My mother-in-law is very sensitive. She made me feel very uneasy when she came to our home. How should I adjust my mentality?

My mother-in-law is very sensitive. When she came to our house, she made me feel very uneasy. At this time, I can choose to have a good talk with my mother-in-law. The reason why there are problems between two people is mainly because both sides have not settled down to communicate well. If they could communicate well, these problems might not have happened. So you can talk to your mother-in-law, ask her why she is always so sensitive and see why she always thinks too much. Only by solving these problems can we get along better with our mother-in-law, and only in this way can the whole family become more harmonious.

Communicate well to let her mother-in-law know what she thinks, let her mother-in-law eliminate this sensitive idea, and let her mother-in-law live well at home. The thoughts of the two generations are really different. Everyone in the family still has some contradictions with their mother, let alone between their daughter-in-law and their mother-in-law. You should treat your mother-in-law as you treat your mother. Only in this way can you form a stable family and effectively change Bo's mind.

If you don't live together and can't communicate with your mother-in-law, you can also choose to talk to your husband and his mother. In this case, the other party is definitely willing to accept it. Husband is the bridge between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, so girls must be good at using this middleman. If there is still no way to communicate many times, then try not to live together, because cohabitation will definitely produce greater contradictions.

Everything goes well at home, so family harmony is very important. If cohabitation will make both parties feel troubled and often quarrel, then don't live together. Don't force yourself to change, and don't force your mother-in-law to change, because everyone exists independently. We should solve the problem in a reasonable way and narrow the distance in the right way. Only in this way can we better adjust each other's mentality.