What are some good sentences to describe knowing that you are playing dumb?

At this moment, I hope to be more confused, confused about how many people I have loved and who I liked.

Scientist Weiner believes that people are doing two different things, one is like a chess player, and success or failure is determined by his worst state, that is, as long as a chess game goes wrong, it is all over. There is another kind, such as an inventor. As long as conditions are good, he will succeed if he makes an invention one day, and he can make as many mistakes as he wants before.

Some things, some things, clearly know that we should not be persistent, clearly know that the only person who can get hurt in the end is ourselves. But why can't you control yourself? Sometimes I am really scared, because intellectually I tell myself that I can't do it, but emotionally I am rational first. If you keep indulging, it may be the best! Sometimes awake, sometimes confused, this is perhaps the most torture!

Confucius discovered it and named it the golden mean; Lao Tzu discovered it and named it inaction; Zhuangzi discovered it and named it Xiaoyaozi; Mozi discovered it and named it non-attack; Banqiao discovered it and named it confused; Contemporary elites discovered it and named it Harmony. There is little confusion, because it is too difficult to understand. Harmony is rare because it is too difficult to achieve.

I have to play dumb and pretend that I am happy.

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At present, I need to pretend to be confused and chat with my friends often. The word I come into contact with the most is rare confusion. It seems that the rare chaos is a universal tool, that is, a panacea. Indeed, in front of people who pay attention to feelings, confusion is a skill, a means and a science.

Yes, when we are helpless, in many helpless situations, we sometimes have to compromise and be confused for the long-term goal and the overall interests. Leaders sometimes have to be confused about their subordinates, and subordinates sometimes have to be confused about their leaders. Sometimes friends get along, that is, sometimes they have to live at home very confused. It is difficult to be in-laws, but it is difficult to be a daughter-in-law. In short, confusion will accompany us all our lives.

Speaking of rare confusion, people will first think that this is Zheng Banqiao's famous saying.

Legend has it that one day, Zheng Banqiao learned Chinese characters on the stone table in the yard, and began to write the words "It's hard to be confused". Then he wrote a string of small words "It's hard to be smart, it's hard to be confused, and it's even harder to change from smart to confused. Let it go, take a step back, and now feel at ease. This is not a blessing." After writing, the more I read it, the more uncomfortable it is, and the more I have to step on it. Suddenly, a gust of wind blew, and the word paper floated into the air with the wind, drifting farther and farther. Zheng Banqiao helplessly looking at shook his head, and then learn to talk. Who knows that this word paper has been picked up and passed down to future generations like a treasure, which is why we know it is "difficult to be confused" today.

What does Zheng Banqiao mean by "rare confusion"? Different people have different opinions.

Some people think this is Zheng Banqiao's self-mockery. In 175 1 year, Zheng Banqiao had nothing to do with Yazhai, wei county. The wall was empty and there was silence around, as if the world was outside, and he was disappointed. He thought: life is mediocre, half life is bleak, is this life? What will happen in the end if we fight for fame, the DPRK, profits and the market? It seems better to be confused, so he wrote "It's hard to be confused". Therefore, it is called the helplessness of the smartest person, and it is an angry word in the face of the noisy life and the cold world.

Others think this is Zheng Banqiao's discontented voice. /kloc-in the autumn of 0/754, Zheng Banqiao was appointed as the magistrate of a county in Shandong province, and just took office, he encountered a once-in-a-century drought. But the imperial envoy Yao Yaozong turned a blind eye and asked him for calligraphy and painting. Zheng Banqiao satirized ghost paintings, and Yao Yaozong tore them up in anger. When Zheng Banqiao saw people in hot water and exhausted, he was very worried. His wife advised: since the emperor didn't ask and the imperial envoy ignored, you should pretend to be confused. Zheng Banqiao said angrily, I can't pretend to be confused. You know, it's hard to be smart, it's hard to be confused, it's harder to change from smart to confused, and it's hard to be confused. Inspired by this, we will save the whole people at all costs and open a warehouse for disaster relief. What he said later became a self-annotation of "it's hard to be confused": it's hard to be smart, it's hard to be confused, it's even harder to change from smart to confused, let go, take a step back, and feel at ease now, not to be rewarded later.

It seems that there are two kinds of confusion, one is true confusion and the other is false confusion. What Zheng Banqiao said is the latter confusion.

Others think that this is a sign of tolerance and humility, taking care of the overall situation and understanding the overall situation. It is said that when Zheng Banqiao was appointed as the magistrate of a county, his cousin met a lawsuit filed by his neighbor for a section of the foundation of his ancestral home, and asked him to write to Xinghua County in order to win the lawsuit. After reading the letter, Zheng Banqiao immediately wrote a poem back to the book: "A letter thousands of miles away is only separated by a wall. Why not let him go three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen. " Later, he wrote two words: "it is difficult to be confused" and "it is a blessing to suffer". And under "it's hard to be confused", add "it's hard to be smart, it's hard to be confused, and it's even harder to change from smart to confused." Let go, to say the least, I feel at ease now, not to be rewarded later. " "Losing is a blessing" bet: "Those who are full lose the opportunity, and those who lose gradually gain. If they lose themselves, they will gain more than others. Each of them will get half the mood and feel at ease. " After receiving the letter, the family took the initiative to give in three feet, and the neighbors also gave in three feet after learning about it. Since then, the famous Liuchi Lane has been formed here, which is praised by later generations. How clever his confusion is at this time.

Of course, it can also be understood as a strategy and a superb art of life. When the conditions are not available and the time is not ripe, in order to achieve the ultimate goal, we must first be confused. It can be seen that confusion is still a state of mind and wisdom.

The popularity of "In a fog" is fascinating because different people have different understandings and different views, which just shows the complexity of society, the diversity of people's psychology and the diversity of people's understanding and transformation of the world.

It can be seen that it is easier to be confused than to be smart, and it is more difficult to be confused after being smart. It's really difficult to distinguish and do what is confused, what is smart, when is confused and when is smart. It is rare to be confused, which is the survival skill of wisdom and the highest realm of life. However, people often take "confusing" as an excuse to cover up failure and give up, as a comfort in their hearts. They don't know that this not only misreads Zheng Banqiao's original intention, but also often becomes the beginning of career and life failure.

In fact, the philosophy of confusion was not invented by Zheng Banqiao. As early as more than two thousand years ago, Confucius made an in-depth study of confused philosophy and made an incisive exposition. The Analects of Confucius recorded in the fifth chapter Ye Gong:

Confucius said, "Ning my son, if the country has a way, it will know it. If it has no way, it is stupid. If it knows, it can be reached, and it is stupid. "

Ning Wuzi, surnamed Ning Mingyu, is a doctor of Wei, and Wu is his posthumous title.

Confucius means: Ning Wuzi is a doctor with good conduct. When the country's politics is enlightened and the situation improves, he can give full play to his wisdom and do his best to be loyal to the politics of protecting the country and defending the country. When the situation deteriorated in the dark, the monarch retreated behind the scenes and pretended to be confused, waiting for the right moment. Confucius said insightful that others can do it with his cleverness, but he can't do it with his stupidity. It can be seen that it has long been a politician's political skill to be confused.

In the history of our country, there are too many examples of playing dumb, and Cao Cao's theory of heroism is a well-known classic story. Here, we might as well appreciate Liu Bei's wonderful performance in front of Cao Cao and play dumb to fool his approval.

AD？ 196? Liu Bei was defeated and temporarily attached to Cao Cao. He was afraid that Cao Cao would see through his imperial ambitions, so he planted vegetables in Xuchang's official residence every day to hide his eyes and ears and hide his strength.

One day Guan Yu and Zhang Fei said, "Brothers don't care about what's going on in the world, but learn from villains. Why? "

Liu Bei said, "My second brother doesn't know this."

Guan He didn't understand Liu Bei's mind at all. At this time, Liu Bei did this in order to produce something that could not be done. This is one of Liu Bei's obfuscations.

One day, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei were away, and Liu Bei was watering vegetables in the back garden. Chu Xu and Zhang Liao led dozens of people into the park, saying that Cao Cao invited Liu Bei to drink. Liu Bei was frightened. Without knowing the situation, he had to bite the bullet and come to the pavilion. Cao Cao and Liu Bei are doing it, drinking heartily, and the wine is half drunk. Suddenly, dark clouds are gathering and a shower is coming. From the perspective of people, there is a Yunlong hanging in the sky, and Cao Cao and Liu Bei are watching from the railing. Cao Cao said, "Do you know the change of dragons?"

Liu Bei replied: "I don't know its luck." In fact, Liu Bei didn't know, just playing dumb. This is the second part of Liu Bei's playing dumb.

Seeing that Liu Bei didn't know, Cao Cao described the changes of the dragon, then compared the dragon to a human being and asked Liu Bei, "Who is the hero in the world?"

Liu Bei said, "Let the naked eye know the hero?" This is the third part of Liu Bei's playing dumb.

Cao Cao forced him again, but Liu Bei couldn't, so he had to say a few words, such as Yuan Shu in Huainan, Yuan Shao in Hebei, the so-called Eighth Army, Liu Jingsheng in Megatron Kyushu, Sun Bofu, Liu Xiuyu in Yizhou, Zhang Xiu, Zhang Lu, Han Sui and so on. At this time, Liu Bei was avoiding the important and diverting Cao Cao's attention. This is the fourth act of playing dumb.

Liu Bei's heroes were denied by Cao Cao one by one. Finally, Cao Cao hit the nail on the head: "A hero is ambitious, has a good plan in his belly, has the opportunity to hide the universe, and has the ambition to call the wind and rain."

Liu Bei said, "Who can it be?"

Cao Cao pointed to Liu Bei and said to himself, "Only the monarch and Cao Er are heroes in the world today!"

Liu Bei was so scared that his chopsticks fell to the ground unconsciously.

At this time, the heavy rain was coming and the thunder was loud. Liu Bei bowed down calmly, picked up chopsticks and said, "The power of the earthquake is even here."

Cao Cao smiled and said, "Is the husband afraid of thunder, too?"

Liu Bei said, "saints are so fierce that they are not afraid."

At this time, Liu Bei skillfully used the cover of being afraid of thunder, which was both quick-witted and stupid. This is the fifth act of Liu Bei pretending to be deaf and dumb.

This is a wonderful conversation and a well-known story. Liu Bei's wonderful performance is amazing. He played the false confusion beautifully, which can be described as Cao Cao's theory of heroes in cooking wine and Liu Bei's improvisation in confusion.

Afterwards, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei learned the whole story. They all said, "Brother, you really have an opinion."

It can be seen that there are many kinds of confusion. Confusion mentioned by Confucius is a false confusion, a political force, and a way to hide one's strength and bide one's time because of the change of the situation.

Zheng Banqiao's confusion means that a wise man is playing dumb and highlighting a difficult word. At this time, he knew clearly, but insisted on playing dumb.

Liu Bei's confusion was forced to be helpless in the predicament, and this confusion was forced out.

China people also admire a kind of confusion, that is, being confused about small things and being smart about big things. This kind of confusion is a kind of inclusive confusion and a kind of conscious confusion. This is not pretending or forcing. Living at home and interacting with good friends and colleagues, many people are confused, rather than haggling over every ounce.

It is said that there is a couple with deep feelings. After dozens of ups and downs, they still have deep feelings. But the face-saving husband was laid off from the leadership position because the factory closed down. In order to save face, my husband still pretends to go to work every day, but he is too embarrassed to have a ticket. The husband is often angry with his wife because of great pressure and abnormal psychology. At this time, his wife has become the vice president of a company, and her husband's laid-off wife is clear. For the sake of her husband's dignity and face, she pretended not to know, but she was particularly concerned about her husband. She arranged a job for her husband through the boss of another company, which was done without his knowledge. A few years later, my husband was very emotional when he learned about it. One is really confused, and the other is fake confused.

Therefore, it is often said that there is no fish when the water is clear, and there is no disciple when people look at it. Very reasonable. People who may be too lofty and smart often keep a great distance from the people around them and are out of tune with society, so they are all tragic in the end.

It is precisely because of this confusion that it is difficult for China people to be confused, and it is even more difficult to identify confusion. We don't have a ready-made answer to how to distinguish between true and false, but two poems by Bai Juyi are quite enlightening to us. We might as well copy them as follows for readers:

one

Day is the day of night, and the sky is the boundary between ancient and modern things.

But love to hide can deceive saints, but I'm afraid Zi Ning can solve the problem of playing dumb.

The grass is shining, but it is not fire. Although lotus dew is not a bead.

Don't burn wood to illuminate carriages and horses. What's the difference between the glory of the poor?

two

Giving you a gift will definitely make you suspicious, and you don't have to wish you luck with a turtle.

Jade test burned for three days and argued for seven years.

In the days of the Duke of Zhou, he was afraid of gossip and paid homage to the throne before Wang Mang usurped the throne.

Shi Xiang died at the beginning, but who knows the truth of his life.