How to comfort cancer patients

From a psychological point of view, the first thing is whether he understands his illness, whether he cares about him more, understands him, and more importantly, he should be on an equal footing with him and not sympathize with him. He should be treated as before, and even people with good relationships can joke with him, scold him, hurt him and dig at him, so that he feels the same as before. The cancer patient13 was scared to death,13 died of overdose, and finally13 died of ineffective treatment. Although there is no scientific basis for this statement, it illustrates a truth: if patients can remain optimistic and take correct treatment actions, it is possible to overcome cancer and prolong their lives. Cancer patients and their families should be prepared for a long-term battle, cultivate an optimistic and correct attitude towards life, establish a positive belief in winning, and create a relaxed and happy living environment for patients. First, recognize the reality as soon as possible. Although it is cruel to face the reality, it is useless to just escape. Admitting the reality is a process, and you can tell yourself in your heart that this kind of pain is normal. No matter who encounters such a thing, it will be very painful. Don't fight your own pain, accept your own pain first. Then, take the right way to vent your pain, such as crying, talking to others and doing strenuous exercise. It is worth noting that we must choose the right way to vent, otherwise, the wrong way to vent will inevitably lead to more painful consequences. Second, actively understand relevant knowledge. Panic and helplessness are the most common psychological reactions of cancer patients and their families. Generally speaking, we are more likely to panic when we don't know something. For example, we were very afraid of SARS in those days, because we didn't know about SARS, its transmission route and its treatment. So is cancer. If you just think that cancer is a terminal disease, then the inner panic will be strengthened. The best way is to consult a doctor and consult relevant information. Once you have a certain understanding of the cause of the disease and the treatment plan, your inner panic will be reduced. Third, look for cases of cancer rehabilitation and actively encourage patients and their families. With the development of medical conditions, many cancer patients have been well treated and recovered. Family members of cancer patients may wish to find more cases in this area and study with cancer patients. The most important thing to study here is the ability to cope with difficulties and an optimistic attitude. Maintaining a good attitude and hope for the future will play a key role in treatment and rehabilitation. Fourth, find a circle and get emotional support. Cancer patients and their families may wish to consciously find a circle. Because the members of the circle have some common experiences, it is easier to understand and support each other. This circle can be online or between patients. If you can take the initiative to become the leader of a circle, then you will gain more powerful spiritual strength.