A Zen monk: Life is really hard. You have to fend for yourself.

"The most virtuous wife, the most talented woman" is what Jiang Yang said at the age of 100:

This is a lonely world, as Jiang Yang said, life is his own, and it has nothing to do with him. Jiang Yang also believes that "it is really difficult to be a man in this materialistic world."

Yes, the word "easy" has never been used in the adult world. All the hardships in life can only be overcome by "self-reliance". It is more like the truth explained by a Zen monk in "Adults in the Wind and Rain, Children in the Sun": life is not pure land, and each has its own hardships.

Everyone's life is not easy, and everyone is born lonely, but only by self-reliance can we constantly cross the hardships of Qian Shan.

Being an adult in the wind and being a child in the sun tells a story about thinking:

On a rainy night, a little brother lost his wife, son and warm home overnight because the Hu people trampled on his home and razed the village to the ground.

At this time, he couldn't bear the blow of his wife and children's death and was devastated. He hates conference semifinals and blames himself for not protecting his wife and children. The soldiers who were deeply hit didn't think about tea and rice, but just repeated sentence by sentence: gone.

He stopped talking and eating, and his eyes lost their former brilliance like a "dead fish". He can only say a few words: his wife is gone, his son is gone, and his home is gone. I just said these words day and night, and others looked at him and sighed, but I didn't know how to comfort him.

At this time, sentry Xiao Li asked his friend to take his little brother back to the camp first, but after he returned to the camp, he still didn't eat or drink, just staring at the sun during the day and staring at the bonfire at night, doing nothing else.

Everyone is worried about the health of his little brother. Sentinel Xiao Li had a plan, so he took a bowl and ate it in front of his little brother. He said, I eat so delicious, won't you eat it?

Little brother is expressionless, just mumbling: gone, gone. ......

Seeing that little brother's desire for death was so strong, sentry Xiao Li was so angry that he slapped him on the table and scolded, If you don't eat, you will die.

The little brother said weakly, I am not afraid of death. Might as well die. I won't have to suffer so much when I die.

Looking at this story written by a Zen monk, there are also the helplessness, despair and hesitation of ordinary people in the face of life. When a person loses the person he loves most and the thing he cherishes most, there is often nothing he can do about reality except punish himself like a masochist.

Not only the little brother in the story, but many people are completely out of control in the face of sudden disasters. And this is also the living condition of many people. It can be said that it is a dispensable pain, but it is hard to say in many cases.

Facing little brother's lifeless life, sentry Xiao Li fell into deep thought. Finally, he told a lie to help his little brother out of the hopeless situation of life.

The next morning, sentry Xiao Li said to the little brother who was on hunger strike: Don't eat any more? Are you really not afraid of death? You know what? Since you're not afraid of death, do me a favor.

Sentinel Xiao Li paused and said, I have a lover, her name is Yuan Yuan, and we have a son named Li Goudan. I am worried about them in this war. I have a letter here. Can you give it to them for me? Aren't you afraid of death? Then be a deserter and help me deliver the letter.

The younger brother thought that he didn't want to live anyway, so he should be a deserter. So the younger brother bid farewell to the military camp and embarked on a journey to help sentry Xiao Li find his wife and children.

After that, my little brother walked a long way and experienced many seasons, witnessing the joys and sorrows of countless people:

In the gardens in the south of the Yangtze River, in the long river of years, my younger brother's desire to die is becoming more and more indifferent. All my wishes are to find the wife Yuan Yuan and son Li Goudan of Xiao Li's sentry.

However, after thousands of waters in Qian Shan, he still didn't find anything entrusted by sentry Xiao Li. At this time, he blamed himself very much and couldn't help opening the letter of sentry Xiao Li to see if there were any other clues to find someone.

When the little brother opened the letter, he was shocked and saw that the letter read:

Brother, in fact, I don't have a lover or a son at all. I lied to you. I just want to find an idea to keep you alive. There are 220 silver tickets in the envelope. Take one to build a new house. It's not enough, but I really only have so much.

Seeing the letter, my little brother burst into tears, which not only touched the white lie of sentry Xiao Li, but also regretted the "obsession" of seeking death with one heart.

Yes, for people, as long as life is still there, as long as they have not lost the courage to live, then everything is still possible to start again. As for sentry Xiao Li, he saved his little brother's life with white lies and opened up a new life for his desperate little brother with kindness.

This is the light of human nature, and this is the power of warmth and love. It is the care and love between people that gives the originally miserable life a subdivided temperature, which is called altruism.

Not only the younger brother among Buddhists and Monks had such a painful experience, but everyone in life did not spend it in pain. How many people cry in the middle of the night, how many people are lonely when life is helpless, and how many people are heartbroken when there is no love?

However, all this is just an insurmountable gap in real life. As long as there is light in our eyes and dreams in our hearts, we have never been disappointed in ourselves, and even temporary pain and frustration can't stop that ray of sunshine.

Just like a Zen saying: Don't forget what kind of child you used to be, and don't forget what kind of adult you want to be. Because I haven't forgotten my dream that day, it was a vast sky.

If the world has been urging you to be a strong adult, you might as well listen to your inner decision and be a wayward child. Because all the hardships must be eaten by yourself, and all the roads must be taken by yourself.

However, even if life is really bitter and full of all kinds of disappointments, we should be as strong and optimistic as Mr. Jiang Yang, and rely on our own efforts to gain inner peace and peace of years.

And Yi Chan also used warm words, constantly using the wisdom of every word to soothe our hearts, let us find that there are so many beautiful tenderness in our daily trivial life, guarding our hearts and the warm little world.

Today's topic: talk about the hardships encountered in life, let's face them together.