What should teenagers do if they feel inferior and dare not show themselves?

For children's inferiority complex, many parents may blame their children's natural personality problems. In fact, in addition to innate introversion, there are several reasons why children are timid, afraid to speak and dare not communicate with others. Parents should pay attention to the following points:

1, learn to let go and cultivate children's independent ability.

Many parents think that to help their children take care of everything, they just need to study hard and are not allowed to do anything by themselves. Natural children don't have many opportunities to communicate with outsiders and strangers, which will gradually lead to children becoming timid and introverted.

The correct way is to consciously provide some opportunities for children to do something within their power. When a child finishes one thing, it will increase his sense of accomplishment, gradually become confident and become braver.

Don't scold too much, but encourage more.

Many parents are too strict with their children. As long as a small thing is not done well, it will start to criticize, which will cause a great psychological burden to children. The accumulation of psychological burden will gradually make them feel inferior and make their children timid.

Therefore, parents must encourage their children to say and do more at ordinary times, and encourage them first when they find that their children are doing well, and help them to correct their mistakes patiently.

3, don't worry too much, listen patiently.

When you find your child flinching, don't worry, don't worry, don't compare him with those sociable children, don't say "my child is timid" in front of outsiders, and don't treat him rudely because of impatience, which will make the child even more afraid, even more afraid to express and contact people.

When children try to express themselves, listen patiently, guide them a little when they need help, and let them explore for themselves.

4. Create more opportunities for children to go out and communicate with others.

Many timid children are brought up by the elderly, or their parents are too busy at work, so they often let their children stay at home and seldom go out. In the long run, it may lead to children's withdrawn personality and lack of expression ability.

Parents should always take their children to visit. If the epidemic conditions permit, you can take your children outdoors and participate in some social activities to provide more opportunities to interact and play with them.