How humble is it to be a nanny in someone else's house?

My aunt went to be a nanny and came back in less than half a month, saying that she couldn't stand that anger.

Aunt said, "You are not allowed to serve. I cooked the rice on the table, cooked it for the three of them, and then cooked a bowl of rice for myself. When I sat down to eat, my female employer woke me up and said I couldn't eat until they were full. I can only wait by, feed them from time to time, make soup for them from time to time, and finally eat the rest of the kitchen. "

"There are their children, her mother dotes on her, tingbude her crying, and she has a big temper. Once I helped her take a bath, she wanted to play with toys. I was afraid that she would catch cold after playing for a long time, so I told her to stop playing and I'll help her clean up first. But the child is so stubborn that she just won't listen to me. I directly raised my hand to wash her crunchy nest and accidentally dropped her toy. She stood up and slapped me in the face. A four-year-old girl slapped me. Who can stand this anger? "

From my aunt's account, I really feel that she is very wronged. She ate the leftovers from her host's house and kindly bathed the little girl for fear that she would be slapped if she caught cold. However, despite the aura of family, I don't think my aunt is innocent.

As far as leftovers are concerned, Xiao Yan, as a nanny, should consciously not eat at the employer's table. After cooking, she can type out the weight she wants to eat and put it in the kitchen. First of all, put yourself in the right position. Going to the employer's house is to be a nanny, not a guest. Not only do I feel aggrieved that I can't eat at the table, but I also feel that it is easier to eat alone in the kitchen.

Eating at the same table with the employer, if we eat too much, we are afraid that people will dislike our appetite. If you eat less, you have to work, and you have no strength. If you like to eat, you are afraid of robbing your employer. A person is more free to eat, and we don't have to worry about whether eating by ourselves will affect them, not to mention what table manners employers have that we don't understand.

And that little girl. People's own mothers like to spoil, but they don't like to make their children cry. As nannies, we just do what employers want. You can add some hot water in case the little girl catches cold. Why do you want to fight against a little girl with a big temper? Finally, I ended up in a thankless situation. I meant well, for fear that she might catch cold and be slapped. It was also deducted from the employer's heart, and it was not worth the loss.

People who feel wronged in being a nanny in other people's homes are in an improper position. They work in other people's homes, not as guests. Even if they work in other places, the boss will make all kinds of demands on us. Being a waiter in a restaurant is also about picking up dishes and making soup for guests. Why can't you go to someone else's house as a nanny?

Working in a factory is also a management, and there are discipline requirements, as well as requirements for the quality and quantity of products you make. As long as you know that you are here to work, the boss has money to give, and you don't have to worry so much about the rest.

If you do your job well and meet the wishes of employers, they will be very kind to you, fearing that you will not continue to help them. After all, it is not easy for employers to find a nanny who is willing to do things well.

Let me answer this question, (I write in the first person, I, it seems that the article is closer)

How humble it is to be a nanny in someone else's house. This question is hard to say. I'm a nanny. I want to do what a nanny should do for my master! I wrote it when I hired a job.

My job is to take care of a two-year-old female corpse. I take care of it myself during the day and her parents are responsible for cleaning and cooking at night. They don't eat at home during the day and come back for dinner at night. I cook and her parents take care of them.

Working hours start at 8: 00 in the morning, and I live in their house until 8: 00 in the evening, with a salary of 4000! I don't think I am humble at all. They respect me very much. I take care of the children, do a good job in hygiene and diet. They all praised my aunt's delicious dishes.

I'm fine in their house, living in a foreign building and taking a luxury car. They also took me to travel, and I was not humble at all.

If you work in someone else's house, you should do your own thing well, and others invite you with such a high salary. More importantly, keep it a secret for your family. You can't tell anyone about your family. Do this well, and you will not be humble in other people's homes. Nanny should give herself dignity! Just do your job and don't care about anything.

There is nothing humble about being a nanny in someone else's house! I give myself dignity and do what I have to do! Don't leave. Everyone is equal.

My former aunt went to work in a family a few months ago. Here are some things that happened to her.

Once I went to have my teeth planted, and the dental clinic gave me a place where my escort could wash my teeth once. I asked my aunt if she wanted to go, and she was very happy because she always wanted to experience tooth cleaning. But when she went to her employer's house for leave, her family told her that if she went, she had to do a nucleic acid test before coming back. Menstruation said he didn't go to the hospital, but the other party said he wasn't well, so he had to give up.

Recently, my aunt accidentally broke a cup in that house, and the other party directly gave her a link, telling her that the price of the cup was 800 yuan, which would be deducted from her salary. My aunt was very angry and thought it was too impersonal. The cups are used, at least at a discount. When she told the other party the idea, the other party was furious and finally she resigned.

When my aunt worked there, the other party scolded her for doing bad things almost every day, but because she worked for five hours every day, the income was quite rich, so she endured it for several months. This cup thing is probably too painful.

When introducing this employer, the intermediary charged 1200 yuan the introduction fee, plus 800 yuan's compensation for the tragedy. These two expenditures have still accounted for a lot of income in recent months.

Humble. What? Take your own physical strength and time to earn relative wages, justified, not stealing or robbing, and upright. It's just that some employers have different qualities, but if you think about it, it's normal to be wronged when earning other people's money, as long as it's not pushed to the bottom line. To tell the truth, which line of work is not wronged now? Just want to drive. After all, they grew up in different cultural backgrounds and have different views on things. Sometimes understanding each other is enough. If you feel wronged, don't work here to prove that there is no fate. Just find a suitable employer to continue working. After all, if you treat others sincerely, you will be rewarded.

I don't think being a nanny is humble. I get paid by my own labor. My mother hired a nanny to take care of two old people. My mother fell down this year, and I can't take care of myself completely. Although I have a nanny to take care of me, I go to my mother's house every day to help me change my medicine and make lunch. I am very polite to the nanny for fear that others will not do it. It is difficult to find a nanny who is kind to the elderly now. Nannies earn more than some young people who work, regardless of occupation.

What's so humble about being a nanny? Now many nannies earn more than those who work in high-end office buildings. My cousin graduated from a university majoring in nursing, 2 1 1, and now works as a nanny in a rich family with a monthly salary of 20K+. Does she feel inferior? She is radiant every day and walks with the wind. When relatives and friends ask about her career, she never feels inferior, but she is confident and peaceful.

Before being a nanny, my cousin worked as a nurse in a private hospital in a first-tier city. Later, because of low salary and many things, she resigned. Later, she was introduced by a friend to work as a nanny at her current employer's house. Of course, this is no ordinary nanny. In addition to three meals a day, she also needs to take good care of her health and read newspapers with her, because the employer is an old lady in her 70 s who has just retired from the position of chairman of a big company. So we pay more attention to food, clothing, housing and transportation, so we have higher requirements for nannies and considerable wages. The most important thing is that the old lady lives alone now, and everything is fine except being picky about food. So my cousin is very happy here, and the old lady likes her cousin very much. She is not regarded as an ordinary nanny, but as a granddaughter. Every year, holiday red envelopes and birthday red envelopes are essential, and the amount is tens of thousands.

Therefore, no matter what profession, as long as it can create value and not steal or rob, there is no need to feel inferior. Compared with those who wear glamorous clothes and go to high-end restaurants, they actually live in dilapidated rental houses and eat instant noodles every night. Such a vain person should feel inferior.

I am also a domestic worker. I had an inferiority complex at first, but I got used to it. It's not easy to see sisters from all over the world pouring out. I gave up my family for a few pieces of silver and gave a group of us a guarantee of life. Parents don't worry about No Country for Old Men, and their children don't worry about food and clothing.

Nannies are uneven, and so are clients. Money doesn't mean quality, and capitalists are not all good people.

In fact, no matter what kind of work is not smooth sailing, don't put modesty in your heart, don't compare with others, and you will never feel inferior if you live in a circle that suits you.

Coordinate Kaifeng! I remember a friend of my mother's was at the richest man's house in Kaifeng. Let's call her Aunt Liu.

Ten years ago, I worked as a nanny in a family in Shanghai for five years. Both employers and employees belong to the elite in the workplace! Aunt Liu has worked here for five years, cooking and taking care of children. In Shanghai, such families are generally very picky. Fortunately, both the employer and his wife are very good, and Liu Yi is also diligent and eager to learn. Employers also praised Liu Yi! After working for five years, I quit my job and went back to Kaifeng because I had to go home to take care of my grandson. Although the employer is extremely reluctant, there is nothing he can do. I bought a lot of gifts for Aunt Liu before I left, and I gave thousands more! After I came back, I also taught my mother some Shanghai dishes I learned. Aunt Liu taught my mother to pickle chicken feet with pepper.

After returning to Kaifeng for two years, the child was a little older, and Liu Yi felt that she still had to find something to do. After being introduced, I still started my old job! Before I went, I said to my mother, "Someone introduced me to a job or worked as a nanny. The salary can be said to be far beyond the salary standard of the local nanny industry. That is, the client is an 80-year-old lady, which is a bit embarrassing! " My mother said that you have worked in a big city like Shanghai, not to mention our work here. Can she be more particular than Shanghai? Aunt Liu thinks it's right. She is not lazy, and the food she cooks is delicious. She can't handle anything. Then I went to my employer's house the next day …

A few days later, Aunt Liu went to see my mother. After meeting, I asked Aunt Liu if she had a rest today. Aunt Liu was so angry that she said, "Forget it, quit", which made me wonder!

It turned out that Liu Yi's employer's house the next day was a villa area in Kaifeng's "North and South Eighty Courtyards". In front of the courtyard are Tian Bo Western Dress and Longting, behind the courtyard is Wanshou Mountain Park, and in the west is Pullman Jianye Five-star Hotel. It belongs to the first batch of high-grade villas in Kaifeng! The employer is Mr. H, the boss of Jianye Group-my mother! [Cover your face]

I said yes, Aunt Liu, she has got into the richest circle in Kaifeng. Ha ha! Aunt Liu cursed: "This woman is really difficult to serve. I didn't know that I was the fourth nanny that week. " The other three chased for half a day at most! H always knew that her mother had a bad temper, so she got a high salary. Besides, it takes two nannies to cook and clean, so I still can't keep anyone. "I said that she has a good temper and can't finish it. People are a little stubborn when they are old, not to mention they are so rich! I didn't know until I heard Liu Yi finish. This wife didn't mean to have a bad temper. But as long as you swear before you speak! Get up in the morning and scold Liu Yi, the nanny, for eating too much, or "Damn B, this place is dragging its feet" or "I'm here to earn money from my family again" or "What is this dish cooked by Niang Na B". Scold another nanny, Liu Yi, as slow as an old tortoise. There is too much water for washing clothes, too much meat for cooking and too dirty hygiene. The nanny took a break and said that she had raised idle people! Haha, getting up every day is all kinds of difficulties and curses anyway, from morning till night! After working for a few days, Liu Yi really can't get along, so leave and resign now!

Aunt Liu also lamented: Once this man is rich, there are really many things to do in B, and I can't afford to wait on B. ..

Not humble at all. A capable and kind nanny is very precious. Now the pressure of life is great, and an aging society is coming. It is a rare thing to find a responsible and caring nanny to take care of the elderly and children. Moreover, there are still many high-quality people, and only a few people discriminate against nannies. It is not humble to work hard and get paid to be a nanny!

I am not humble. I earn money by my own ability. I don't steal or rob. No matter what I do, I will put my thoughts in order. I also work from home. If my employer looks down on me or makes things difficult for me, just leave, and I work hard to make money. It's good to feel the nanny.