Husband steals mobile phones in the middle of the night.

First, trust is a kind of respect and the cornerstone of emotion.

If my husband looks through my mobile phone, it means that he doesn't trust me, and this feeling is very uncomfortable.

Second, everyone has their own secrets, and they don't want others to know. It's not necessarily something to hide.

For example, after quarreling with my husband, I will vomit his bad habits with my girlfriend; When it was most difficult to get along with my mother-in-law, I chatted with my family and friends on my mobile phone. These spits can help me solve negative emotions. I will turn over a page when I finish writing, but I must not show it to my husband.

Third, seriously, don't try to test human nature.

This is not to say that human nature is dark, but complex. Like emotional loyalty. We certainly hope that the other party will be strictly loyal to themselves physically and mentally in the future. But intellectually, we also know that you can't guarantee that the other person will not have a short mental moment. In this long life, you can't control whether others will enter your partner's heart. You can only ask your partner to be self-disciplined and not to deviate from the track.

And you don't need to know about these potential crises that you don't know about. If it eventually turns into a threatening situation, it will be exposed. If it's just an insignificant little turning point, but you don't intend to find out, what doesn't exist originally becomes a matter of contention and determination.

A mobile phone with a secret may be made out of nothing, may arouse people's desire to peep endlessly, may disintegrate the solid protection of mutual trust a little, and let people face the abyss of human nature.

Just like the movie Perfect Stranger. Because a game that exposes the secrets of mobile phones has completely subverted the cognition and relationship between people.

So, the secret, let it rot in the black box with the secret. The exploration of distrust is a bottomless pit. Clever as you are, don't take the first step.