The son earns money outside, and the daughter-in-law plays with her granddaughter every day. I called her a loser, and later I regretted it. Can I make it up?

I know why you regret it, because the same thing happened in my family. Later, my mother-in-law begged me not to go to work and continue to be a full-time mother at home. She gave me double salary!

0 1 Let me explain why I want to take my children out to play, because I can't stay at home at all. What are they doing at home, crying, making noise and watching TV? There are not many days to go out in 365 days. You can't go out in spring, it's too hot to go out in summer, it's too windy to go out in autumn, and it's too cold to go out in winter. The life of a stay-at-home mother is only children and only home, which is really depressing!

The child is too young to go to kindergarten. The best way to take care of children is to go out to play, walk and eat. After the morning, I went home at noon, slept with my child in my arms, cooked and ate at night, and my father helped me take care of it after work!

My mother-in-law thinks I shouldn't do this. I should take care of my baby at home. I can't go to naughty castles and supermarkets. I know nothing about such a small child. It's not necessary. I haven't gone to work yet. Her son went to work alone to earn money. My mother and I are both hurting money!

Ok, I'm dead, I'm a money-killer, so come on, you take care of the children, I'll go out to work, and I'll give you all the wages I earn!

My mother-in-law was willing at first, but she came with a fart. As a result, she quit after eating for three days. She said that the children were disobedient at home, groping around and grabbing things. When she took the child downstairs, the child was also disobedient. She didn't sit in the car at all, so let her hug her and say that she had a waist disease and a heart disease. She is so tired that she can't stand it!

I know how difficult it is to take care of my children. I've been trying for 365 days. Taking the children out to play is not only for the children, but also for themselves. I am going crazy at home. I can still talk when I take care of my children with several precious mothers, and I can relax myself when I go out for a walk. I just spend some money on eating and taking the bus. Time flies, life is easy to endure!

I also understand that you are a mother-in-law, and it is not easy for your son to support his family alone. If you really find their small family difficult, then you should help them more, give them money and cook for them. As for the children, you can take them with you, but you can't. After all, it is the mother who works hard, and the mother who takes care of the children is also a child. You don't know how to take care of them!

The most annoying mother-in-law is the kind who does nothing and is blind for a day. No one is better than her, she will say that she can't do it, either with children or with money. If she doesn't hold the baby and take the money, you must learn to shut up and learn to hide!

Summary: Things have happened, so apologize to your daughter-in-law, because your behavior has seriously affected family harmony. Tell her why you regret it. It's not easy to talk to her about raising children. You know her. You will help her with money in the future, give her living expenses every month, and make her small family prosperous. No daughter-in-law will hate an old woman who gives her money. As long as the money is in place, there is no problem that cannot be solved!