none! While asking debtors to be honest, don't give them an opportunity to be honest!

In fact, this is the real society, real life!

If you are heavily in debt, you will find that friends or acquaintances around you will hide when they see you. One is that you are afraid to borrow money from them, and the other is that being with people like you lowers their noble status!

People with high emotional intelligence will comfort you and say a few words of face after meeting you, so that you can speak if you have any difficulties, but as soon as you speak, they will have 10 thousand reasons to prevaricate you! If you meet someone with low emotional intelligence, you will directly start hurting you in public. This is a typical tragedy.

I remember a line in Degang Guo's cross talk: annoying people, laughing people!

Being marginalized by society, it is more difficult to develop and turn over than to ascend to heaven.

You can't get others' trust, information, opportunities and fair competition!

Where did you get the chance to turn over? You didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of you!

We can only tolerate the success of others and never tolerate the failure of others! If you fail once, you will never succeed!

Excuse me: Without the chance of trial and error, who can guarantee that your life will be smooth and your children will be happy? Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi.

Isn't someone else's today your tomorrow?

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To learn from the past, enough is enough.

In addition to family and society, what is more important is the punishment measures implemented to punish crimes. Those debtors who maliciously evade debts must be punished to regulate people's behavior.

However, it is enough to punish those unfortunate people who are sincere, or those who have turned over a new leaf.

For example, restricting untrustworthy people from applying for business licenses. The debtor has to apply for a business license, which is enough to show that he has a chance to start over. If the debtor is heavily in debt, what other way can he pay his debts besides this road?

As the saying goes, a single spark can start a prairie fire, and maybe a small entrepreneurial project can make them make a comeback.

For example, the restrictions on aircraft high-speed rail. For debtors who don't pay back the money, this mode of travel will never be chosen. What is really limited is those who need to go out to work and negotiate business in order to run around. In today's high-speed economic development, high-speed transportation is a complete set. Such restrictions not only reduce their labor efficiency, but also may lose many opportunities.

In fact, this is not good for paying off debts.

Restrictions are ok, but don't go too far!

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Preferential policies, do not abandon, do not give up.

In the past two years, the debt ratio has risen instead of falling, and the state has also actively responded to the voice of the people and introduced a series of good policies.

For example, the "personal bankruptcy protection system" piloted in Shenzhen and Hangzhou is to give debtors a buffer time and achieve the purpose of solving debt disputes.

For example, the personal credit repair mechanism is also to give the untrustworthy a chance to start again.

But remember: no matter when the policy comes out, you must cheer up, don't give up on yourself, just wait for the relief from the state. Such an idea, even a policy, has nothing to do with you.

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The predicament regresses and keeps moving forward.

For debt, we face it positively.

We can't relax ourselves.

We can't give up life.

Even if you are heavily in debt, even if you are retrograde in the dark, you should be your own strong man!

Keep moving!

Finally, if your relatives are unfortunately in debt, please give them warmth and trust!

If your debtor is unable to repay at the moment, please give them time and opportunity!

It's really difficult to sail against the current!

Get up.