What do you think of the wedding when the disabled father is not allowed to go on stage and the bride takes off her makeup on the spot?

It is understandable that the bride felt that her father was wronged and ended the wedding because his father was disabled and could not come to the stage.

There is such a wedding in Guangzhou, which was cancelled before it was held. What the hell happened?

Disabled father refuses to take power

The bride is a single-parent family, and her father worked hard to raise him. Although he is physically disabled, he is still trying to give her the best life. Now that the bride is getting married, she certainly hopes to get her father's blessing, and she also hopes to hold the wedding under his gaze to reassure him.

I can say yes before I get married, and I have also discussed it with the man's parents. On the wedding day, my father will give a speech on the stage. At that time, although the man was somewhat reluctant, he felt that the bride's father was disabled and had a bad image, fearing that relatives and friends would see jokes. But in order to get married, I didn't want to make the relationship between the two sides stiff, so I finally agreed.

Unexpectedly, when the wedding was held, she suddenly went back on her word and insisted on not letting the bride's father go on stage. The bride felt wronged and angry for her father, and tried her best to get him to take the stage, but the man never gave in, and the two quarreled, and no one could convince anyone.

The bride took off her makeup on the spot and refused to get married.

Their contradiction is getting bigger and bigger, and others can't help but persuade them. The bride was very wronged, and her father raised her with great pains. He has been busy for this marriage for a long time, just trying to send his daughter to get married, but he has suffered such an insult. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. For the sake of my father's dignity, the bride took off her makeup, ornaments and wedding dress on the spot, directly indicating that she was not married.

This matter has caused extensive discussion among netizens.

Some netizens still appreciate the bride's practice. Since the man doesn't respect her father, he probably won't care too much about the bride. Her future life is still unknown, and there may be many contradictions. It's embarrassing to say directly that you won't get married.

Of course, some people think that the bride makes a mountain out of a molehill. We should know what this man thinks. The bride's father is disabled and has a bad image. If he comes on stage, it may make people laugh. This is a problem that men care about. And the bride yelled at them on the wedding day, regardless of their thoughts, which is obviously disrespectful to the elders and somewhat willful.

In fact, from its own point of view, the bride's approach is understandable. She was only so angry when she saw that her father was not respected and wronged. But when she said that she would cancel the wedding and not get married, the man didn't even come forward to solve it. Even if she apologized, she continued to let the bride's father give a speech on stage. This is a solution. But they didn't do it and let things happen. I don't know whether they didn't consider it or insisted on not doing it.

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After all, the man doesn't pay that much attention to the bride. If he really loves her and recognizes her, he will respect her, understand her thoughts, be willing to solve her worries and be kind to her family, that is, love me, love my dog. Obviously, in this wedding, the man did not do this. I think it is not enough love.

There is nothing wrong with putting yourself in others' shoes. Disabled couples have worked hard to raise their daughters. Why can't they attend their daughter's wedding? He knows the greatest respect. On the other hand, such a thing happened to the husband's family before they got married, and they didn't respect the bride's father, so the relationship between the two sides would not be good afterwards. Doing so now, let them see their true colors, can only be regarded as a timely stop loss.