Cultivate humility, not arrogance.

In society, at work and in family life, there are often people who always stare at other people's shortcomings, shortcomings and deficiencies and can see their own shortcomings at a glance.

They like to measure others by their own standards and keep their eyes on their own shortcomings. Such people always like to complain about the environment and others.

In fact, Allah is also such a person.

The reason why people are like this is because they are too arrogant and have no humility.

Why do you always want to point out other people's mistakes? In fact, it is to prove that you are right and unwilling to admit your shortcomings.

What do you think is really correct? Not necessarily. Sometimes we just use our own standards and hold our own ruler to measure others.

The so-called good and bad, with personal subjective color, has a strong falsehood and deception, does not conform to the objective reality.

Besides, who can tell the right and wrong in the world clearly?

Everyone's living environment is different, and their education from childhood is different, which also forms different ideas and concepts, and the way to treat people and things is naturally different.

Everyone has his own principles and standards, and the evaluation criteria for foreign things are of course different.

In fact, what you think is right may not be right. In your eyes, the fault of others is not necessarily the fault of others.

This kind of people like to complain about the environment and blame others. In fact, they just want to prove that they are right and gain a sense of moral superiority.

People don't want to admit their mistakes, let alone be criticized by others. It is always more comfortable to say others than to admit your own shortcomings.

A truly open-minded person can tolerate everything in the world and look at people and things around him with a developmental eye. They are humble but not arrogant.

Such people regard life as a kind of practice and constantly practice their words and deeds in the world. Some of them are as broad-minded as a hundred rivers, and their stomachs can hold things that are difficult to hold in the world.

Because they sincerely accept themselves and learn to appreciate everything in the world.

On the road of life, when they encounter problems and setbacks, they will constantly reflect on themselves, find reasons from themselves and find the essence of the problem.

Such people are not in a hurry to deny others, do not think about how to change others, but correct their own behavior, thus affecting others to change.

Such people have growth-oriented thinking and will not criticize others at will.

They often reflect on what they have not done well enough. Such people will not be arrogant, and they will have a very tolerant heart towards people and things.

They respect the law of the development of things, do not deny others at will, and dare to criticize themselves.

There are only three things in life, God's things, others' things and your own things. God's business, you can't control it yourself, just follow the fate; Other people's business, your own words don't count, casually; Do your own thing and change what you can, at any time.

In this way, regardless of god's business, neither blame heaven; Don't care about other people's business, and don't care about others, just quietly cultivate your own fields and manage your own acre and three points.

Don't complain, don't treat others, manage yourself and change what you can.

Life is nothing more than one thing, cultivate your mind!