Love someone who doesn't love you, and you can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

There is a saying: "You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep, nor can you touch a person who doesn't love you."

The most painful thing in love is that the person you like doesn't like you. In his mind, you will always be a spare tire. He will come to you when he needs you, and he will ignore you when he doesn't need you.

Some women always look forward to touching him one day, making him look back and fall in love with himself, even if it costs a lot.

In this love, she lost herself and devoted herself to each other. She loves him without asking for anything in return. She only hopes that the other person can see his goodness and give her a little love.

However, emotional affairs can never be ruled by people. Only the loved one is fearless, and she has never been the loved one, and she is doomed to be scarred.

She loved it so much that she forgot to love herself. She thinks that modesty can win the love of the other person, but you will never be moved by people who don't love you.

02

In "I have a crush on orange in Huainan", I feel very distressed about Jiang Baili, but I hate her disappointing, knowing that the other person has someone else in mind, but I still treat him with wishful thinking.

She likes Gobi very much and is willing to do anything for him. She will forgive him as long as he gives her a little sweetness. In this relationship, she is a "virgin" and even other students know her humble love.

But no matter what others say, she is still good to Gobi. As long as she sees him unhappy, she feels very distressed. As long as he needs her, she will appear.

Gobi often has an affair with other girls when she is with her. Every time she knows, she will be angry, but as long as Gobi coaxes her a little and tells her that she is just playing with others, she will believe it again.

Gobi said she wanted to break up with her and find the goddess in her heart, but Jiang Belle just didn't want to break up with him and wanted him to give herself another chance.

When I saw this passage, I really felt that Jiang Belle was too humble. Even if you love someone again, you can't be so indecent. Since others have rejected you, you should walk away and look for the next person.

Jiang Belle, on the other hand, always gives joy to others and keeps her own pain. She loves too much in this relationship, but forgets a truth. If it is too full, it will overflow. There is a limit to everything. Once out of range, it will be counterproductive.

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Feelings should be given to those who deserve it, and time should be left to those who know themselves.

Not all love can be answered, and not all efforts can be cherished. When you understand this truth, you won't let yourself love humbly all the time.

Only by loving the right person can this relationship be worthy of your whole heart. This kind of love is equal, and you can feel happy.

Light light blue also experienced a painful relationship. At that time, she thought that she would be happy only with that person. She loved him so much that she lost herself.

When they are in love, light light blue always dotes on him. No matter what he needs, light light blue will always satisfy him, buy him gifts and help him with housework. Even when he borrowed money, she never hesitated, because in her heart, he was already a family member.

She thought that her efforts would be seen and remembered by the other party, but she was disappointed. It's not the first time that she found out about his affair with other girls. She doesn't want to lie to herself any more.

This time, no matter how much the other party begged for forgiveness, she made up her mind to leave this bad relationship and did so much for him, but she still couldn't make him really fall in love with herself, so forget it.

From this failed relationship, light light blue understands that if you love someone again, you can't give everything for him, especially if that person doesn't know how to cherish. If you love someone again, you should also know how to love only seven points and set aside three points to love yourself.

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Oscar Wilde said: "Love yourself is the beginning of a romantic life." Only by loving yourself first can one win the love of others.

In this world, each of us is a unique existence, and everyone's feelings should not be easily disappointed. Don't please a person without dignity, and don't let yourself love too much.

You have to understand that people who don't love you, no matter what you do, will never love you, and you can never touch him. It's better to forget him and find the one who is really worthy of love.

The most important thing in life is to learn to "break". Some love is just your obsession and your unwillingness. When you learn to let go and move forward slowly, you will find that there are so many beautiful things waiting for you.

Bi Shumin said, "It is better to love yourself than to wait for others to love you." Instead of spending time and energy on someone who is not worth it, it is better to focus on yourself and make yourself better.

In fact, when you are getting better and better, you won't cling to the past, you will just keep working hard and live a good life in the future.