Mom wants to have an operation, but my wife just won't pay for it. What should I do?

Mom wants to have an operation, but my wife won't pay for it. Try to convince your wife. That's your mother who gave birth to you and raised you. She is ill, so the children should pay for her treatment. My wife won't listen to anything you say. The only way is to go out and lend money to my mother for surgery. Children must save their mother's life. Otherwise, my conscience will be restless for a lifetime.