My opinion on comrades-in-arms gathering

. If you can exchange your life for the survival of others, who is willing to sacrifice? Comrades! A special group that "fired at me". Comrades, with years, decades or even decades of military experience, have devoted their youth to defending Jingbian, withstood the test of life and death, and forged loyalty, military character and unforgettable feelings through the tempering of blood and fire.

I don't know that once upon a time, the gathering of comrades-in-arms was a blowout and very lively. This kind of organized and undisciplined gathering of comrades-in-arms is sincere and unparalleled. I am very excited to see my old comrades-in-arms for many years or even decades. This kind of excitement is not only reflected in the process of the party, but also lasts for a long time after the party. This is the friendship of war, sincerity, purity and eternity!

Gay gathering is a very pleasant thing, but we should also pay attention to unpleasant things. Let me tell you what time it is.

0 1, put down the shelf:

From the moment we retired, we were an ordinary veteran. Take off the collar badge, that is, history has returned to the original point. Ordinary people are no different from others. Once someone stops calling you Colonel or Battalion Commander, just call you by your name, never mind. Even after returning to the place, some took up leadership positions, some were business owners, billionaires, some were workers and farmers, but everyone's identity remained the same: "We are comrades in arms!" Mission of the same party: "Come and meet your comrades!" One-day comrades-in-arms, lifelong brothers, equal to each other, no one should look down on anyone. Comrades get together, be caring and attentive, reminisce about the past, taste delicious food, enjoy beautiful scenery, sing military songs and take photos as a souvenir. The officers and men are consistent and have a deep friendship.

02. Normal mentality

1, in the army, everyone has different positions and different roles, but they are all indispensable screws and have made contributions to national defense and society. Comrades get together and talk about the past and daily life. Don't say how much you have contributed to the army, and how many outstanding developments he has made since he retired, so as not to divide his comrades into three or six. And hated.

2, comrades-in-arms party, some people drive luxury cars, some people change buses, and some people get up early to catch the agricultural shuttle bus; These phenomena are not surprising. Surprisingly, comrades-in-arms and comrades-in-arms can be expensive without showing off, poor without inferiority, and plain is true. We once lived in a military camp, ate a pot of rice, slept in a Datong shop, groped in the trenches, and forged a war friendship with the joys and sorrows of life and death.

03. Attach importance to friendship.

1, comrades-in-arms party, everyone is heading for the same theme, looking for: go back to the past time and find yourself. Talk more about the life of the army at the party, don't expose other people's scars, and don't make fun of other people's shortcomings; Tell more funny stories about happiness and less negative things; Talk more about the past love of comrades-in-arms, and don't talk about ruining your face. In the army, some people made mistakes, some people wrote reviews, and some people were even punished or locked up, which was not conducive to unity.

2, everyone has privacy, gay parties, don't ask questions, ask other people's sensitive questions. If you feel at ease, let the past become the present, and don't fidget because of a little wine.

3, comrades-in-arms gathering is mainly to exchange feelings, enhance friendship, it is not easy to get together, and don't always complain, no one likes to listen to your bitter water, can only destroy the happy atmosphere.

04, safety first

1, health first. It's okay to drink less at the party, but don't argue, let alone persuade. Drinking too much wine hurts the liver and stomach, and we are all old enough to eat. As the saying goes, "a little wine is pleasant, but a big spill is harmful." Persuading people to drink is to persuade people not to get drunk. Some people get drunk and lose their manners after drinking. Only when the body is safe and sound can friendship last forever.

2, remember, driving without drinking, drinking without driving, don't be careless.

The scale of the party should be small, not big, but fine. It should be small, in principle, one town and one city, and everyone will go back to their homes on the night of the party. If it is not appropriate to make a big deal, you should think twice before you take part in interesting parties across counties (districts) and provinces (cities), ranging from a hundred people to thousands or even tens of thousands. Nothing, three or five comrades-in-arms, get together at will, reminisce about the past, remember the bitter experience, drink tea and cook wine, drink gracefully, broaden your horizons, blow some cowhide, why not? The so-called abuse, both in great fanfare, sightseeing, feasting, disheveled, drunk lying on the battlefield, is all ugly.

4, people are old and their physical condition is not as good as before, and they will be willing to participate. So don't get too excited when comrades meet, just relax. A little carelessness often leads to lifelong regret. According to the internet, at a comrade-in-arms party, after all, old comrades-in-arms have not seen each other for many years. They fell in love at first sight, but their passion was hard to suppress. When they were young, they also greeted each other by boxing, but they didn't know that the other party had a heart stent. They died with one punch, and the party became a memorial service.

5. With the increase of age, the risk increases accordingly. As the saying goes, "sixty don't give up drinking, seventy don't stay, eighty don't stay for dinner, and ninety don't stay." There are hidden dangers in these age groups, and the process of gathering friends from prosperity to decline is convincing. The first 10 years after retirement is the peak of gathering. Since the second year of 10, the enthusiasm for gathering old comrades has been cold year by year. It's not that they don't want to be together, but that they have this disease and that disease. If there is 10 in the third year, there is no energy. I think it's better to meet on the screen when I'm old.

I know a comrade-in-arms who changed jobs at the regimental level in other units. Last year, he rushed back to his hometown from Shanghai to attend the "August 1" party of his comrades-in-arms, and returned to his hometown that night. I don't know when he will go to that world to have a party with his wife who has been away for less than a year. He was 79 years old when he left. There is no need to send an obituary, all the comrades attending the party have come to offer their condolences.

6. Before the COVID-19 epidemic is relieved, there is no need for all parties to take risks. Taking care of your unique body is the best wealth of your friendship.

05, in step

1, consciously punctual. All comrades attending the party will be informed of the time and place. For example, there was a gathering of comrades. The organizer will sign in in Guiyuan, Yongfu County on August 1 day12, have dinner at 12:30, and get together to discuss, exchange feelings and take photos with all the comrades. Your comrades-in-arms ask to be in place before 16, and you are not punctual. It's a pity that you are missing from the "family photo". Only by keeping pace can we win.

2. Abide by the agreement. All expenses of the spontaneous comrades-in-arms party are AA system, with consumption shared equally and personal burden. However, some people pretend to understand. It is reported on the Internet that in a fifth-tier city, a comrade-in-arms enthusiastically organized a gathering of comrades-in-arms, clearly telling them to consume AA system. Eight comrades came, after a round of eating and drinking, they all left one after another, and no one paid the bill. Fa Ren Chao is the monitor of the army. After he retired, he arranged for a company to work, and soon became a laid-off worker, and his financial situation was difficult. Another comrade-in-arms who sells breakfast has to pay the bill and give it to the party sponsor for settlement. But I haven't recovered a penny for two or three years, and the parties in recent years are no longer organized. It can be seen that you don't abide by the agreement, that is, you don't cherish the friendship between comrades.

3. Actively cooperate. Gay parties are like a TV series. The organizer is both a screenwriter and a different performance, and is responsible for planning and directing. Reflected in careful conception, thoughtful and meticulous arrangement and the implementation of various measures; It is manifested in the satisfaction of participants and the effect of safety and comfort. The old comrades attending the party are all like "actors" and can't be "outsiders". Say what you should say, do what you should do, do what you should do, and do what you should worry about. Only in this way can the "TV series" of the comrades-in-arms party have higher "ratings".

Is it suitable? For the comrades who take the exam, welcome to communicate, thank you!