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Women are not difficult to raise, but villains should be kept away from

I am Yi Zi who is studying in Fan Deng. This is the 343rd day of my daily article and the 18th day of studying "The Analects of Confucius".

?This is where Confucius has always been attacked by women. I really want to complain for Confucius. People usually just say one sentence in advance and completely ignore the reason for the latter sentence. Of course, just stating the results nakedly is not convincing. Confucius said that in this world, villains and women are probably hard to take care of. If you treat them well, they will be proud of you and be very proud of you. But once you get far away from them, they will resent you again.

?First, let’s talk about why Confucius thought women were difficult to raise?

Most women always hope that men will be gentle, considerate and romantic to her, but no one is perfect. We will also find that some men in life are thoughtful and considerate to women, even to the point of being obedient. They focus on women all day long, but women hate them. Why? Because I think he is too annoying and unmanly. He always looks like a petty little man. In today's words, he is "unmanly". Some men do the opposite, being indifferent to women and not being gentle and considerate at all. Of course, this won't work, and women will resent your indifference and ruthlessness. The former one is "If you are close, you will not be grateful", and the latter one is "If you are far away, you will be resentful". So in this sense, it is difficult to raise a woman because there is no perfect man. How difficult it is for a man to be both "chivalrous and tender". Either he only has tenderness but no "backbone", or his bones are too hard and there is no tenderness at all, which will hurt others.

But this theory probably only applies to the past. Many women today are financially independent and independent-minded. They do not need men to support them. They have the right to make their own choices and pay attention to homosexuality. Values ??and complete personality, in fact, what a man has to do is himself. Two people move forward together. This is how it should be.

What happened to the villain? Such people are short-sighted, selfish, and always self-centered. They will not consider the interests of others. If you get closer to him, he will feel that you have bad intentions when you want something from him. This is to judge a gentleman's heart with a villain's heart. If you stay away from him, the villain will feel that you look down on him. So it is neither near nor far.

If there were no villains in this world, the world would probably be peaceful. However, as the famous female writer Zhang Ailing said, "Only those who were thieves the year before last, how can we guard against thieves the year before last"? So we still inevitably have to meet villains.

Therefore, reading the Analects of Confucius should have different interpretations in different eras. , Women are not difficult to raise, but villains should be kept away!