Should a woman break off her social circle after marriage?

A woman should never give up her social circle after marriage. This is because:

In love, people have an uncontrollable habit: the more they love someone, the more they like to stick to each other.

When a woman moves her true feelings, her life will be unconsciously centered on men. She always thinks about men in advance, always revolves around men, and is too lazy to take care of her life circle and work. She just wants to be with men, take care of their lives and understand their feelings.

It's not that we are unreasonable, but we often can't control our little emotions. Just as we all know that relying on others is better than relying on ourselves, investing in ourselves is always the last thing we will regret. But in front of the person we love, we always have no intention to do other things, just want to be with him, which we also call "follow one's inclinations". This is human nature.

It is also based on such human nature that "distance produces beauty" or "it is better to love yourself than to love yourself", and all cognition and reason are forgotten and defeated.

From the social level:

Adler, the founder of individual psychology and Austrian psychiatrist, once said: Everyone is an individual in a social group, and everyone's personality and habits are inseparable from the rendering and shaping of society.

We live in a group first, then we are individuals. Everyone doesn't suddenly appear out of thin air, and everyone can't live without groups. It is said that there may be some people here who are wrangling, and some people have lived in the mountains for decades and have had a good life.

People who have seen the sun will not miss the night. Those who still love the night after seeing the sun must be eager for the warmth of the sun, but there is nothing they can do.

In other words, most "isolated" people have never left their own land and don't know how beautiful the outside world is, so they are attached to the place where they live, just like the original residents of some primitive tribes that still exist in today's society. They can't integrate into today's society and don't want to join, because they don't realize that there is a society outside the tribe, a world outside the society and a universe outside the world, and they are waiting for the residents of these tribes.

The second kind of "isolated" people are extremely disappointed with this society. They want to die but have no courage, so they can only hide and drag out an ignoble existence. In their hearts, these people are also eager to rejoin social groups, but they are forced to be incompetent and unable to join or integrate.

Back to the beginning of birth, if your parents were not integrated into society, you would not exist. Everyone doesn't just show up out of nowhere.

On the social level, a person who is separated from the group cannot be regarded as a complete person. It is sad that we gave up this life when we had the ability to be "human"!

Personally:

As mentioned above, everyone is inseparable from society.

The development of society is obvious to all, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it as "changing with each passing day". Under such changes, a person who has been out of society for three years, five years, or even ten years and eight years can do nothing if he wants to integrate.

A woman who is at home with peace of mind is commendable in the traditional concept of our country, but is it really worth promoting?

Everyone has independent thinking. Who can guarantee that the man who is with you now will always love you, never complain that you don't earn money at home all day, and always ask you to be beautiful and earn money to support your family? Without guarantee, you will never be as beautiful as before.

When men betray and abandon, should women sit still and be abandoned by society? Don't! We still have the right to live and live, and we also have the right and desire to live and live better. However, in a rapidly changing society, all industries are shuffling all the time. Can the skills of the past still adapt to the development of the present? Can the surviving capital still make you safe in today's city?

The exit of film is due to the birth of digital camera; BB and PHS quit because of the appearance of mobile phones. Nokia's Symbian system gradually became infamous because it was squeezed by Android and Apple systems ... Everything died, not because it was bad, but because it couldn't keep up with the development of the times and couldn't adapt to the requirements of new people.

It goes without saying that the technology in those days was not bad, but it was replaced with better. Just like carpenters, blacksmiths, shoemakers, bicycle repair shops and personal barbershops in the streets and lanes, we still need architecture, shoes, bicycles and haircuts, but all systems have been mechanized, industrialized and streamlined, and some industries can only withdraw from the historical stage.

From the social level, people who leave the group are a kind of sad people. Then from the personal level, people who are separated from the group are a kind of poor people. They pity the stunts that were born in those years. Now and in the future, they can only become skills abandoned by society, and they can't even eat enough.

So, be a woman with high emotional intelligence. Love him and love yourself. Love him and love yourself.

Never neglect your friends and relatives, let alone give up your social circle. It is not impossible to live alone, but two people's lives should be better, not worse than one.

Don't give up all those efforts to keep your job and protect their friends and relatives when you live alone because of love and marriage. Don't just pin your hopes on a man, and don't let your future become a pathetic person!