"How hard is it for girls to catch up with hundreds of hands?" ?

? It sounds like everything is true. I have also seen many messages from boys, and most people think that "instead of chasing a girl who can't hold hands for hundreds of dollars, it is better to use that time and energy to make money." Anyway, with money, you can't catch any kind of aunt. "Some people say more directly," I had dinner and watched a movie, and then you told me that my period was coming. "

Finally, I know why boys now complain that girls are getting harder and harder to chase, and generally don't chase. Because they can't chase girls at all.

What is the pursuit? This pursuit of spare tire has been confirmed in my mind: women can only get money and a house, and the rest is similar to catching a doll machine, all by luck and without a goal. Ten coins have been put in, but I haven't caught them yet. It's too expensive, it's not worthwhile. For them, it's probably ok for school-age girls to hook up and pursue. If this doesn't work, change to the next one.

? Is this a pursuit? In the eyes of women, this pursuit will only make it boring to waste two hours dressing up and going out for dinner, and all kinds of calculations can be seen in my heart. It's really better to stay at home and watch Sansheng Shishan and listen to YeHua's sweet words. Takeaway will also feel particularly delicious.

? Therefore, even if boys invite girls to eat Japanese food per capita in 300 yuan, it will be dreary for men and tasteless for women. At the same time, girls nowadays are self-reliant. Earn as much as boys, eat better than boys, and what they care about is not how expensive you invite me to dinner. It's about my feelings about this meal and this movie, whether I feel pursued and cared about, whether we have something to say, and whether our tastes in life are synchronized.

? A boy has neither studied a girl's circle of friends nor done his homework in advance. One boring night, he suddenly remembered a girl and asked her to dinner at once. It happened that the girl didn't dislike him, and when she had time, she agreed to this dinner. Then, the boy can say-I pursued a person, how much did it cost? Girls nowadays are too hard to catch up with. If the time you spend with a girl is shorter than the time you spend looking for a job and writing a resume, then don't really call yourself "pursuit", okay?

? In fact, girls can be pursued without spending money. Many men are already in a state of "zero life" after work. The so-called zero life means no amateur life. I don't study and have no hobbies. I don't learn to dress up, and I'm too lazy to exercise. Neither go out to see the world, nor live a good life. Not everyone is like this, but this kind of man is by no means a minority. Of course, they will say that work is too busy and it is too difficult to make money. Girls who can earn money at work, except Meimei and buy buy, some learn languages by themselves, some learn baking, some like photography and some practice mermaid line. Besides working hard to make money, they are still working hard to enrich their lives. It is certainly difficult for a person who has no life to pursue a person who knows life. What can a boring man do to persuade women besides spending money?

? If you really want to pursue such a rich girl, you can't just spend money. There are many men in this world who get married, not by a big diamond ring or a big house. At that time, my husband and I, two poor people working in first-tier cities, had no house or car. He spent a third of his salary a month and invited me to a concert, which was the second time we met. We all like vertical lines. From beginning to end, the whole audience has been singing, and we are also very high. After that, we didn't have a car and couldn't get a taxi, so we walked home for an hour and talked all the time, from the songs we listened to in high school to when we were young. Later, I became his wife and the mother of his children. We will still go to the concert together and go to the movies hand in hand.

? My best friend's husband, who was still starting a business when they met, had neither a stable job nor a house. Later, they looked for a house together. Facing all kinds of trivial things in life, he also fell in love with her fried meat with green peppers. Three months later, they decided to be together. Now, they have been together for eight years and still haven't bought a house, but she thinks her husband has a smart and sexy brain and it is very interesting to be with him.

? So, I want to tell young boys, do you think you can marry a good girl by saving money to buy a big house? Don't make excuses for your backward thinking concept and let girls take the blame. People who have neither inner nor outer need to rely on the house as a shield to explain their dissatisfaction in life. You have to know what kind of life you want first.

? If you give up playing games on weekends and know a lot about American TV series, you can cook a good dish, develop eight abdominal muscles, put on IKEA furniture, carefully prepare the strategy of going to road trip on weekends, read a lot, play a musical instrument and dress fashionably. Doing any of them can help you catch up with a good girl without spending a lot of money. Even I believe that many girls are willing to accompany you to see the scenery. Of course, if you say that you are a man without interest, then you can clearly know that you just want to find a girl who can live, and you can be kind to her. You don't mind that she doesn't have a sexy figure, a shiny white face, but a simple, kind and positive heart. Most of such boys can also find a virtuous girl to accompany them.

? I have met more boys who have no plans for life. They don't know what kind of life they want. Of course, they don't have a heart that believes in love and dares to be responsible for a woman's life. A 30-year-old man, talking about his life, is nothing more than a house, pressure and the reality of the world. What he sees is that others live easily and he has no way out, which in itself is the sequela brought by "not thinking for a long time" Everyone has pressure and struggles in the city. The most precious thing is to meet a sincere heart. Whether friends or lovers, everyone wants to find someone who can know each other and accompany them. This is a very extravagant thing in itself. What is needed is honesty and wisdom, not mindless dating: eating, shopping and watching movies.

? If you put these aside, people are really as vulgar as "trading"-

? I should hold your hand when I invite you to dinner. "

"I'll give you a bag and you have to stay with me for the night."

? It is natural that such a calculation can be confidently said. No wonder girls nowadays prefer to live a chic life by themselves rather than waste their time in love. It's not that they don't like men's bulging waists, but that they don't like your soulless body. They don't think the rice is not tall enough, the movies are not good enough, and the gifts are not expensive enough, but they think it is better to live with such people in the future.