"When you are old, you have to understand that it doesn't matter if you support the elderly and children. Money is king. " what do you think?

He Lu's view is not only that "people should understand when they are old: supporting the elderly has nothing to do with their children", but also that children are independent individuals when they get married, and many things have nothing to do with themselves. The pension left to Mrs. Kim by Uncle Laojin's death was also exposed, amounting to 500,000 yuan. Usually, the old couple scrimp and save, and Uncle Jin likes to write articles, which cost a lot, plus his own pension. But Liuzi didn't expect so much.

With the death of Uncle Jin, the old lady Jin's pension problem has been put on the table. Four sons want their mother to go to their home, and two daughters are fighting for her to go.

After calming down, Mrs. Jin decided to go to a nursing home, rent a house for herself and go to a better nursing home without paying money. Children who are interested can come to see themselves every week. And wrote an agreement: grandchildren come to see their own, every time 200 yuan red envelopes; Every time my son and daughter came to see their 300 yuan red envelopes, they never came for three months. After a hundred years, the remaining money and houses have no inheritance rights.

In this way, Mrs. Jin became a landscape in the nursing home. At the weekend, her children and grandchildren went to see her in big bags, and everyone said she was really lucky.

Although money is king, you have to be able to arrange it. Mrs. Chen and Mrs. Jin had the same experience. After his wife died, he left 300 thousand, and the two sons advised his mother to take out the money and divide it. Anyway, she still has to rely on her two sons to support her old age. Mrs. Chen thought about it and agreed.

At the beginning, Mrs. Chen looked after the baby for her sons, who took turns living at home, but they were all well together. Only two years later, the grandson and daughter-in-law had conflicts, and the daughter-in-law made her sad. I wanted to get my money back, but I was scared by my daughter-in-law's living expenses account and owed 100000.

Since then, my son and daughter-in-law have lost their good looks. Mrs. Chen took turns to do more housework at her son's house, and she didn't look old at all. Talking about happiness is even more extravagant.

"Qian Qing talent affinity" applies to any interpersonal relationship, including between parents and children. Looking at all kinds of contradictions, how many are not because of money?

"Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money." If you want to be old and have dignity, you must arrange your own life. I'm Lu and I'm walking on the path of my parents' house with you. Do you have a better way to provide for the aged? Welcome to interact.

I think that "parents' pension has nothing to do with their children, and money is king" is very reasonable. Besides, health is the king of Wang Daozhong.

1, countless practical experiences tell us that parents should never expect their children to provide for the elderly. Parents are too old to move, even if their children are filial, they don't have time to take care of you in most cases. This time my father was ill in hospital, and I had personal experience. Although I have three brothers, they are all very busy and can't stay at my bedside for a long time. I can't help looking for a nurse. One day, 280 yuan. It's even more troublesome if you stay in bed for a long time. People say that "there is no dutiful son in front of a long bed" is a true portrayal. Not to mention those children who don't want to fulfill their support obligations, their parents are sick and they run away.

2. Pension has nothing to do with children, not that children really have no responsibility, but that children may be powerless. "Children should be raised, not left with their relatives". When parents are old, we are still working hard for our own livelihood, which is beyond our power. This is also a realistic problem.

If parents are old and rich, the situation will be much better, at least they can ask someone to take care of them. You can hire a nanny and an hourly worker. Those with good conditions can live in an optional nursing home. Parents are rich and do not depend on their children, which is the greatest help to their children and is also conducive to family harmony.

4. The most important one: Parents should think of themselves first, which is what I often say to my parents. Spending money on yourself and keeping in shape is the right way to go through the vicissitudes of life.

When people are old and sick, even if they have money, if you give money to children, they will say, Mom and Dad, please hire a nanny! If you are 80 years old and can still sing, dance, punch, swim and climb mountains, your children will definitely say, Mom and Dad, you are so smart. You see, this is the essential difference: health is the king of Wang Daozhong.

I hope my words can inspire everyone, thank you.

We should understand this truth before we get old, otherwise it will be too late to understand it when we get old. Every step of life is to prepare for tomorrow.

At the end of June, I saw an elderly certification video uploaded by a child in the community certification group for the elderly over 80 years old.

The old man's face is wrinkled. She lives in an unfurnished house with empty walls and no decent furniture. She sat on an old canvas bed with an ID card in her hand, and the video passed by second by second. In a short second, I also recognized her as the stepmother of my former neighbor.

The wrinkled face of the old man is engraved on his face like a feud in the old society, which makes people know at a glance that the times are bad and unhappy.

More than 50 years ago, a neighbor had an uncle in his forties. His wife died of illness, leaving four children, and he married a beautiful young stepmother in his thirties.

My second wife is from the countryside, and she has no sense of work when she comes to the city. She believes that men are content with work, income and food.

She cooks at home early every day, and can eat ready-made meals when her uncle and children come back from school.

Happy days when I was young are the seeds of my old age in the future.

My parents were also in their forties. Because they get off work late, they start cooking for us after work every day.

At that time, there was no liquefied gas, natural gas and electricity, and the induction cooker was not invented at all. Every household burns honeycomb coal or loose coal. It takes a long time to cook a meal, often my family is cooking and others are eating.

I was about six or seven years old at that time, and I was hungry every time, watching people eat on time.

Two years later, the stepmother gave birth to another boy. She has been cooking with her children at home and is a complete housewife.

My neighbor's uncle died of illness at the age of 73, leaving a 60-year-old wife with no retirement salary and only one child to live with.

Every month, she will reach out and ask her children for some living expenses. Her children don't know the price of vegetables, and they are always unhappy and say, Have you spent all the money I gave you last time?

She honestly returned the money to her children.

Old time flies, and now this stepmother is 86 years old. Years have turned her into a wrinkled and depressed old man.

Her child is now 52 years old. Knowing that an old man can't do without income, she opened a small restaurant and sold beef soup in the morning to earn money to support herself and her children. She had no time to take care of her 86-year-old mother.

The state subsidizes 50 yuan to the elderly over 80 years old every month, and the community certifies the elderly over 80 years old every quarter. If you are healthy, go directly to the community for face-to-face certification. If you are an elderly person with limited mobility, let your child send it to the certification group through video.

At present, most people around the age of 80 have retirement wages, so they can have food and clothing. If you are in good health and travel everywhere, those who are in poor health will spend the rest of their lives in nursing homes.

Old people with income, no matter how old they are, have almost no wrinkles even if their muscles are slack, and have a good mental outlook, showing a sense of happiness and superiority.

When my mother just retired, her salary was over 300. Since 2004, the state has raised the retirement salary of retirees every year. This year, my mother's retirement salary is more than 3,000 yuan, just enough to live in a nursing home.

A year and a half ago, my mother just lived in a nursing home. I go to the nursing home once a day to accompany her to adapt to the new environment.

The two elderly people in the nursing home live in a standard room, with air conditioning in the room and complete facilities in the bathroom, which is more comfortable than at home.

At eight o'clock every morning, nursing homes, like young people, organize old people to do group gymnastics, and they will follow suit. People in wheelchairs will watch others dance, which makes the old people feel very fresh.

A week later, I asked my mother, is it okay to live here? Or take turns living at the children's house?

Mom said: Here it is. This place is nice. I won't bother you.

People are not confused when they are old, and they will leave only when they know where to live comfortably.

Now my mother has been in a nursing home for a year and a half. She was unhappy every day before she came here. There is no smile on her face. Now everyone is smiling.

I am also very happy to see my mother's emotional changes in the past year and a half.

A year and a half ago, I sent my mother to a nursing home. I feel guilty and depressed every day. I feel that I am an unfilial child and should be condemned.

Now my mother is in a better mood than before. I think the most filial duty is to send my mother to a nursing home.

Old people have their own income. If they change their environment, the old people will be happy and the children will be happy.

When people are old, their mentality is very important and they are as happy as being away from their children. Why live with children?

Now whenever I see many precious mothers who don't work and take care of their babies at home, this sentence will pop up in my mind: If you don't work now, who do you expect when you are old and have no money in the future?

Expect your husband to support you? Don't be naive, my husband still wants to count on you to support the elderly!

Expecting children to support you? Ask yourself, how do you treat your parents? Your parents' old age is your old age.

People should always understand that money is king, and providing for the aged has nothing to do with children. We must understand the eternal truth.

In my opinion, this sentence speaks for some people.

But it can't represent everyone's thoughts, and even make people ignore the existence of family ties.

After all, money is not everything. Some things can't be done with money!

For example, if you are uncomfortable, you can't move, you are sick in bed, you need someone to take care of you, and you have to run around doing things. ...

I have no children to accompany me, just pay someone to wait on me.

There is no sense of security and trust in the establishment of this relationship.

There is no affection between you, only money dependence.

Interests can make people feel confused, worried and uneasy!

In fact,

In this way, everything depends on money to solve all problems.

There is no life you want!

On the other hand, even if you have a lot of money, how much can you eat, wear and use when you get old?

Unless you have several serious illnesses, there is not much left.

With a lot of money, you won't be happy alone!

In fact, providing for the aged has nothing to do with children, which is wrong.

This is just theoretical wording, which is misleading to real life.

It's distrust of family!

If you have children, you have children. No, just no.

When you are old, even if they are not filial, they will still be your children.

They can't be indifferent, and there is no sign at all.

At least your mood,

Looking at the well-being of the family, I will be relieved!

Old people are afraid of loneliness and illness. I'm afraid I'll die after staying at home for a few days, and no one knows. ...

This kind of news is not uncommon, often seen, people feel very embarrassed!

They don't have no money, they don't have no king, they have no children.

Their pension is related to their children!

We are old,

I don't want to be rich, I don't want to be king, I just want my children to live a healthy life.

And so on!

"When you are old, you have to understand that it doesn't matter if you support the elderly and children. Money is king. " what do you think?

In my opinion, this is the idea of independent old people and cannot represent the opinions of most people.

Even let the flesh and blood become a money transaction, regardless of right or wrong.

That's a good idea,

But we can't ignore the existence of children.

And children,

It is impossible to ignore our existence.

Between, there is still a connection!

We should support each other,

Until the near future!

at present

Should be responsible for each other.

Being old and rich is king. what do you think?

The problem of providing for the aged is also a realistic livelihood issue, which is closely related to everyone. It is best to save the old-age expenses you want in your early years, and don't reach out to your children.

There is a saying that is good! "It is better to rely on others than on yourself. If you have a granary in your heart, life will not panic." With your own capital, no matter how excessive the requirements are, why not add a new quality and guarantee to the plain life?

China's parents are mostly guided by traditional ideas. They sacrifice themselves and give their children full rights. Of course, everyone may be different from their own children, thinking that married daughters do not need to subsidize the spilled water.

Bound by traditional ideas, the old people have been unable to clearly understand their blind spots in the future, which makes them very passive in the future. Their initiative is in the hands of the dutiful son, which is a good thing. If an unfilial son can only take care of his family, it will become a burden and a burden.

In reality, there are countless such things. The old man needed a large sum of money to share with his children when he was hospitalized. He had a quarrel in the hospital and finally broke up in discord. Some old people can't stand it and die.

Of course, there is filial piety. After all, the daughter became the master, and finally she was the angel who took care of the elderly. Maybe the old man will know who is the most concerned and closest person in the world when he closes his eyes. Some old people can't understand why they gave all their love to their children until they left, but they didn't get the help and care they deserved, so they became a burden.

The ugliness of human nature deserves our next generation to ponder. As children, it is fair to say that parents who have had a hard time should live comfortably and try their best to take care of them and love them in their lifetime.

They don't need a good living environment, they just need more company and your greetings. If you can't do this, then your next generation of children are repeating themselves with thousands of equations. How do I feel?

As successors handed down from generation to generation, what we have to do is to love deeply, to be responsible for the society, to love less, and to be responsible for the family. Loyalty and love are responsibilities to parents. Parents should give priority, and filial piety is the eternal civilization inheritance and development of the Chinese nation.

I wish the parents and the elderly in the world good health and all the best.

In the world, people on earth don't want money, of course, money is king. It is not king to say that old-age care does not depend on children. The history of China for thousands of years is not to say that it can be changed. Where is the moral name? I have traveled to many places in China, and I know many ethnic groups, and their parents don't respect them! It is true that no matter what kind of old people are, they should enjoy themselves in social life. If you are not lazy to your children, then you are not independent in your family. That won't do. For the family, you can relieve it with the children in that respect, but not alone. Children who are not filial can enlighten and learn everything.

This problem affects not only your children, but also the great children of all mankind. We should unite and love the next generation, which is our support and our country. We don't need to unite and love the next generation, we hope that the next generation of Chinese children will be more prosperous! More brilliant and powerful! It will be passed down from generation to generation. I hope America is an old man with children in the distance and filial piety by your side.

Personally, I hope it will help you.

When people are old, they should understand that providing for the aged has nothing to do with their children, and money is king.

I don't think so at the moment. Family harmony is king. If you have children, you must trust them, but there are not a few unfilial people. That's just a few.

Although people are old, it is the wish of every old man not to add burden to his children in order to live. It is not how much money is king, but mainly good health and happy family. Old people love children, and children can be filial, so money is not important, and a happy life is king.

People should understand. Pension has nothing to do with children, and money is king. what do you think?

Have food in your hand, but don't panic in your heart. Money is the last word, and this view should be understood more thoroughly with the growth of age. Families with several children abound, so scheming old people will never hand over their bankbooks and real estate licenses until the end, and some old people who are cheated of their property by their children and then abandoned are everywhere. Old people should have their own opinions, but also depend on luck and what kind of children you have raised. To sum it up. Holding a wallet is the last word.

"When people are old, they should understand that providing for the aged has nothing to do with their children. Money is king. " What logic is this? What do you want to do with the money?

So, why do you want to have children? Think about what? Are you happy? Don't have children if you want to be comfortable.

Thousands of years of history tells the world that raising children to prevent old age, the elderly do filial piety. It is also natural for children to be filial and support the elderly.

Now the old people in society think too well. Have you done your duty in raising children? No, I have to take my grandchildren and raise money to buy them a house.

Only in this way can we have a warm and harmonious family.

Because, you can still earn money, and you are the main force in your family. Can money work if you are bedridden? Children still work.

If you don't believe me, how about going to see the old people in the nursing home? What are the old man's children doing there?

An elderly person without children; An old man whose children are unfilial; And selfish old people.

True filial piety is that the elderly will take care of them even if they have no money.

The truly rich and filial children invite the nanny to their homes, and the nanny takes care of the elderly and the life of the whole family. Why not?

In fact, the biggest wish of the elderly in nursing homes is to look forward to their children coming to see him. Right?

Old people naturally want to live a happy life with their families. Why do they take money so seriously? You might as well share it with your children. More assured!

The hardest thing is, what if the elderly can't take care of themselves? Nursing homes are better than children.

Just think, money is king! Can it be established?

It is better to give your money to your children as soon as possible, which is king!

Pensions have nothing to do with children. Is it really about money?

Relax, young people are under great pressure nowadays. You raised him and gave everything to your family. Are you afraid that your children will not be filial to you?

Our sons and daughters-in-law are all our children. We are all family. What's the money for?

Don't be selfish, give the money to the children! Don't treat children as outsiders.

When you can't move, give the money to the nursing home and the employees. It is better to leave it to the children.

This sentence should be said separately. First of all, "providing for the aged has nothing to do with children" is still a bit extreme.

With the development of the times, people's ideas are not updated. The traditional concept of "raising children to prevent old age" is indeed changing. The social pension system is also gradually improving. "Providing for the aged" is no longer a matter for children alone.

However, it does not mean that "providing for the aged has nothing to do with children!" The law also clarifies the obligation of children to support their parents! In other words, supporting the elderly is a legal and unchangeable fact at present. How can you say "providing for the aged has nothing to do with children!"

Second, the elderly themselves "money is king". This sentence is reasonable to some extent. That is, the elderly had better have some savings. On the one hand, it is convenient for you to spend money for your old age. On the other hand, it also reduces the burden and economic pressure on children. "Money" is certainly better than "no money"! Third, even with certain economic security, the elderly still need the care of their children to a certain extent. Spiritual dependence and companionship in life are more important! Therefore, it cannot be said that "providing for the aged has nothing to do with children"!